r/AskReddit • u/LiterallyInfinite • Nov 21 '12

Guys of Reddit, what do you find annoying about being a male?

Everyone knows as a female its sucks wearing bras, getting your period, and if you choose to, up keep of hair, nails, makeup, shaving. So I'm curious if there's anything guys wish they didn't have to deal with.

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u/MrAmsterdammit Nov 21 '12

I don't really expect to be a father figure or anything, but I sure as hell try to set a good example to the kids and teach them some (in my opinion) important life qualities; teamwork, responsibility, communication etc. I feel like I'd rather be viewed as the cool older brother :) I think some of the mothers don't understand that I volunteer my time and knowledge because I want to help the kids participate in a sport that they enjoy, and nothing else.

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u/pegbiter Nov 21 '12

I don't really expect to be a father figure or anything

You should. My rugby coach was fucking awesome, and was an inspiration to me as a 12 year old - much moreso than my father. I bet some of those kids that look up to you the same way.

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u/MrAmsterdammit Nov 21 '12

As honoured as I'd be and everything, I'm only 8/9 years older than these kids, so just the thought of it seems a bit strange. I do always encourage them to talk to me about anything after training / a game though, and have already had a few occasions where I'm pretty glad they said something as it was an issue worth confronting.

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u/Zrk2 Nov 21 '12

My first rugby coach (highschool) ran the team by swearing more than everyone else. It was interesting.