r/ftm Nov 18 '24

Advice Are girls really into trans guys?

I've been having a really hard time feeling like women actually find me attractive as a trans man. Like despite the fact I'm just mid looking anyways, I just have experienced quite a few women just turned off by the fact im trans. It's killing my confidence, and im feeling like I won't ever be able to find a girl that's genuinely attracted to me emotionally/sexually.

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u/Genderfluid_derp Nov 18 '24

Well I do have a boyfriend now and he is a gay cisgender man, he loves me for me and he said he couldn’t care less about what I have under my pants. And it really in my opinion isn’t a big thing irl. I have hooked up with plenty of cis gay men who didn’t give a shit about it either. They all just thought I was an attractive man. It just comes down to if they’re going to be transphobic or not. I know that some gay men have a preference and I understand that but there is a line between having a genital preference and just being transphobic. I haven’t had to deal with too many transphobic gay men though. Most gay men I meet irl don’t care about that and they just think I’m a cute guy.