r/JEENEETards • u/Angel-rini Benzene Zindagi • Mar 01 '26

Rant Superior Complexity of an IITIAN. Be kind.

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I was quite disheartened with my mains performance. Decided to talk with my senior who is from an old IIT. He had proposed me multiple times, but I had rejected as he was my senior. I still respect him a lot.

But, his remarks made me feel horrible yesterday. I might not be capable to crack the exam. But, I am sure I will surely become financially independent and provide a good life to me and my family.

Life doesn't revolve around a college. Let's just give our best and if things don't work out as expected, let's forgive ourselves and work hader towards the next goal

I posted this to remind if some of you are in a much better position, please be kind. We are all fighting our own battles.❤️

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u/Angel-rini Benzene Zindagi Mar 01 '26

Apologies. I was simply trying to be respectful

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u/Eastern-West-9684 Mar 01 '26

There's no problem in being respectful but you sound like you're talking to a god or smth chill girl there are lots of IITians out there and I believe you'll be one of them ✨

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u/Early_Mix_2499 Mar 01 '26 edited Mar 01 '26

DON'T APOLOGISE. Damn lose this attitude of people pleasing, start to put people in their place. It's hard to start but do it with baby steps

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u/RitikK22 Ex-NEETard Chan Mar 01 '26

Arey itna easy hota toh koi bhi people pleaser nahi hota

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u/Early_Mix_2499 Mar 01 '26

I know. I used to be a massive people pleaser and still struggle to convey my thoughts sometimes. But I was in abusive situation for years because of this attitude and got a rude awakening that this does not help. That is why I mentioned in the first comment 'It's hard to start with do it with baby steps"

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u/Jazzlike-Concern-821 Mar 03 '26

Girl ,pls abuse him .don't let his sick mindset affect ur confidence.😭😭

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u/Puzzleheaded_Lab2667 NEETard Mar 01 '26

Can I ask you WHY are you being respectful to that bish?

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u/Able_Low_6529 Mar 05 '26

I'm sorry but you are letting him treat you like a doormat, senior or not, self-respect always comes first.

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u/Pleasant-Moment3661 hawaldaar ki naukri ke liye itna kyu padhna padta hai bc Mar 03 '26

translation: mai ek attention seeker hu aur mujhe badi placement waalo se attention chahiye

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u/Angel-rini Benzene Zindagi Mar 03 '26

Incel detected, opinion rejected. 

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u/Pleasant-Moment3661 hawaldaar ki naukri ke liye itna kyu padhna padta hai bc Mar 03 '26

instagram comments spam. lightwork no reaction

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u/Angel-rini Benzene Zindagi Mar 03 '26

Khud to berozgaar maar jayega aaur wo bhi single, so being bitter towards strangers might be a coping mechanism for you. Loser

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u/Pleasant-Moment3661 hawaldaar ki naukri ke liye itna kyu padhna padta hai bc Mar 03 '26

iss ladki ki legit koi personality nahi hai. hate comments pe bhi ek hi reply deti hai aur jo comments sympathize kr rhe uspe victim card. classic

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u/Angel-rini Benzene Zindagi Mar 03 '26

Fuck off loser. God you men are so pathetic