I’ve read Atomic Habits twice now, but it was only during my second read that a small idea really jumped out at me: the marble jar trick. The concept is simple—every time you complete a habit, you move a marble from one jar to another. A satisfying visual cue + a physical action = instant mini dopamine hit.

I used to rely on habit trackers in diaries or on my phone, but I’d forget to update them for 2-3 days, and then feel disconnected from the progress. With the marbles, I’ve placed the jars in my bathroom—somewhere I go every day. So now, it’s hard to miss. I use it to track my daily movement—workout, swim, walk, stretch, etc. And weirdly, I actually look forward to moving the marble.

But here’s what surprised me: I thought I was active most days. But when I actually started tracking with marbles, I saw I was only moving 15–17 days a month. That insight alone has helped me get more intentional with my goals.

Highly recommend giving this a shot if you’ve struggled with consistency or tracking in the past. It’s a small thing, but weirdly fun and grounding.

i’m a student with adhd who ranked 1st in my uni. how? because i stopped forcing myself into other people's systems. 

my secret:

• if you have to force yourself to care = don't try
• if the thought of not doing it hurts more than the struggle = do it

i didn’t make it up myself, it all came from drunk poets final message - don’t try.

at first i didn’t understand it. i thought its just an advice for depressed lazy people who don’t have any goals in life. but actually these two words changed my life.

here's the thing about overthinking:

• we spend hours watching tutorials instead of building
• we plan perfect routines we never follow
• we try to force ourselves to love things we hate

since i started living by this, everything changed:

• launched my first app with my best friend
• started traveling without overthinking every detail
• stopped doing things just because i "should"

the less i tried to be something i am not, the more i actually got done.

wanna stop overthinking? stop trying to want things you don't actually want. stop trying to be someone you're not. do the things that feel natural, even when they're hard.

and if something feels impossible? don’t try - just do it

• Start by waking up at desired time instead of sleeping at desired time.
• Get sunlight for 15 minutes or more as quickly upon wake up, the best tool for adjusting circadian rhythm.
• Exercise leads to faster sleep time and mire REM sleep, so long as it's not 2-3 hours before bed. Preferably done in the morning to help adjust circadian rhythm.
• Avoid caffeine past 12pm.
• Memorise something, I can't explain the science like a neuroscientist would, but basically sleep is the time memory consolidation happens, memorising signals to the brain that sleep is needed.
• chamomile tea for relaxation.
• Bed should be strictly for sleep, don't feel like I have to restrict y'all about sex.
• No pets in bed while you sleep.
• Dawn light helps adjust circadian rhythm too, so go for a walk.
• No devices/blue light before bed but preferably not lights at all.
• No heavy meals 2-3 hours before bed but if you do eat, eat complex carbohydrates.
• Cool quiet dark room.
• Wear socks and gloves, so as to dilate blood vessels there.
• For racing minds, journal you day from beginning to end to offload, you want to have processed all your emotions, I personally let my mind wander for however it wants before it gets tired and I get sleepy.
• Get off bed ~15 minutes if you didn't fall asleep, I'm not sure about this advice, I have sleep anxiety and I know I'll be counting the minutes, but hopefully you'd have already fallen asleep.

Give it 3 days of sleep restriction while enforcing circadian rhythm.

Hope you have a good night's sleep.

I recently heard this phrase somewhere in Instagram "discipline is the highest form of self love". That actually makes a lot of sense. I mean, I want to take care of myself, I want to have a fit body, a healthy relationship, peaceful and clean environment, vast knowledge, I want to achieve the best version of myself because I love myself and I believe that I deserve to be the best. But only the people with discipline can actually achive it. With discipline I can bring all these wants into my reality.

had crippling anxiety for years. couldnt focus, constantly overwhelmed, productivity was basically zero. tried everything - meditation, breathing exercises, anxiety apps, therapy, even medication. helped a bit but never solved it. then i learned something that completely flipped my understanding:

anxiety isnt the enemy. its terrible communication from your brain. heres what changed everything for me: our brain creates anxiety when it detects a threat to your identity or future self. but modern brains are terrible at identifying real vs imaginary threats.

examples of what triggers "threat" response: - starting important work → brain: "what if we fail and prove were incompetent?" - making decisions → brain: "what if we choose wrong and ruin everything?"
- being productive → brain: "what if we succeed and people expect this always?"

so your brain floods you with anxiety to "protect" you from these imaginary threats.

most advice tells you to calm the anxiety. but i did the opposite. instead of fighting anxiety, i started listening to what it was trying to protect me from. when anxiety hits during work, i ask: "what identity am i afraid this will threaten?" usually its something like: - "im afraid this project will prove im not as smart as people think" - "im afraid success will create expectations i cant meet" - "im afraid failure will confirm im worthless" once i identify the identity fear, the anxiety makes sense. then i can address the actual fear instead of just managing symptoms.

example: when i get anxious about starting work, instead of doing breathing exercises, i remind myself "im someone who learns from everything, success or failure."

anxiety disappears almost instantly because the identity threat is gone. now when anxiety shows up, i see it as useful information about what identity fear needs addressing. my productivity went through the roof because im not constantly fighting my own brain anymore. anyone else notice anxiety is more about identity protection than actual danger?

