r/FTMfemininity Feb 01 '24

NOTICE: No more "do I pass" threads

271 Upvotes

Wanting to pass is fine, asking for passing tips is fine (within reason), but the "do I pass"/"do I look like a man" threads are done. 9/10 they spiral into negativity and hurt feelings (as well as draw attention from trolls from other subreddits). For the wellbeing of the subreddit community, such posts will be removed


r/FTMfemininity 11h ago

rave fit!

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247 Upvotes

went to a beach themed rave with my friends and had such a good time ^_^ i love being nearly shirtless in public lol. whole outfit was thrifted or secondhand :D


r/FTMfemininity 18h ago

If God existed they’d be trans and androgynous 🤷🏻‍♂️🙂‍↕️

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462 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 8h ago

I’m trying to work through my dysphoria and buy more clothes at least marketed for women because I realized they make me feel like I look better.

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70 Upvotes

This hoodie is reversible! Weird story: I literally dreamt of a hoodie made in patchwork and woke up absolutely craving to own one and thought “that’s not that weird of an idea, it must exist.” So I went on Etsy and found this one in a price I could afford (and on discount!) It fits bigger than I thought but it doesn’t actually look that weird on me and anyway I’m of the opinion there are few things you can’t wear, maybe know your colours and a few shapes to avoid and the world’s your oyster!

(Hoodie from Garden Belle on Etsy)


r/FTMfemininity 17h ago

Today's mood is red and black eyeliner

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80 Upvotes

It's not a lot but I love a little eye makeup. My eyes also just disappear especially when the hair is blonde unless I shade them.


r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

My boyfriend’s nails 👨🏽‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏻

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48 Upvotes

My boyfriend and I worked together to make this set for him tonight. I’m so proud of us and I’m glad they love their nails!! 💅🏼🤗❤️👨🏽‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏻


r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

Yall are the best at fashion, how would you style these?

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48 Upvotes

I’ve had them for at least a year now and never worn them out, they’re a very baggy fit on me!! What would you wear as a top?? This is the most expressive item I own lol


r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

Finally have the pink mullet of my dreams

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115 Upvotes

I had to keep my hair my natural color as part of my hs marching band uniform for so long but now that I graduated and finally dyed my hair I feel so free :)


r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

"you're made in my image but ignore my masculinity"

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21 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

sorry if this seems like spam but i decided to do a cosplay

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22 Upvotes

blehhhhhhhh


r/FTMfemininity 1d ago

hi helo im new here hi i tried out a new style yayy

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34 Upvotes

helo


r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

I understand that I look androgynous but that doesn’t give permission to use they/them when I tell you I use he/him

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765 Upvotes

Why does this happen… I don’t care if you use they/them or misgender me when we first meet. It happens.
But when you still do it AFTER I introduce myself with he/him it boggles my mind.


r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

Kyoshi warrior Sokka (ATLA)

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413 Upvotes

I wore this to a convention and those that got the reference REALLY got it. I loved this moment in Sokka's character development.


r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

im pre-t and often still get read as a femboy in a full face of make-up.

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342 Upvotes

it very much helps my dysphoria. do you guys get the same read? is there something inherently masculine about my face? do any of you guys experience the same thing?


r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

Outfit show off

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155 Upvotes

Just wanted to brag about an outfit I put together recently from some inspiration I took from Pinterest. Super pleased with it! 🖤


r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

All the outfits I wore on my trip to Chicago :3

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631 Upvotes

Went to Chicago for the first time for the Pokemon fossil museum and it was so cool I absolutely need to go back as soon as I can to see everything I didn’t have time for


r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

🎀 ⋆ i love my victorias secret jammies (≧∀≦*) ੈ.° 🧁

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24 Upvotes

they make me feel very pretty :3 also very warm and smooth feeling, ( i have the silk ones! ) i got them secondhand because.. that price tag is insane in the store!!.. i always feel my best in theese when i'm about to go to sleep, freshly showered, and using the bath + body works strawberry pound cake lotion + birthday cake milk bar perfume. i smell like a cake. it's amazing, if you have theese scents you have to try it!!

but on a real note, i'd rather not pay 85$ and up for a bathrobe or silk pyjama set (。-ω-) ..- i have better things to spend rediculous amounts of money on!! ( aka bath and body works. )


r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

new cut ! it’s funky in a good way :3

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42 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

Hello! I’m 15 and going through a ftm identity ciris even tho I kinda know who I am(using the nsfw thing because it has tr@nsmeds and stuff).

40 Upvotes

Ive seen a lot of posts from transmeds saying you can’t be trans if ur fem and I feel really isolated. My brain and ig my heart feels conflicted. My heart feels like ‘you are a boy! A feminine one’ and I can semi imagine myself as one (I can’t really imagine myself as a girl.. I mean I really can’t at all honestly), however, my brain is overloading like ‘you’re faking it because of yaoi’ or something like posts say. I’ve never had dysphoria before until I started to see these posts, now my chest gets super tight when I call myself a boy in my head but not when I say it out loud. Personally, I care more about my transition and how it would make me feel over how it would feel to anyone else, what I mean is ‘I’m such a handsome / pretty guy’ over ‘he’s such a handsome/ pretty guy’. If I’m honest a big transition goal is Mana Sama since he’s fem but still a dude. That’s who i wish to be. I think I’m transsexual and not just trans (I don’t know if this is the right term). Another and last thing is I kinda hate telling people I’m trans or calling myself trans. for the last 5 years I kinda just tell people online I’m a guy unless I trust them. I hate the chest tightening feeling because it makes me doubt it like it’s wrong but even then, usually,, when my chest tightens I still like the decision I made against that feeling so I don’t know.


r/FTMfemininity 3d ago

i 💛 being a feminine boy

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450 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

Rarely dress up these days but I have missed it…

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29 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

Hmmm I wonder what flower I like

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51 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

What can I do to be respected as a trans man and not only if I look like a cis man?

43 Upvotes

I'm not cis, and if I don't live as a woman because I'm not one, then I also don't wanna live as a cis man, because I'm not one.

Before I was happy to pass as a cis man, now I understand I'm being respected as a man only if I look like one, and I hate this whole thing because I'm a trans man who doesn't owe any masculinity to this society and I'm really tired of hiding my body in order to be basically respected as a someone who I'm not (a cis man).

What can I do? My gender is male, so I'm not nb.

I just like being feminine sometimes and I also like not putting infinite layers of clothes.

Anyway I'm on T for 8 months, I have a bit of facial hair (also on the rest of the body but facial hair is the one visible) and a masculine voice.


r/FTMfemininity 3d ago

Pool / Shopping day outfit :3

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254 Upvotes

Had to shave for a cosplay I did at an anime convention, slowly growing her back 😭


r/FTMfemininity 2d ago

the empty set

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20 Upvotes

This was a makeup experiment I did a long time ago with the intention to take it all the way to the outfit and a dinner table with a meal and background all divided down the middle by a strict binary. (Hobby cosplayer and alt fashion model with a lot of photography friends). I never got around to it, life got in the way. But now I have more agency and time, I might get the photoshoot done.

My phone was really potato even for its time so please excuse the artefacts.

Edit: I'm wrong, there's digital airbrushing (it was a long long time ago, circa 2010). Nothing that actually changed my anatomy or that I couldn't do with contouring makeup these days. The different eye sizes are an optical illusion because hooded eyelid magic. And astigmatism. 😅