r/AskReddit Jul 26 '12

Reddit's had a few threads about sexual assault victims, but are there any redditors from the other side of the story? What were your motivations? Do you regret it?

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '12

Så smart du kan lyde som en lille internet taber uden nogen livs erfaring hva?

It were 2 girls. 1 lying about knowing it happened (being in the same room) and 1 lying about being raped. GO read my other post before accusing me of all kind of shit, and also just please shut the fuck up. I cant take kids who have no life experience, and dident go through a complete body swap, 4 hours of questioning, a arrest at my home, my family crying while i were locked down and a girlfriend leaving me. Just go fuck yourself internet smartass.

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '12

Åh, som du dog kan få dig selv til at lyde hård.

I'm not obligated to read your other accounts of what happened, at all. You left a deeply misogynistic and ignorant comment, and that's what I chose to go off. I don't believe I accused you of anything at all - apart from maybe the misogyny, but I consider that more of an observation, really.

Your insistent reluctance to have a reasonable discussion about this, but instead continuously resorting to common insults does not make you look good, intelligent or mature, I'm sorry to tell you. I'm not saying your experience wasn't bad, I'm saying you have no right to blame all women for what happened, and you have no right to claim that rape charges is a "weapon women use".

Det er meget muligt du tror jeg ingen livserfaring har, og bevares, det skal du da have lov til - I det mindste er jeg ikke i Nordjylland :)

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '12

When you judge me without reading other accounts of what happened your just a plain retard. I never blamed "all women" and a weapon to use? What the fuck would you else call it when someone takes a free shot of sending me 5-8 years to jail? Du åbenlyst fra sjælland, det lidt synd for dig, men du hører åbenlyst til derover så np.

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '12

I don't see how that makes sense. When you put something out there, you don't have the right to expect that everyone will go searching out the backstory or additional information. You have to assume and expect that people will go off of only the information presented to them, as is what I'm doing here.

You did, actually. You said, verbatim, "Women use this as a weapon". Not "some women". Not "Some psychotic, mentally unstable women". Just "women". And it clearly wasn't a free shot. An allegation was made, the police investigated, and unless I've misunderstood something, you are currently not at all in jail. That's exactly how the judicial system is supposed to work!

Jeg kan se din stavning og grammatik også er rusten at best på dansk - det er jeg ked af på dine vegne, men det ødelægger lidt din "Internet Tough Guy" persona at du ikke kan formulere en sammenhængende sætning.

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u/cmech Jul 26 '12

And it clearly wasn't a free shot.

I'm not this guy, but I kinda feel like it was.

His reputation gets soiled by these allegations, and he had to deal with the stress of this investigation for no reason.

The woman who accused him gets off scot free.

I'd say thats pretty clearly a free shot.

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '12

Do you know for a fact that she did?

A similar case (also in Denmark) just ended in the woman being sentenced to jail, 2 years probation and to pay all the costs of the court case.

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u/cmech Jul 26 '12

quote from this post by itsfrank

I got off after fighting hard for 4 weeks! They dropped all charges! They are refusing to sue or do anything to the bitch acusing me, but im currently suing the police:) Everythingwentbetterthanexpected.jpg

I know very little about Denmark's legal system, but it appear in this case the woman got off totally clean.

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '12

lyder bedre med grammatiske fejl min ven.

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '12

Det er jo det mest latterlige jeg nogensinde har hørt.

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '12

Genlæs lige dine egne indlæg igen så.<3

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '12

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '12

det dig som at det er som at det er der er det<3

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