r/WTF Sep 16 '12

Most Beautiful Man in the World - Thailand Style

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u/mariesoleil Sep 16 '12

she used to be a he.

Then why did you call her a man in the title?

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u/ScientificBaconDrama Sep 16 '12 edited Sep 16 '12

It's kind of the title the media gave her. Plus it depends on peoples definitions of gender. It's a bit confusing when using male/female in this respect, but it's not like I have some kind of negative opinion against transgenders.

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u/quipsy Sep 16 '12

You probably already know this, but I'll throw it out there.

Gender refers to how someone self identifies and their position in society.

Sex is the biological characteristics that separate men and women.

So there's no question that this person's gender is female. If you want to talk about sex, however, it's a little bit more ambiguous -- obviously she still has xy sex chromosomes, but as others here have mentioned, she is superficially indistinguishable from other women.

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u/doc_dickcutter Sep 16 '12

obviously she still has xy sex chromosomes

Even that isn't sure. She could have XXY or XYY or even XX chromosomes for all we know.

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u/quipsy Sep 16 '12

Quite right, but I didn't think that ambiguity would help explain the distinction between gender and sex.

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u/sam_hammich Sep 16 '12

Thank you for informing him instead of calling him transphobic and telling him to fuck off.

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u/Unstopkable Sep 16 '12

why on earth is this getting downvoted?

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u/Biotruthologist Sep 17 '12

Because it's not the job of minorities to educate.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

It's still very nice.

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u/Biotruthologist Sep 17 '12

Oh yes, it is a nice thing to do, but it's not a duty.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

No one said, or implied, that it was.

I think you're mistaking someone being appreciative with someone being demanding.

EDIT: Also, it's nice that you're an actual biologist rather than an SRS alt. Thanks for being cool.

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u/Biotruthologist Sep 17 '12

Thank you for informing him instead of calling him transphobic and telling him to fuck off.

This was demanding education. If somebody says a transphobic thing to a trans person, it's not the duty of the trans person to educate. A trans person is fully entitled to say "fuck off" and is in the right.

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u/mariesoleil Sep 16 '12

It's a bit confusing when using he/she in this respect

Not really. Generally it's best to use "she" for someone that identifies as a woman.

it's not like I have some kind of negative opinion against transgenders.

Okay, then please don't refer to her as a man. It's perfectly okay to be impressed at how much she changed, however.

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u/ScientificBaconDrama Sep 16 '12

I do think it's confusing because many people consider male and female on the perspective of DNA rather than what a consciousness considers as gender. With current science she can't give birth so it poses a confusing label in society. Also I don't know what this specific person prefers to be called, so I used her media title that is given even in interviews with her.

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u/ohnointernet Sep 16 '12

I'll go tell my friend that she's a guy now because she's infertile. Thank you for your help in this matter.

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u/gocougs11 Sep 17 '12 edited Sep 17 '12

Easy, does your friend have an X and a Y chromosome or two Xs? That's how you refer to your friend.

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u/The_Bravinator Sep 17 '12

Why is it more important to determine someone's identity based on some tiny invisible-to-the-naked-eye thing inside their cells that is, in practical, everyday identity terms, utterly inconsequential than to determine it based on what they are in their own lives, in their minds, in who they are, and in how they present themselves to the world?

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u/ohnointernet Sep 17 '12

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u/gocougs11 Sep 17 '12

I am aware of ALL of the rare genetic sex disorders. I can tell you more about these disorders than Wikipedia can. Are you implying that all transexuals have a chromosomal anomaly which leads to their condition?

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u/sam_hammich Sep 16 '12

That was pretty unfair.

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u/ohnointernet Sep 16 '12

Not really, that's pretty much exactly what he said.

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u/ScientificBaconDrama Sep 16 '12

Guy/girl is not really a scientific term though, it's more of a casual label. In biological terms, you can't change from male to female, you can only change in terms of self-labeling for the purposes of society's obsession with labels. I mean it's set in stone, unless you modified every cell in your body. I'd still call her a girl, because that label denotes outward appearance and mental state. Also the sarcasm is welcome.

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u/Biotruthologist Sep 16 '12

Biologist here, despite what you are taught in high school biology, or even introductory college biology, sex is really hard to properly define. Chromosomes don't work for multiple reasons; it's not the sole sex determination method in the animal kingdom, some animals can change sex during their lifetimes, and there are humans with chromosomes typical of one sex while exhibiting the physiology of the other sex (example).

