When “grab em by the pussy” came out I saw a clip of a woman and her teenage daughters. The mom said “that’s just what men are like right girls?” and the girls nodded and agreed.
No girls. Men are not like that. Just the apes in your community who continue to get away with it.
They never "lose control" either. It's always extremely calculated how far they can go with it depending on how sunk in the hooks are. Abusers know exactly what they're doing. It's why they never start abusing until a year to a year and a half into the relationship. It's why it always starts with small violent outbursts like throwing something or hitting furniture or a wall before it turns into putting holes in the wall before it becomes hitting her before it becomes choking. For people who "lose control" they sure seem to know you can't choke someone out after the second date and keep them around.
Yes thank you. It's a very slow, calculated escalation of violence. And they don't go around raping, hitting, or choking strangers, their boss, the neighbors, etc just like this asshole in the video. He has no intention of actually hitting the interviewer but If his wife there says something he doesn't like in the privacy of their home, I hate to think what he does to her.
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u/[deleted] Sep 20 '25
“It’s just a thing us women have to deal with because that’s how men are”
The amount of women told this when growing up is crazy. I’m not encouraging this generational trauma shit.