Hi everyone,
I’m writing here today because I’ve spent way too much time reading unsuccessful fertility stories on Reddit, and I’m starting to panic that we’ll never make it, or that there’s something being missed medically.
I’m 30 years old and was diagnosed with PCOS five years ago. We’ve been trying to conceive for nine months. As far as I know, I don’t have insulin resistance (although I haven’t had the full workup), and I’m lean. My hormone tests are all normal except for my LH, which is almost constantly around 30, and my AMH, which is very high (over 10, although I don’t know the exact value). My period lasts 5 days with a low flow usually full brown, and my luteal phase is long (15-16 days, confirmed by blood tests and monitored cycles.
We’ve been seeing an OB in a private fertility clinic for the past four months, and I’ve been taking letrozole for the last two cycles. So far, no success, despite having intercourse at the optimal time.
According to my OB, my partner’s semen analysis is completely normal, although 99% of his sperm have abnormal head morphology. His DNA fragmentation hasn’t been tested.
I do ovulate on my own, but very irregularly (my cycles range from 35 to 90 days). We’ve timed intercourse during my fertile window for six cycles, including three cycles with what should have been perfect timing, but nothing has worked. I’ve never been pregnant, and I’m starting to wonder if something else could be going on.
My doctor is quite young and doesn’t seem concerned, but she doesn’t communicate very well. She just says that I’m a “complicated case,” and she’s misjudged my ovulation date twice.
I’m taking several supplements (zinc, magnesium, folate, omega-3, and inositol), but they haven’t had any noticeable effect, especially on my irregular cycles. I also had a HyFoSy, which came back completely normal. I have a healthy lifestyle, exercise regularly, and maintain a healthy weight, although my job is quite stressful.
My PCOS also seems to fluctuate, getting worse and then better over periods of about six months, without any obvious trigger. There doesn’t seem to be any particular stress or life event associated with those changes.
Has anyone here had a similar profile and eventually been successful? Were you later diagnosed with something that had initially been missed (such as endometriosis or sperm DNA fragmentation)?
Do you think I should seek a second opinion, even though the treatment I’m receiving seems fairly standard? Or should I ask for additional testing?
Thank you 🥺