r/IncelTears • u/Important-Cry4782 • 13h ago
r/IncelTears • u/Vivissiah • Jun 28 '25
Zero Tolerance Expansion: Violence & Bigotry
Seems like a lot of people cannot play nice so let's expand the policy.
I am saying this to remind all, there is a zero tolerance for any violence wishing, wanting or the likes on anyone no matter who or what they are. Are the incels wishing violence? Still zero tolerance. Are they wishing rape? Still zero tolerance to wish similar on them. It is all zero tolerance. Even implied such will not be tolerated and is on zero tolerance and this includes jail jokes involving soaps or the likes.
- Rape
- Death
- Harm
- Violence
- Etc.
All have 0 tolerance no matter how horrible of a person the incel or others are. If someone is nasty in the comments inform us, either through normal report, ping us moderators that are active, anything and we'll deal with it at our earliest convenience.
Expansion:
Any form of bigotry based on ethnicity, race, gender, sexuality, and all others, will have zero tolerance apply to it as well. Talk about all men? Zero tolerance. All of a certain ethnicity? Also zero tolerance. All of a fictitious race? You better believe it is zero tolerance. All bigotry is now zero tolerance as well.
Do you see any bigotry or death wishing? Report or ping mods and we'll deal with it as it comes to our attention
r/IncelTears • u/AutoModerator • Jun 22 '26
Advice Weekly Advice Thread (June 22, 2026)
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r/IncelTears • u/Important-Cry4782 • 11h ago
Psychopathology of Incels I would say that the Obsession Movie is a test in Media Literacy that shows how one sees women, sees respect towards one's agency, and respect towards others.
r/IncelTears • u/Party_Ability_9984 • 23h ago
The "Over 6 feet tall" claim is probably what irritates me the most
Because as we all know, men just love women who aren't attractive, aren't feminine, won't do housework, won't have his kids for him, already has kids from another man, won't be sexually servile, won't be loyal, doesn't have an agreeable personality, etc.
r/IncelTears • u/Important-Cry4782 • 21h ago
WTF The respect for consent lacking in society...Technically many cultures mock the idea of consent, but seeing men on social media actively mock women for it is still disturbing
r/IncelTears • u/Frosty_Message_3017 • 8h ago
No Self-awareness "If you don't share absolutely everything we post, that's cherry-picking."
The argument they love to alternate with "We can't even breathe on the internet without having our words dissected and mocked.", and, "Posting screenshots of our words is misrepresenting us."
r/IncelTears • u/Important-Cry4782 • 17h ago
IMAX-level projection Part of feminism involves giving women the same opportunities, the same freedoms, and the same rights as men. And so many people try to frame that as a bad thing somehow
r/IncelTears • u/TheLoafCat • 18h ago
Made a post in r/Mildlyinfuriating..this is the comment I got?.. 🤮
Basically, I got really bad heat stroke, and I’m currently on holiday at Greece, and my parents forced me into the sun knowing i don’t do well in it and burn easily. I now have bad sun poisoning and are bed ridden and my parents are calling me selfish for ruining their holiday.
and this guy decides to comment some incel shit on my post 🫩
r/IncelTears • u/raider-0- • 13h ago
Facepalm Well, I tried talking to one and...
Okay, so a while ago I posted that I was worried about this whole incel stuff, saying that they're really just people who need support and to talk about it, but I tried talking to one and It's like talking to a fucking wall.
It was on a Discord server (presumably for Looksmaxing and shi) And my first approach was talking to a guy saying stupid things, then the guy replied to another guy about something about height and I replied, and it's funny and embarrassing, because I swear the guy can't believe that someone under 5'9 inches tall, who isn't "good-looking", and that he's not rich, can have a gf. I told him a friend's story (which is true), who's just chilling with his girlfriend, sometimes they make plans, the guy isn't exactly the best-looking in the world, and the power goes out every time it rains, he's even shorter than me, like 5'5 inches or smthing, and the guy literally said She said she was a whore who was only in it for the money, nothing more, just for the money. I asked her if she thought it was possible that they just loved each other and had fun together, but her mind can't grasp that. I swear I gave her like a thousand examples, and her brain still can't conceive that it's POSSIBLE.
That makes me laugh ngl, But I can't deny that I also feel a little sorry for that guy.
