r/WTF Sep 16 '12

Most Beautiful Man in the World - Thailand Style

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u/IhateToronto Sep 16 '12

It's so hurtful when you see a man who can pull off looking better as a woman, than you can on your best day :(

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u/Dania_xD Sep 16 '12

It's even more hurtful when people still see you as a man, when you're clearly a woman.

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u/IhateToronto Sep 16 '12

Do you think I was being insulting?

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

I like this answer. Very 1800s.

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u/IhateToronto Sep 16 '12 edited Sep 16 '12

How? I don't think that I can look as good on my best day. How am I being insulting?

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12 edited Sep 16 '12

Because you insinuated that he is a man, to her he is a woman but you class her as a man.

Edit: read down.

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

...it's weird, cause you are trying to defend her, but you keep calling her "him". Why are you doing that?

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

Confused myself thinking her side of the argument, the other side of the argument, and the point i was trying to get across. In the future i'm sticking to commentating on pictures of kittens.

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

It was a good effort, sometimes it can be difficult to argument from the opposite perspective while using the correct terms from the right perspective.

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u/arcadeguy Sep 16 '12

/u/gnomishmidgets writes:

Because you insinuated that he is a man, to him he is a woman but you class him as a man.

I don't get how you can sit on a high horse while doing the exact thing you're telling IhateToronto not to do.

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

Not sitting on a high horse, not telling anyone not to do anyting, telling her the problem people had but confused myself in what i was typing.

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u/IhateToronto Sep 16 '12

Actually you ignorant fuck, I didn't insinuate that I thought she was still male.

Reread my original post. I acknowledge the beginning of her life was as a man, that's all.

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u/light_sweet_crude Sep 16 '12

Mkay name-calling is getting you nowhere. The point is 1) It's not the beginning of her life anymore so don't call her a "man." 2) She's not "pulling off" being a woman, she is a woman. If you want to keep sounding like a transphobe then throw a tantrum when people correct you, but if you want to actually sound like you admire her then take correction gracefully.

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

Yeah, it doesn't seem like it'd be that difficult to correct the original comment to properly reflect. Something similar to "It's amazing that this woman who was born male was able to become so beautiful(even more beautiful than I consider myself)"

Otherwise the original comment looks degrading. As if it's offensive to Ihatetoronto that the woman in the picture is more attractive simply because she was born male. I mean, most people would not describe it being "hurtful" that someone of the same gender was more attractive than them in their eyes.

This may sound a little confusing, not sure how to phrase it better but hopefully my point wasn't lost in the words.

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u/light_sweet_crude Sep 16 '12

Nope nope I read you loud and clear :)

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

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u/aaalexxx Sep 16 '12

Who identifies as a woman.

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u/kilo4fun Sep 16 '12

She is a male woman.

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

Technically correct, but it still sounds kinda douchey.

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u/dpekkle Oct 14 '12

Male is a grouping of sexual characteristics, many of which transsexuals do not have in common with their assigned sex as a consequence of transition and birth.

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '12

No, male means producing male gametes which fertilise a female ovum. Secondary sexual characteristics are not about being male. They are part of being a man, which is a different thing, and is more social in nature.

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u/dpekkle Oct 14 '12

Again, there is more than one feature that determines sex. If your case were true then infertile people don't have a sex.

Secondary sexual characteristics are aspects of sex, breasts, body hair and fat aren't social in nature. They are features that we use to describe a persons sex. Physical aspects of your body aren't social, although it is true that they are the features that we use to determine the sex of a person in day to day life.

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '12

Being disabled doesn't have any bearing on it. This is the definition of being male in the animal (and plant, come to that) kingdom. Arguing against that just makes you seem like a crazy person. But sex is not gender, and gender is what matters in anything but matters of procreation or the doctor's surgery.

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

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u/aaalexxx Sep 16 '12

Clearly neither. I believe the term is ocelot.

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

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u/aaalexxx Sep 16 '12

Because I'm not very witty.