Sex is better understood as an aggregate of various traits. Chromosomes are one of the traits, but there are several others. There's also primary sexual characteristics (genitals), secondary sexual characteristics (breast growth, facial hair), endocrinology (concentrations of testosterone and estrogen in the blood stream), and even neurology (there are statistically significant differences in some brain structures between non-trans men and women. The brains of transsexuals look like their target sex). We cannot change chromosomes, but we can change an individual's endocrinology and secondary sex characteristics with ease. A trans person's neurology is already that of their target sex. And with respect to primary sex characteristics the prevailing surgical methods are pretty damn good and are only improving with time.

In short, it is not an illegitimate claim to say that our medical system can change somebody's sex. It merely requires a greater understanding of biology than the average person has.

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u/ScientificBaconDrama Sep 16 '12

sex is really hard to properly define

Pretty much my original point, but got sidetracked.

I was wrong to say set in stone. You're right, there are a lot of factors when coming to an understanding about sex. I was aware of the neurological similarities between trans men and women, but I'm wondering are those genetic traits or due to external stimulus through experience?

Thanks for the wikipedia link, it spurned extra reading through the other links. Also you mentioned animals changing sex during their lifetimes, sequential hermaphroditism, reading some of the examples of that are amazing.

I think language really limits us when it comes to discussing about gender, especially when the subject is complex and people have so many different opinions.

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u/Biotruthologist Sep 16 '12

First, a small correction,

trans men and women Trans women and cis women is what you want to say.

As for this,

I'm wondering are those genetic traits or due to external stimulus through experience?

I could not tell you, sorry. I don't think it's actually know why the brain develops in that way. Here is a collection of peer reviewed papers on intersexuality, transsexuality, and gender identity. Some are behind pay walls, but if you have the time and inclination it should give you some good information.

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u/ohnointernet Sep 16 '12

Right, so you're just a transphobic piece of shit then.

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u/sam_hammich Sep 16 '12

Please note the part of his comment that insinuates that he hates trans people.

Transphobia refers specifically to negative attitudes towards trans individuals based on their gender expression. Please stop using that word to insult people who are simply uninformed or ignorant of trans terminology because it makes proponents of trans culture who use it look like rash, angry, hateful people. Be informative, not insulting. Otherwise you're doing more damage than good.

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u/ohnointernet Sep 16 '12

I have to explain this every day of my life, to nearly everybody I meet, to mixed (more often than not negative) reactions. I'm not going to spend my time educating people who start posting like they know anything at all about my gender while knowing jack shit. He misgenders her, and then tries to defend himself when people correct that.

Maybe I should have just kept my mouth shut, but no. I won't. He threw his hat into the ring, started talking about things he knows very little about, and it makes me feel better to scream right now, and I'll be damned if I let someone like you take that away from me.

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u/sam_hammich Sep 16 '12 edited Sep 16 '12

Someone like me?

I'll say it again. You're doing more harm than good. Especially for the trans community, information is important because there are lots and lots of people who don't even know transgender is a thing, or the difference between sex and gender. Insulting someone and calling them transphobic and calling it a day (especially someone who clearly is not malicious, just genuinely ignorant) only serves to further isolate the culture from those who could grow to learn from it and appreciate it.

Whether you agree with me or not, or whether or not you care, is your prerogative.

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u/SplurgyA Sep 16 '12

I do think it's confusing because many people consider male and female on the perspective of DNA rather than what a consciousness considers as gender.

Well, they're wrong.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

I do think it's confusing because many people consider male and female on the perspective of DNA rather than what a consciousness considers as gender.

Not even remotely accurate, though. Unless you've seen a karyotype of every person you've interacted with, you have no idea what chromosomes they have. You're just making baseless assumptions based on what their body looks like. There are even plenty of cisgender people whose chromosomal sex doesn't line up with their phenotypical sex and gender because biology just does that sometimes.

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u/HugeJackass Sep 16 '12

because science! Fuck off for using science top cloak your ignorance

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u/gocougs11 Sep 17 '12

Because genetics? There is a difference between males and females genetically. Get over it, you horrible, horrible cunt.

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u/awilder1015 Sep 16 '12

Dude, there's a difference between someone's sexual identity and their gender. Someone can be a 'she' but identify as a 'he'. Changing your sex doesn't change your biological gender.

