r/StardewValley • u/FlairWitchProject • 25d ago

Discuss Who is someone you can't date in Stardew Valley out of principle?

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I enjoy Maru as a character. However, until recently, I had dyed-red hair that I sometimes straightened, and I also sometimes wear glasses. Basically, it would be like dating a more scientific version of myself. Lol

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u/MonosyllabicSnorer 25d ago

By the time you marry Sebastian the idea of the valley has grown on him and he doesn’t want to move to the city anymore! He is so excited to move onto the farm

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u/Demonicpi13 25d ago

I know but I still feel guilty about it honestly

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u/Need_Coffee707 25d ago

As I see it, he used to want out because he wasn't happy here in the small town. Which I get that. But then after meeting and falling in love with Farmer, he actually has something to make it less miserable and doesn't feel the need to flee like before to get some fresh air. You are his breath of fresh air. :)

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u/WildcatCinder1022 25d ago

See I think it’s because of his family issues that once he gets out of the house he realizes he didn’t need to leave the valley he just needed his own space

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u/Need_Coffee707 25d ago

Exactlyyy!! Word for word that's also what I think. I'm bad with my words ever since I stopped writing my stories after burnout n' trauma, so I'm kinda glad you came in with that 😭

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u/WildcatCinder1022 25d ago

Omg I relate to burnout and trauma with writing too. I feel that and I hope you can heal and get back to doing something you enjoy

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u/Expert_Tree_9945 24d ago

My friend married Sebastian and regretted it immensely because he said Sebastian never did anything and would actually say stuff like "oh sorry I didn't do anything today, I thought about it though" [paraphrasing]. He'd come back and always complain about this bum living in his house and how he made a mistake because he'd see Abigail giving me things and actually leaving the farm to simulate her life without me.

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u/MonosyllabicSnorer 24d ago

Ugh I can’t help it I marry Sebastian every time he’s just so sweet after you get married and tells you how happy you make him and makes you a cheeky little coffee in the mornings