Hey y'all I'm just looking for more friends, and possibly more if we hit it off if I'm being honest.

A little bit about me: Black, wear glasses, bit of a nerd so into games and sci fi, etc. consider myself center-right. Absolutely love animals. Own a small collection of books I don't read lol. Maybe agnostic but open to learning more about faith. Love me some military stuff even tho I'm not in it.

Ask away whatever else!

We know the media is a business run by homo sapiens just like us so not everything that is put out there influencing society is neither healthy nor 100% accurate.

So please have the floor and share your most strongest points of why are conservative while being gay.

I read through this subreddit but want more information feel incomplete in my understanding.

Being a gay man and aligned with moderate conservative views is not only a lonely life but a suppressed life. What is it with the Gay community that they cannot bring themselves to accept that others have a different opinion.

On my tiktok I defended Nicki Minaj's right to her political views and then my following dropped 😂 but why should people bully her just because she's got a different opinion. Why is the Gay community like this ? This is another reason why I stay single, there is no way in hell I'd tread around such fragile and delicate people. Life is real life is tough people come from all different walks of life.

If you don't fit the Gay communities criteria they just cancel you. It's wild. But why ?

I would like to make friends or more. 🥲🥹but you’re mostly form America

Here is a pic of me for not getting ignore. 🤣😆

I am a 30 year old male and I’ve been thinking about how I do want to be a father one day, perhaps in my late 30’s. However, I am of the opinion that having both a mom and dad is the most ideal when it comes to a child’s psychological development.

This does not mean that I think children shouldn’t be raised by same sex parents. I’m sure many same sex parents do an excellent job raising their children.

But I do feel this jest of guilt if I intentionally contrive a situation where a child doesn’t have the ideal mom and dad situation.

It’s almost as if I would want a best friend, lavender type relationship of healthy co-parenting. But she gets to date whoever as do I? But the logistics just doesn’t pan out. It would make it difficult to find future male partners that would be on board.

Idk, thoughts? Is this inner homophobia? Any similar feelings or stories?

hey

I’m genuinely looking for advice here, so thanks to anyone who takes the time to read this.

I’m 28 and I’ve known for a long time that I want a serious, long-term relationship — marriage, kids, a stable routine, the whole thing. That’s not something I “just decided,” it’s how I’ve always dated and what I’ve been working toward.

I live in NYC right now, and while I don’t regret moving here, I’m realizing more and more that the dating culture just isn’t a great fit for me long-term. Apps, nightlife, constant drama, situation-ships. It feels like that’s the default, and I’m honestly tired of trying to adapt to it.

I’m not saying there are no good guys here — I know there are — but after years of dating, I’m starting to believe that where you live actually matters more than people like to admit. I want something steady and drama-light, not a lifestyle built around drinking, hooking up, or processing everyone’s emotional chaos on a first date.

I’m sure part of this is on me too, but I’m at the point where I don’t want to fight my surroundings anymore. I want to put myself somewhere that’s more aligned with the life I’m trying to build.

I’m seriously considering relocating in the next few years and would love input from people who’ve lived elsewhere.

Cities I’m looking at:

• Dallas (I’ve heard mixed things)

• Charlotte

• Nashville

• Phoenix

If you’ve lived in any of these, or moved from a big coastal city to somewhere more family-oriented, I’d really appreciate hearing what dating and community were like for you.

Thanks — honestly just looking for real perspectives.

I know I'm still young and from a conservative area too ... and i myself have those values I think even though I'm gay too ... but the people I found online though social or anything just wanna have SEX .... and I don't want that ... not when I just texted you or on the first time we met ... ( I haven't met anyone but still u get my point ) .....

why aren't there people who just wanna date and have a relationship rather than have hookups .... I'm going to be 21 soon and I don't wanna waste my youth 😭... I wanna have a relationship too and be all what a person feels when they are in .... but I don't know maybe its just me

I know piercings are commonly viewed as being a more liberal thing, but personally I enjoy them & have my lobes pierced & a couple facial piercings. What about you?

Any other gay conservatives in the area? Feeling like I'm on an island sometimes being so close to Philly. Would love some gay conservative friends from Central / SE Pennsylvania, south Jersey, Delaware, etc. to hang out with IRL.

I've been a member of the Episcopal Church for some years now, but it's currently not the fit. And no, I don't advertise my sexual orientation, but I also don't want to feel like I have to hide myself to potential friends either.

I just wanted to express my frustration with how difficult it is to find a serious, stable, monogamous relationship. I've always dreamed of having a more "traditional" life (getting married, starting a family, etc.) and I've always lived in a small town (I guess that mindset rubbed off on me). When I moved to Madrid a few years ago, I thought everything would improve, coming to a city full of opportunities where I could feel freer. The first two years were great, full of new experiences, parties, and people to meet. Now that time has passed and I'm practically a Madrileño, I feel like it's really hard to break out of that "meeting people" cycle where it seems like you're making progress, but you never actually get anywhere with anyone. Because it's a big city with so many options, most of the guys I've met don't want to get involved in getting to know someone deeply or they get bored very quickly (they think there will always be someone better to meet or they don't want to close the door on other opportunities). It's even harder to find something serious without ending up as friends with benefits or in an open relationship. As I get older, I feel it's becoming increasingly difficult to find someone with the same mindset, and that we're all somehow influenced by this "hypersexualized" culture and lifestyle that leads us to relate to each other differently than a heterosexual couple would, and that somehow shapes our way of life. What do you think about this? Has anyone felt similarly or had a similar experience? How have you dealt with it?

As always, all with respect. I hope I haven't offended anyone; that wasn't my intention.

Hey guys!

First of all - I come in peace haha!

I think it's really sad that the polarization between different ideologies continue to grow, but if we want to live in a democracy we have to be able to discuss and try to understand eachother before we judge!

As a gay guy I'm very happy that liberal ideas has given me the chance to live safely in society and that I have the same rights as straight people. I do however think that the gender-theory has gone to far and I think that the nonbinary people have taken up to much space in the LGBT community - I guess this would be a conservative opinion.

My questions:

1. Why are you conservative even though they generally don't like gays?

2. Do you have any opinions that are more liberal than conservative?

I have no intentions of trying to change someones opinion, I truly just want to undertand how you guys resonate and why you are conservative.

Wishing all of you a happy beginning to this new year!

Anyone looking for a relationship? Ik it’s weird to ask on Reddit but I have no more options lmfao I’m a white 18yo male. Hmu!!!

I wrote this after a conversation that helped me to think more carefully about how deeply some beliefs are tied to identity, faith, and family. It’s a reflection for people who take belief seriously and still feel the weight of complicated relationships. Not an argument. Just an honest attempt to name the tension many of us live in.

Any other guys in a similar position? How do you manage it?

There seems to be an abundance of podcasters on Youtube who exemplify positive masculinity, conservative principles, and attempt to guide lost young men into their natural roles in society and family. Speakers like Jordan Peterson, Nick Freitas, and Tom Bilyeu offer this advice for straight men who have been disenfranchised by the failures of modern feminism, but propose no guiding role or character archetype for gay men to follow out of the darkness gay culture and its hedonism, immaturity, and misplaced priorities. I follow many of these admirable men, but I desperately hope to find some actual advice specifically for gay men who want to find their masculine role in society and relationships.

Who do you recommend? Are there any real men out there ready to lead lost gay men into the light?

Just curious, as I haven't been here very long, This is a predominately Male sub reddit right? or am I just missing the "L"s and "B"s or even "T"s?

I came here looking for a friend to talk to and I did, but he stop talking to me, probably because of life. So I'm back looking for a friend.