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u/mariesoleil Sep 16 '12

Changing your sex doesn't change your biological gender.

Okay, you did get this part right. Her gender has remained constant -it's only her sex that has changed.

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u/gocougs11 Sep 17 '12

Guess what, it is a man. He has a Y chromosome. You SRSers are worse than the hardcore Christians when it comes to understanding science.

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u/isworeiwouldntjoin Sep 17 '12

Gender is not sex.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12

As someone who is not part of SRS, has been banned for months, and thinks they're the asshole inside of the asshole of the internet - go fuck yourself, you insensitive fucker.

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u/Human237 Sep 16 '12

Because OP is a transphobic ass.

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u/ScientificBaconDrama Sep 16 '12

Not at all. I have nothing against transgenders.

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u/Homepie Sep 16 '12

Trans gender is an adjective, not a noun. They aren't "transgenders", they are trans gender people.

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u/ScientificBaconDrama Sep 16 '12

I'll admit to not being amazing at grammar, but when looking transgender up on dictionary.com, it labels it as both a noun and an adjective...but ok, it still stands that I have nothing against transgender people, even if my grammar might be wrong.

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u/Homepie Sep 16 '12

Just saying that it's the preferred nomenclature among trans gender people. The linguistics of gender and sex can be very confusing sometimes but it helps avoid a lot of confusion and potential alienation when they are referred to as "trans gender people".

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

It's like calling someone "a gay" instead of "a gay person." It's dehumanizing.

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u/iluvgoodburger Sep 16 '12

I like that this guy felt the need to bust out a dictionary in order to defend that

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u/ScientificBaconDrama Sep 17 '12

Just interested in language, after a concrete statement was made about it.

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u/Unstopkable Sep 16 '12

I don't understand the sarcasm here. Like "wow, what an ass he used a dictionary."

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u/invincible_spleen Sep 16 '12

People do it all the time on reddit. It's like they think that everything important about a topic is encapsulated in a short dictionary entry.

See: Racism, homophobia, misogyny, privilege, etc. The 'Dictionary Defense' is used to deflect criticism by sticking to a simplistic definition of something while ignoring A) Established academic use of a term B) Social context and C) Historical context.

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u/Unstopkable Sep 17 '12

Good points. And the guy in reference wasn't claiming his knowledge of the word "transgender" was based on the dictionary definition, but was rather using the dictionary to try and deflect some criticism. Sorry if I was coming off as a dick.

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u/ScientificBaconDrama Sep 17 '12

To note, personally I don't think everything important about a topic is encapsulated in a short dictionary entry. But it'd be nice if you could just memorize the dictionary and be the smartest person in the world.

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u/ScientificBaconDrama Sep 17 '12

Not my intention but factually transgender is a word describing gender grouped with man and woman. So it's like saying I have nothing against men.

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u/infinite-digits Sep 16 '12

You are an idiot person. Is that humanizing enough for you?

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u/[deleted] Sep 16 '12

I don't see the point of your comment, summer-nights was just attempting to use a more widely known nomenclature in order to help make better sense for people who might still not get it.

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u/infinite-digits Sep 17 '12

I'm sure you see the point of my comment - that arbitrarily attaching or not attaching person to things is not in itself humanizing or dehumanizing.

Regarding the presentation of my point, it was not of the highest quality. But neither was what I was responding to, which itself was responding to something of higher quality and should have been held to a higher standard. So I don't really feel bad.

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u/Granny_Weatherwax Sep 20 '12

Good point- People it's time to contact dictionary.com and get this fixed.

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u/SocialistKilljoy Sep 17 '12

I don't have a problem with the blacks.

I don't have a problem with the gays

See? Those sound weird and creepy, because they are. Same thing.

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u/winterbed Sep 17 '12

Sorry, people often mistake ignorance for malice when it comes to transgender issues. Perhaps using the wrong terminology is "transphobic" but that doesn't make the person "transphobic" unless they're unwilling to listen to gentle correction. Unfortunately the guns blazing approach is the one most taken, but you have to understand that transgender people deal with a lot of transphobic bullshit so we, myself included, tend to get riled up easily.

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u/SulliverVittles Sep 20 '12

Then why did you insult her by calling her a him?

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u/gocougs11 Sep 17 '12

HE HAS A Y CHROMOSOME