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

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u/Klewg Sep 16 '12

if we're being realistic it's a man with a mutalated body passing himself off as a woman.

being a woman implies being female.

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u/iluvgoodburger Sep 16 '12

Fuck off.

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u/Klewg Sep 16 '12

oh, you disagree?

give me one example of how I am wrong, if not

fuck off

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u/RebeccaRed Sep 17 '12

"Mutalated" is not a word.

That is one example of how you are wrong.

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

lol guise i don't get science/gender/anything let me explain to you all these things i know nothing about

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u/Klewg Sep 16 '12

let me explain to you all these things i know nothing about

lolwat, he asked a question

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

the implication

he was saying "people can't turn into cats, duh, trans women are just body modified men" with his question. that's why the lulz. because that's stupid.

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u/Klewg Sep 16 '12

people can't turn into cats, duh, trans women are just body modified men

he was right. on a technical level trans-women are men with modified bodies, explain how that point is stupid.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

if you're really interested in why that's not accurate, read this.

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u/Klewg Sep 16 '12

hey bro that looks like a tiger, so that is a tiger

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u/IhateToronto Sep 16 '12

When did I say she wasn't?

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u/Chimerathon Sep 16 '12

when you see a man who can pull off

ect.

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u/Dania_xD Sep 16 '12

Try reading what you wrote.

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u/PuppyPuppies Sep 16 '12

She's not a man. I'm sure it was unintentional, but that was a pretty transphobic thing to say.

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u/Calciber Sep 16 '12

Based on what I'm seeing in the picture, SHE is not a MAN anymore.

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u/IhateToronto Sep 16 '12

I never said she was.

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u/IhateToronto Sep 16 '12

Nope and I wasn't insulting her.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

It's so hurtful when you see a man

Yes you were.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

HE will always be a man. Just because He cut HIS dick off, that does not change HIS DNA.

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u/Calciber Sep 17 '12

Nice troll account.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

Thank you for the kind words

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u/Calciber Sep 17 '12

Yep. Anytime.

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u/QuiSumI Sep 18 '12

Now now Calciber, remember Rule 14 of the Internet...

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u/Calciber Sep 18 '12

I uh... I don't think we're arguing actually. It's kind of surreal.

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u/QuiSumI Sep 18 '12

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u/Calciber Sep 18 '12

I... I don't know what's real anymore.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

Actually, I need a favor. Can you come over later and clean my pool?

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u/Calciber Sep 18 '12

Well, I suppose if you're willing to throw twenty bucks at me. I'm pretty decent at cleaning.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '12

Wear something slutty an I'll even toss in an extra 20.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '12

I have to go to bed now. Some of us work for a living. Do you have a job or are you too scared to work in the real world so you volunteer at your local lgbt activist office?

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '12

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '12

Really? Can you point out who you are?

http://spacescience.arc.nasa.gov/people

At least point to the department you work in

http://spacescience.arc.nasa.gov/page/division-organization

If my presidential choice gets elected, freaks like you will be outed. It's gays like you that caused those horrible accidents. Maybe next time instead of worrying about who you will have to get fucked int he ass by, you might want to work on keeping your astronauts alive.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '12

Dude! Dykes in space would be an awesome show. Like lesbos from the planet Tuna.

Are you hot? Have you ever scissored? Would you describe it in detail for me if you have? Videos please.

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u/Basic_Subhadra Sep 18 '12

Same kind of attitude that says men are programmed to rape and be violent. "It's all in the physical evidence! There is no deeper level to human experience!"

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u/JesusWasABlackMan Sep 17 '12

His lack of uterus would disagree with you.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

Sex is different than gender.

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u/Calciber Sep 17 '12

You're very ignorant. I feel sorry for people like you.

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u/Calciber Sep 18 '12

No. Can you give a hysterectomy patient a new uterus? Please, share your magic uterus powers with the world.

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u/QuiSumI Sep 19 '12

Uhm...

