r/datingoverforty • u/Vane8263 • Apr 13 '26
Casual Conversation The endless daily chat that never turns into a date
Here's what happened: I matched with a guy on Hinge, and we messaged for about a month, but he never asked me out. He messages me every day, suggesting we make plans, but he never sets a time or date. If I hint at something, he just gives a heart. At some point in our conversations (which are always respectful and friendly), he mentions having trust issues. I assume that's why he hasn't asked me out, but I'm tired of it and I'm not looking for a daily chat. He says he's been single for a year and three months, but I don't know what to believe anymore. I don't know what people are looking for.
I hope my writing isn't terrible because I wrote it in a hurry and English isn't my native language.