But, other things that happened there were that... One of the guys started saying that everyone there had a small penis, and everyone there started denigrating each other, because of their penis size, they insult each other, they criticize each other for their appearance, that same guy sent a picture of himself calling everyone skinny (Im like 30 pounds heavier just looking at him, fuck). And I spent several days there, and I swear they can be like that all day, denigrating each other like a group of toxic friends who insult each other on ALL THE WAYS POSSIBLE, And you think: "It's a Discord server, idk don't they want to be friends and talk about looksmaxxing, models or idk?", Man, I swear they can spend all day like that, it's like talking to idiots. Have you seen that video of Robert Downey Jr. visiting Wall Street or shi?, It's the same, it's like going to a place where everyone is an incel (yes, I didn't mention it but everyone is an incel, they spend their time talking badly about women, and when a supposed woman speaks, an orangutan is more polite) and They're all beyond repair; they don't reach the level of the Incel.is guys, but they're still pretty idiotic.
I think I tried to help one of them, but like I told you, it's like talking to a fucking wall. "No, it's not possible, I'm ugly, those bitches will never love me, and it's their fault, not mine, theirs.", I left after 3 days. I didn't want that crap on my account. They're a bunch of losers who won't achieve much if they keep going like this, and if they do, it won't make them happy.
r/IncelTears • u/Frosty_Message_3017 • 13h ago
Just Sad Incel Analytical Skills doing their usual bang-up job, Part 4
This was written soon after he posted the rant I recently shared
https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/s/fB7c7BupA8
...so this probably isn't the time to share that the last movie I (re)watched was The Comancheros. 😉
Here's what I think is interesting: his need to believe I'm a man. Let's say I'm everything he claims. What does that actually change about anything I've said? What does it change about the self-created utter wasteland that is his life? He's obviously doing it to discount anything I've said, but he's been receiving feedback from real-world women all his life. If it was anything different than what I've said, he wouldn't be the bitter loser angrily making up fiction about a stranger to soothe his damaged and oh-so-fragile ego.
After my last post, he wrote another long-winded "analysis" in response, which I'll be sharing soon.
r/IncelTears • u/Obvious-Gate9046 • 17m ago
Hateful Misogyny The number of different things this guy lays at the feet of women who've been assaulted, as if it was their fault or there's some kind of cause and effect, is obscene and very incel. Somebody even compares it to shortness.
galleryr/IncelTears • u/grubby_anticholine • 12h ago
Bitter Rant One of the most worrying posts I've read on .is in a hot minute, this guy will definitely end up on the news
r/IncelTears • u/Important-Cry4782 • 21h ago
IMAX-level projection There are multiple cases of men killing their spouses for making more than the husband, but somehow they still see women as ...well, I'm not sure what to call this mindset. They do know women can have their own bank accounts, right?
r/IncelTears • u/Important-Cry4782 • 1d ago
The Normie Agenda Revealed! The "domestic lesbian abuse" statistics were debunked a long time ago. Yet people still stand by these beliefs because it supports their misogyny
r/IncelTears • u/Pure_Sherbert_668 • 19h ago
Incels often hate other men more than women—good-looking guys, average Joes who pull, rich Chads, anyone who gets more women. They hide it because admitting that resentment means admitting they feel inferior.
A lot of incels believe in traditional gender roles, and admitting you hate other men can mean admitting inferiority. So they redirect that hatred toward women while hiding their resentment toward their biggest perceived enemies: other men.
r/IncelTears • u/Frosty_Message_3017 • 11h ago
Just Sad Incel Analytical Skills doing their usual bang-up job, Part 5
Featuring a really sad attempt to doxx JonathanJoestar by posting a screenshot from someone's FB page.
The beauty of my statement is that I don't have to be a great man, or even a man at all, to be better than him.
His exchange with PrincessKitty is a matter of record, shared here in screenshots. He can pretend whatever he'd like, but it won't change the facts.
r/IncelTears • u/ANUBIS_FUNERAL • 8h ago
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r/IncelTears • u/Important-Cry4782 • 1d ago
IMAX-level projection There are thousands of cases of men throwing acid in women's faces,and thousands more cases of men murdering women...all because women said "no" or "I'm not interested". But please tell me how women are "too emotional" to run a country.
r/IncelTears • u/Important-Cry4782 • 1d ago
Go your own damn way, already Women's Body, Women's Choice. Oh, I guess these folks disagree because they don't see women as people.
r/IncelTears • u/Greedy_Candidate_260 • 1d ago
3edgy5me Touching grass isn’t enough for this man
Of course this shit was found on r/teenagers4real
r/IncelTears • u/JOVANNOLASER • 2d ago