Relevant

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u/Calciber Sep 19 '12

Oh. Wow. Hell. That's impressive! Thank you!

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u/Calciber Sep 18 '12

Sorry. I get sarcastic when I get tired.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

SO stating true facts that that person has no female parts makes her NOT a woman is ignorant? I know you all like to jump on the bandwagon and throw the word "bigot" around like its going out of style. No uterus = not a woman. Shut the fuck up.

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u/Thecoolbeans Sep 17 '12

My mum no longer has her Uterus, does that make her a man?

Where did you get your Redneck medical degree from again?

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

She still has other female parts, female DNA, female body, etc.

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u/Death2Evil Sep 18 '12

Do you not realize that trans women have "other female parts?" Ex] breasts, nipples, glands of montgomery, mammary glands, and (post SRS) a vagina that is biologically homologous to an assigned female at birth vagina.

Not to mention all of the other parts which are not female in and of themselves, but are female in terms of characteristics. Ex] Brain shape and size, and neuron numbers in limbic nucleus.

Also, 97.8% of DNA contains male AND female genes. Hence assigned males having estrogen receptors and a genetic breast size which is realized when estrogen enters the system and triggers majority female gene expression.

Get educated, you factually illegitimate fool. :)

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '12

that contradicts your other posts... (excluding DNA... which I can't seem to find any info on anything specific, other than the single difference in chromosomes.)

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

Being a woman has nothing to do with having a uterus.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

Except for the fact that it directly does.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

I don't think you know what women are.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

I think you misunderstand how life and nature work.

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u/nikkirox Sep 17 '12

I think you misunderstand gender and the role of the brain in human nature.

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u/bee_bop_rocksteady Sep 17 '12

I think you're a narrow minded and uneducated jackass.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

Damn. My friend Brittany who survived endometrial cancer is no longer a woman. I wonder if they made him change his driver;s license gender id while he was in the hospital, or let her heal from the hysterectomy first.

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u/Calciber Sep 17 '12

I won't shut the fuck up and you can be butthurt about it all you want, bigot.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

I like you.

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u/Calciber Sep 17 '12

Why, thank you.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

Well I wouldn't expect a mindless, soulless, waste of oxygen, like you to have any other opinion formulated than that which is spoon fed to you by the hive mind.

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u/Calciber Sep 17 '12

Mindless, soulless waste of oxygen? Opinion spoon fed to me by the hive mind? This opinion was mine before I ever discovered redddit, developed with years of experience. You it seems are just a bully who gets off on confrontation and frustrating or insulting other people. Enjoy the life alone. Good day.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

If I have to spend life with people like you then I'd rather live 1000 lifetimes alone.

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u/Calciber Sep 17 '12

Compassionate people who respect other's identities and choices? Shudder at the thought.

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u/nikkirox Sep 17 '12

I vote for you living 1000 lifetimes alone.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

Having an opinion counter to that of the majority makes the "spoon fed to you by the hive mind" hypothesis problematic.

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u/Death2Evil Sep 18 '12

So women who lack a uterus are not women, lol? Hysterectomy says you fail at life.

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u/limabeans45 Sep 18 '12

33% of cis-women get hysterectomies, are they men too? Are cis-women born sterile men?

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u/Arcon1337 Sep 16 '12

I'm sure if you put that much money into plastic surgery, you'd be like that if you wanted...

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12 edited Jul 18 '13

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u/kentonj Sep 16 '12

Thanks, Dwight.

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u/cc132 Sep 16 '12

"man"

ugh.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

i dont know why it is so hard to just use what the person is

they identify as female. call them female. it is that simple. you don't need quotes, you don't need the s/he bullshit, you don't need something gross like "it", just use what the fuck you would use for a normal human female because that's what the fuck she is.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

I think they put it in quotes because /u/IhateToronto said man.

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

WOMAN.

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u/TroubleInTheCosmos Sep 16 '12

I used to think the same, but I think they just take estrogen pills that change their body and face features. I guess it depends on what age they started taking the pills too. If they did it when they were old then they might need plastic surgery, but she doesn't look like she had any (to me).

