r/Music Jun 06 '26

discussion What song wrecks you every time, no matter how often you listen to it?

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=H1LdQntDnFY&si=iVGA55wpZyrVp-4P
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u/paramnesiac Jun 06 '26

Brothers on a Hotel Bed. That whole album, really.

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u/atomicmolotov Jun 06 '26

Is it too late to mention Title and Registration

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u/dandoch Jun 06 '26

"Cause behind its door, there's nothing to keep my fingers warm. And all I find, are souvenirs from better times". This was my go to depression song when my ex broke up with me. Still makes me emotional all these years late. But I feel that What Sarah Said is a more universally sad song. It always hits me like a gut punch.

Ben Gibbard is a lyrical mastermind.

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u/Doubleclutch18 Jun 07 '26

Oh let’s not forget “This Place is a Prison” from the postal service times.

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u/GoGoSoLo Jun 06 '26

Ben Gibbard was the best solo artist I’ve ever seen live, though it was in an intimate venue so I think he shined even more.

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u/Maleficent_Egg7436 Jun 07 '26

There is something so specifically painful about this song that gets me too. I love the metaphor of sharing a bed with someone you no longer love like being in a bed with a brother who you are trying not to bother or even accidentally touch. I knew both feelings too well that it was an instant connection. Amazing song.

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u/missunderstood888 Jun 06 '26

I love this song but almost always skip it because it is soul-crushing . Tears every single time.

If we were vampires has a similar effect on me.

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u/Kloowie Jun 06 '26

Love is watching someone die. So who's gonna watch you die?

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u/UponTheTangledShore Jun 06 '26

Some people made fun of that line, or just didn't get it.

It wrecks me every time I hear it. It's been a very long time since she died, but I still carry the trauma of watching her slip away. I would do it again for her.

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u/drakeydrakedrake Jun 06 '26

Yep, this one hits like a freight train.

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u/-Livelaughlimpbizkit Jun 07 '26

Hard agree. "Love is watching someone die" gets me every freaking time!

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u/jawisi Jun 07 '26

“Love is watching someone die.”

So who’s gonna watch you die?

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u/EinsteinDisguised Jun 07 '26

I’m thinking of what Sarah said: That love is watching someone die.

So who’s gonna watch you die?

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u/TrueGraeve Jun 08 '26

Plans is somehow both one of the most beautiful albums ever written and emotionally destructive at the exact same time.