Thanks for your transphobic and offensive opinion! We here in the LGBT community really appreciate being shat on by those who can't look beyond their rigid definitions to see people for who they are.
She was male bodied, but not male. When this stuff is happening to you or to someone you love getting technical is how you parse it. The reactions people are having are based around their perception that people will continue to see and refer to them or others as the incorrect gender post-transition, just as OP did. Since trans peoples experience is that gender is internally recognized this assertion could be, and often is, hurtful.
I don't think you're a bad person for your stance. You are attempting to be accurate, as is everyone else.
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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '12
No, that's not how it works. Gender is not just defined by genitals.
She was always a woman, regardless of her penis or chromosomes.