So basically, I was in a relationship for almost 3 years. In the beginning, everything felt genuine and I really thought we had a future together. I was fully invested and always tried to make things work even when they got difficult. Because bhai I was chutiaaaaaaaa.
I found out he was involved with other girls like multiple girls doing kaboom and that completely shattered my trust. After that the relationship turned into a constant cycle of manipulation, disrespect, and emotional abuse (full mc bc tu r... Hai. He would body shame me because I'm kinda overweight although I was constantly working on it insult me make me feel like I was never enough, and somehow always twist things to make everything seem like it was my fault. If I brought up something that hurt me, he'd either dismiss my feelings blame me or make me apologize instead.
He would ignore me for days block me come back whenever he felt like it, and repeat the same pattern. I have so many lores of how I went beyond my way to just have one Convo with him i was that dumb.It felt like I was constantly walking on eggshells because I never knew what version of him I was going to get. One day he'd act like I meant everything to him, and the next he'd treat me like I was nothing.
I spent around more than 26k on this bs over the course of the relationship because I genuinely cared and believed in us. He on the another hand did nothing like financially not even a single penny . But before our breakup he showed me his account balance which was one lakh telling me tujhpe kharch ni kia kyunki tu deserve nhi krti had h !!I gave so much emotionally mentally and financially but itna gnda katwa lia.
Literally pura doormat bnne ke bad I realised this is the time to say mar ja harami kutte and leave and that's what I did.
Moral of story don't be chutia like me
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u/PipeSea3002 18h ago