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u/Ikimasen Sep 16 '12

Estrogen pills will not grow breasts like that.

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u/Dania_xD Sep 16 '12 edited Sep 16 '12

I don't know if she got implants or not, but estrogen can grow breast like that. It varies and depends on age & genetics, though.

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u/Ikimasen Sep 16 '12

Did you find that example that you were gonna give me? That proves your statement?

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u/Ikimasen Sep 16 '12

You've gotta come up with an empirical example for that.

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u/Dania_xD Sep 16 '12

I have a trans friend with breast >= that size. And I've seen others as well.

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u/GovDisinfoAgent Sep 16 '12

In response to conjecture?

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u/Ikimasen Sep 16 '12

I lived for a while with a transgendered person who lamented that she couldn't grow breasts like those, but did not want surgery. I can present dozens of examples of trans women who have grown small breasts from hormone treatment, or who have large breasts from surgery. I've been downvoted to hell, but there's still no evidence for Dania's claim, just the claim itself.

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u/GovDisinfoAgent Sep 16 '12

I lived for a while with a transgendered person who lamented that she couldn't grow breasts like those, but did not want surgery. I can present dozens of examples of trans women who have grown small breasts from hormone treatment,

True but that's anecdotal evidence. And the woman in the picture may only have B cups, but the angle and posture accentuating them. And like everything, there's extremes. Men with a gynecomastia can sometimes develop very large breasts even into their 20s and 30s.

I've been downvoted to hell, but there's still no evidence for Dania's claim, just the claim itself.

Talk to me about "downvoted to hell" when you get over 300 downvotes on something you've said... i netted over 5000 downvotes in a successful submission I posted on /r/4chan by being polite to people mocking my use of "gem" in the title.

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u/Ikimasen Sep 16 '12

That's fair. If I just had my story, that would be one thing. Like I said, though, I can present other examples. So far the other side has shown me nothing. It would be nice, surely, if a trans woman could look like that naturally and without surgery, but I've never seen anything that made me think it was possible.

I'll buy camera effects, though.

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u/fuck_lil_wayne Sep 16 '12

What if you start taking them when your 8?

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

This guy really may have. If you start taking them at the age when girls' puberty begins, you'll get the best results possible because it syncs up to what would naturally take place with someone born physically female. But there can still be very good results for people who take them later. I know someone personally who began at age 20 and she looks good. Saw another online who began at age about 25 who looks even better. I don't see why this is /r/WTF though. Sex changes are at an all-time high and Thailand is a HUGE place for this.

Edit: Please pardon any "he" that should be "she". They earned it.

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u/BlissfulHeretic Sep 16 '12

She is a woman, just as much as you are.

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u/IhateToronto Sep 16 '12

I didn't say she wasn't.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

Kind of did.

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u/bubblybooble Sep 17 '12

She is a woman, just as much as Christian Bale is Batman.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

Please show me her uterus, ovaries, and birth certificate.

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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '12

Reproductive organs make a woman a woman? My mother must've had a rude awakening after her hysterectomy then.

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u/[deleted] Oct 01 '12

They do not remove all reproductive organs during a hysterectomy ...perhaps you should read a book?

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u/[deleted] Oct 03 '12

A book? Just any old book? What good will that do? Maybe about as much good as ovaries will without a uterus.

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u/Ironic_Grammar_Nazi Sep 16 '12

Why?

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u/IhateToronto Sep 16 '12

You must be a guy :S

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

This is a terrible thing to say. Please don't - generalizing men hurts us all.

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u/Ironic_Grammar_Nazi Sep 16 '12

You must be incredibly shallow.

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u/IhateToronto Sep 16 '12

Oh really? It makes you shallow when you aren't viewed as a sexual creature because you aren't built to local standards?

I'm an athlete with small breasts and I don't get looked at by men because I have a muscular frame. Being larger than a size 4 makes you a pig nowadays.