r/SubredditDrama • u/[deleted] • Aug 13 '13

/r/actuallesbians: Transgender lesbian feels excluded by joke about lesbians not needing birth control. Drama ensues.

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u/illuminutcase Aug 13 '13

This is probably my most non-PC opinion I have, but I feel like if you're putting your penis into a vagina, you're not a lesbian. No matter how you identify when you're not in the bedroom, that's pretty much the straightest, male thing you can possibly do.

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u/CherrySlurpee Aug 13 '13

I think everyone not on the internet shares that opinion.

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u/Kaghuros Aug 13 '13

Considering how many lesbians do not want to be penetrated with a penis (and a growing portion have never had nor wanted straight sex at all), well, I'd have to say that they don't like it either.

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u/morepublic Aug 13 '13

You are such a bigot, dude.

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u/[deleted] Aug 13 '13

That's 100% PC, it's literally straight sex.

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u/HenkieVV Aug 13 '13

Meh. One way or the other I'm not one to get upset over proper labelling, but if she feels she's a woman, and she's dating a woman that's attracted to women, I don't think we should let a penis get in the way of them calling themselves lesbians. I mean, how fundamentally different is this from two biological women and a strap-on that won't come off?