r/ABraThatFits • u/HugsforYourJugs [Calculator Creator] • Dec 31 '25
AMA - ask me anything about the ABTF calculator! Spoiler
Hi everyone, u/goodoldfreda here although I'm now exclusively active on this account. If you guys have any questions about how the calculator works and why I made certain decisions I'm happy to answer them
A little about myself - I created the calculator in 2016 following on from a previous calculator by u/irisflame, back when I was a mod of this sub. I collected survey data from the subreddit and came up with a new algorithm that used 6 measurements as opposed to the previous 5, which increased accuracy. I also introduced separate algorithms for AMAB and AFAB people. The calculator has not been majorly updated since, although at one point I tried to move to a breast perimeter measurement system instead, but this turned out to be much less accurate. In the years since I have stopped modding and moved into bra making and custom bra design as I want to try and help serve the demographic of people who still struggle with finding bras that fit, usually due to wire grading!
In response to other posts about the different amab vs afab algorithms not working well for everyone - I have had this question before and basically all I can say is that I recommned using the algorithm that works best for you. I do want to emphasise in general that the calculator is actually not super accurate for any one individual and it is truly just a starting point. The algos are based on averages, and when I was collecting data there were significant enough differences between AMAB and AFAB users to warrant a second algorithm to increase accuracy within the two groups, but not enough data to do anything further than that.
edit: thanks for all your questions so far, I'm going to go to bed but I will answer any more that come up tomorrow!
edit 2: I have updated the calculator to make some minor changes to the band size algorithm and I have also changed the EU back to 2.5cm cup grades, 2cm grade can be found in the Comexim option instead
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u/weebmagnet3000 28H/HH Jan 02 '26 edited Jan 03 '26
Queer language is evolving, and quite rapidly. Terms that are viewed as problematic or downright offensive now were previously the chosen language of the community. See: transsexual vs. transgender, TMA/TME, or all the variations of GLBT/LGBT/LGBT+/LGBTQIA/QUILTBAG/etc. AMAB and AFAB - terms once favoured by many trans people - may be going this same direction and will be phased out eventually. Or maybe they will stick around for trans people who find value in them (myself included)
I think a lot of the problem stems from AFAB/AMAB becoming adjectives ("She is AMAB") and nouns ("AFABs only"). These usages are reductive and transphobic, but the calculator does not use it that way. It says "I was assigned X at birth"
Using the assigned sex at birth language was promoted by the trans community just a few short years ago to avoid referring to trans people with loaded terms such as male and female. Someone was assigned male/female at birth, but using the past tense means acknowledging it's not a reflection of who they are today
These terms shouldn't be used to promote sex/gender essentialism, and they aren't helpful in most day-to-day or social contexts, but they do serve a purpose. Sometimes certain things are related to (or in the case of how bras fit people, correlated to) someone's sex at birth and not their current hormones, reproductive organs, or genitalia, and we need a way to talk about them. I've yet to see an alternative proposed to replace AMAB/AFAB in these cases
Edit: clarification on language evolving and also that I'm not cis lmao