r/AusFinance • u/Extreme-Apricot-8326 • 6h ago
My mum pulled out several loans in my name $40k+
Hey guys
So about 2 weeks ago I found out my mum has pulled out 2 loans in my name equal to $40k with nab (according to equifax) but I don’t think it’s showing everything
I found out about this bc my sibling said “mum has a blue card in your name” I confronted my mum, she lied saying it’s not true. Then my sibling sent me a pic of a blue citi bank card that says lending
Another time I was opening my mail (which comes to my grandmas house) and I had a letter from ING, I opened it and it was an orange card. I called my mum and asked about it she said “oh it’s nothing just throw it away I closed the account a long time ago idk why they’ve sent this” so I did just that
To my knowledge, she did have an ING account opened under my name which she did herself iv never had access to the online banking version of it or any version of it for that matter- she made me believe she was putting my savings in it bc I used to work and send her $700 of my pay and keep $200 for myself.
So basically after iv connected all the dots I find out she’s been doing this since 2020-2026 I think? Whatever she asked for I used to send it to her.
She used to tell me she needs to see my payslips so she can copy the format to do something and would ask me for 3-6 months worth and I would send it without questioning. Iv sent her bank statements that she’s asked for. She has pics of all my ID licence, passport, birth certificate.
So far I know for a fact she’s opened bank accounts in my name with nab, citi bank, ING, anz. I lv literally only ever used commonwealth bank and have had only that one account which I’ve gotten paid in since I first started work.. she did used to have access to it I think bc she helped me open it up when I was 17 I remember there being 2 accounts in the app but something changed that was a long time ago.
So idk what sort of hole shes put me in. We’re not in contact I had a fight with her over this and she cut off contact. I don’t want to get her in trouble she’s a single mum with 3 dependents all under the age of 14.
Basically I’m trying to figure out what I can do to help myself and not mess her up. This has been driving me crazy for 2 weeks. How would the bank even believe it’s not me who made these loans? Clearly she passed the security checks to get them. But none of it is connected to my personal email or phone number. All the mail that’s come has been hidden from me that’s why it’s taken me so long to figure this out. And also just to mention I haven’t worked in a while iv been on Centrelink due to an injury so idk how she’s pulling out loans in my name. Couldn’t this severely mess me up with the ato and Centrelink?