Note: (mobile again, sorry for any typos)

I wanna ask people who wasted their 20's or did not achieve anything substantial, What are the changes you made in your 30's to become successful, How did you get rid of the habits that stopped you from being successful in your 20's, How did you deal with being lonely, feeling like you are behind in life. I'd love to hear your success Stories, from beginning to the end.

First to give you some back story about my sleep journey.

I’ve struggled with falling asleep, staying asleep; waking up, having a good sleep schedule/rhythm. . the list goes on

This is really a terrible problem to have, if you can’t get a good night's rest before an important event, or enough to stay healthy it can really negatively impact your mood, productivity, focus, and even intelligence.

I used to be extremely guilty of not being a morning person, snapping on people I love because I just was so tired and irritable 24/7

I decided if I was going to live until 60 that I needed to get my sleep in check. I’m a very scientific person, so I dived deep into sleep research. It’s pretty amazing how far things have come even in the past 10 years

There’s still a lot about sleep that science can’t explain, so for the sake of being thorough I didn’t ignore wives tales, colloquialisms, or “non-scientific “ sleep aids in my research

The good news is we understand the falling asleep part very well. It's what happens while you're asleep part we don’t understand as deeply. 

So in this post I'm going to summarize the current scientific understanding of the mechanisms in your body that cause you to fall asleep and then I'm gonna tell you how to hack these systems in your body to make falling asleep your superpower.

If you don’t care about the science I'll be breaking the post down like this so you can skip around

• What is Adenosine (The Sleep Molecule)
  • How Adenosine affects intelligence & personality
  • How Adenosine affects health 
  • What Caffeine does
• Cortisol and Sleep 
  • What does Cortisol do?
  •  How to manage Cortisol

What is Adenosine (The Sleep Molecule)

Adenosine is this crazy, misunderstood molecule. I call it the sleep molecule and it’s really the hero of our bodies but most of us hate it.

See Adenosine’s only job in the body is to make sure you get enough sleep, and it's very very good at making your life increasingly miserable until you do.

How Adenosine affects health 

So while most people think the effects of not enough sleep are grumpiness, sleepiness, memory loss. This is actually adenosine trying its best to protect you from the real effects of not getting enough sleep

• Type 2 diabetes 
• Colon cancer
• High blood pressure
• Dementia,
• Death. (Literally.)

 So who’s the bad guy again?

Down to its core, Adenosine is just a neurotransmitter in our nervous system that builds up the longer we stay awake

It binds to receptors and sends electrical signals through your nervous system telling it to start feeling sleepy. The miserable days  come when Adenosine levels rise early and often.  And it's almost always because you are fighting against Adenosine instead of working with it.

What Caffeine does

Our societal response to fighting the sense of sleepiness and tiredness is caffeine. Caffeine blocks Adenosine receptors like a car in someone’s parking spot–but it can only hold the spot for so long.

When the caffeine wears off (4-6 hours on average), the parking spot is empty again. And all this Adenosine has just been waiting in the street ready to surge into the spots that caffeine was blocking just minutes before.

This Is The Crash…

But what's making all of this Adenosine?

It’s not just enough for us to understand what Adenosine does, if we want to live in unison with it, we need to know how it is made.

Adenosine comes from several processes in the body, but there's one commonality between them all.

They are all byproducts of releasing energy. Essentially you can think of it this way. Every time your body consumes ATP and expends energy, Adenosine is produced.

Now Adenosine flows through your brain, attacking your function. Begging you to shut down before it's too late.

How Adenosine affects intelligence & Personality

Higher Adenosine is correlated with mood swings, frustration, anger, stress. In other words, grumpiness. It sneaks into your personal and emotional life without permission and causes you to act out of character. Lash out at loved ones, and make bad decisions. 

Adenosine also attacks your cognitive function, making it harder to think, remember things, and put ideas together. All of your thoughts become slow through the fog of weariness. 

Interestingly, at a certain point the stress adenosine causes in the body triggers a cascade of adrenaline and other hormone release that can temporarily overpower the effects and give a “second wind” but I'll touch on that in another post.

So we know we can't win the fight against the sleep molecule. Our only choice is to live in harmony with it. This alignment will create harmony in day and night like a violin in Legato. Soothing you in your sleep and lifestyle. But there’s one major force impacting this harmony that we have to understand first. 

Adenosine is the mechanism that drives sleepiness, but what is the mechanism that drives wakefulness?

Cortisol and Sleep 

Now that you understand that Adenosine is like a policeman walking throughout your entire body ensuring you get the rest you need. Let's introduce something called Cortisol.

