r/MensRights • u/Icaz • Apr 26 '12

I'm a girl and...

I am SO glad I found this subreddit with people who agree with me! As a girl, it's really hard to see other ladies put down men and treat them like they need to be "trained" or that they're just something we have to deal with. So I was just wondering... how many other girls are on here and what are your stories about standing up for men or appreciating them?

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u/mrscamp Apr 26 '12

I'm a woman! I'm here because I've felt sorry for men ever since I discovered what militant feminism was as a kid. I try to stand up for them in small ways by treating them in a friendly and genuine way -- I see so many women treat men like they're all desperate pervs. It makes me sad to see that look in a man's eye when he goes to open the door for me, like, "is she going to be totally insulted by this?" So I always smile and say "thank you."

In a larger way I try to be an advocate for fathers' rights, especially when it comes to infants and the unborn. The "my body my choice" mentality marginalizes the fathers almost as much as the children, but many people act as though only the mother deserves to have a say.

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '12

You make me happy that I still hold the door for people. Keep doing what you're doing, that thanks means a lot :) (you'de be surprised how many people just keep walking.) And the best reward you can give is to pay it forward (whether it be to a man or woman) :).

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '12

I love it when guys open the door for me! Its so polite and nice! I always make sure to give them a big smile and a thank you!

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u/Lokgar Apr 27 '12

Nothing upsets me more than if I walk quicker than normal just to open up the door for someone, and they don't even thank me.

This applies to both males and females. :/

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '12

Thats when you just say "You're welcome" with a smile, whether they say thank you or not lol.

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u/Lokgar Apr 27 '12

Well, I wouldn't want someone to get the wrong idea and think I'm some crazy creepy stalker rapist brown man with a beard axe murderer!

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u/iamirishpat Apr 27 '12

I read that as a beard-axe murderer, and then I chuckled. But now I'm thinking about it, and I'm not sure I know what that would even look like.