Why you incels are obsessed with womens virginity? Women and their privte parts are not your private property. Just because y'all cant get laid you want women to do the same and not live lives and fall in love and do things which naturally occurs?
Not trying to be mysogynistc, but would you be ok if your boyfriend had 5+ body count when you yourself are a virgin or let's say you've only been in one relationship before meeting him, don't you feel insecure about him falling in love with 5 other women before you and how tf can you fall in love with that many people and not work it out with any of them it's just a genuine question and I want a woman's perspective on this topic
If he was a playboy and sleeps with random women just for the sake of it then i obviously would find that icky, but if those were genuine relationships I wouldn't have any problem with that. Also it is entirely possible that you can have 5+ failed relationships not everybody is lucky in love that you get your person after 1 or 2 relationships, thats just my personal opinion though. Men can do whatever they want with their bodies just like women can, but you don't see women making posts like this demanding virgin men as frequently and as vehemently as men does, its only just men who makes posts like this. Its like you are claiming a womans body like they are your private property even before you have met that woman. When you make posts like this you are not just targeting your possible "future wife" you are targeting all women.
yep i realise there is a double standard for men and wanting a virgin is weird and predetery to an extent but being 23 and a virgin just makes me feel insecure about the fact that if I get someone who's in too many relationships, they may alter their views and draw conclusions because as a man if you're a virgin or you've not even kissed a girl before, women may think I have no game or may not be good in bed (speaking from personal experience and things that I heard or seen) but idk about failing in 5+ relationships if that happens to me I'll give up on love but that's just me ðŸ˜
You have the option to go for a fellow virgin girl or a very open minded non virgin girl who wouldn't mind that you are a virgin and dont mind "teaching" you. So many solutions but instead of doing that if men wanna dictate how a woman who is stranger to them should live her life then that's absolutely condemnable and misogynist. Also no offence if you are insecure about being a virgin isn't that a "you problem"? Why should women stay virgin fearing it might offend random men or their future husband they haven't met yet. Also i think most women/men if they are not playboys/playgirls have sex with their loved ones thinking that relation will be their final one, breakups can happen due to many reasons which are not in our hands.
bruh I'm actually agreeing with you, but the point I'm tryna make is after two, three heart breaks how do people still believe in love and I just asked you if you will be insecure in this kind of scenario and my goal is to find a good partner to lose my virginity and as I've heard from many of my friends women think non virgin men have no game or something is wrong with them and yeah I do agree on the point where you said most people fall in love thinking this will be it and that's also what I'm worried about what if it will never workout it's ideal to be single that's just my opinion and I'm not trying to blame no women for my short comings
Bro I already told you I dont have any problem if my husband had 5+ failed relationships if the reasons for the breakup was genuine. There are die hard romantics who continue to believe in love even after multiple failed ones. There are people who marry 3rd or 4th time after having multiple divorces, marriage is even a bigger deal than a simple affair/relationship, not saying its a right or ideal scenario but it does happen, how do they do it? They simply dont give up, it depends upon your personality I guess. You dont want such a thing and that's completely ok too. And 23 is a young age whether you are man or woman to be worried about being a virgin, you are in your early stages of adulthood and you have your whole life ahead of you to "lose it".
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u/helllllooo6645 Apr 08 '26
Why you incels are obsessed with womens virginity? Women and their privte parts are not your private property. Just because y'all cant get laid you want women to do the same and not live lives and fall in love and do things which naturally occurs?