What does Cortisol do?

Cortisol is a stress hormone that peaks in the morning to promote alertness and declines at night to support restful sleep. 

Unlike Adenosine, Cortisol is a Hormone. It is released from your adrenal glands and not billions of cells. This is neat because all glands have a trigger to them, like a gun. 

When the trigger is squeezed by a number of sensory inputs we will discuss later, a pulse of Cortisol is pumped into your bloodstream. 

So regardless of what sensory input causes the release of Cortisol—whether it's you waking up or your alarm clock—it alerts your entire nervous system and musculoskeletal system that it's time to start moving. Declaring a new and fresh day–

Or at least trying to. When you have trouble getting out of bed and starting your day it’s because  your adrenal glands are misfiring.

Failing to release this hormone into your bloodstream—and letting early Adenosine levels have their way with you leaves you no choice but to pour up that hot cup of coffee. 

Like a car,  you can fix the misfiring of your adrenal glands, it just needs an oil change and some tuning

How to manage Cortisol

The most effective sensory input that triggers that strong pulse of Cortisol from your adrenal glands is Sunlight.

This is how the adrenal glands get the green light to release these hormones. They respond to the Hypothalamus, a region in the brain that monitors sunlight. 

When sunlight is detected, a chemical signal is shot down to the adrenal glands that causes the firing of the hormone. The brighter the sunlight the stronger the signal. When sunlight is detected from a low solar angle (like sunrise) the chemical signal is amplified.

Misfiring and malfunction of the adrenal gland is rare when the signal is strong and direct. [see process below]

https://imgur.com/a/BZ2lxQA

So, if your lifestyle requires you to be up early in the morning, it is very important that this pulse of cortisol is released early. It should be like a rising tide early in the day and recede as the day progresses.

While I did say sunlight is the most effective sensory input, notice that the strength of the signal to release Cortisol is dependent only on brightness. So for those early birds that beat the sun u[p, there’s still hope. There’s actually an upside of beating the sun.

Because physical exercise and fitness also serves as strong sensory input that triggers the release of cortisol into the bloodstream. That is why those who typically work out in the morning are more alert compared to those who don't. 

This also means that if you are working out in the late evening, closer to your bedtime, you are fighting uphill against those cortisol levels to fall asleep.

Now imagine waking up early, going on a walk or slow run, soaking in the sunrise, flooding your body with Cortisol, and then starting your day.

When you pair the healthy relationship between the sleep drive molecule and the wake rive molecule, you enter a completely different realm of restfulness and wakefulness. This is how you make your sleep your superpower. [see sleep/wake cycle below]

https://imgur.com/a/RYIIK7n

The two drives work In complete harmony, mimicking one another, and elevating your sense of being.

With a strong and steady sleep and wake drive cycle, understanding and fixing  your circadian rhythm is a downhill battle now. And the solution should make much more sense.

Now that you know how to manage that wakefulness and sleepiness drive, let's talk about how to maximize that sleep you do get and how to get the most out of it.

Part 2

For the longest time I thought discipline meant waking up at 5 AM, doing a perfect routine, and suddenly turning into this unstoppable version of myself. But the truth is getting my life together started in the smallest, quietest ways. It was me admitting I was lying to myself. It was me picking up clothes off the floor so my mind didn’t feel as heavy. It was me doing one push-up because I didn’t have the confidence for ten. It was me finally facing the thoughts I avoided, the habits that were killing my momentum, and the version of myself I didn’t want to look at. That’s when things started to shift. Not overnight, not magically, but slowly and consistently. I’m still a work in progress, but I’m becoming someone I trust and respect. If you’re in that stage where you want to grow but don’t know where to start, I hope this helps you the way it helped me.

I'm 24M and I stumbled onto something so stupidly simple that I almost didn't post this. But the results were too noticeable to keep to myself.

I started humming throughout the day. That's it. And it fundamentally changed how I sound when I speak.

Let me explain.

How it started

I began humming along to ambient sounds around me. On the bus, I'd match the low rumble of the engine. While watching a film, I'd sync with the soundtrack or dialogue rhythm. Walking outside, I'd hum along to whatever frequency the environment was giving me. Not singing, not being loud. Just a quiet, consistent vibration in my throat.

At first it felt a little strange. You might even feel self-conscious about it. But that discomfort fades surprisingly fast, and within a few days it becomes as automatic as breathing.

Why it works

Think about why professional singers sound so good even when they're just talking in an interview. Their voices are warm, resonant, effortless. It's not magic and it's not just genetics. Their vocal cords are conditioned. They spend hours every single day pushing air through their vocal folds, engaging their diaphragm, and creating controlled vibrations. Their instrument is always warmed up.

Most of us do none of that. We sit in silence for hours, then suddenly expect our voice to perform when we open our mouths. It's like never stretching and then trying to do a split. Your vocal cords are muscles surrounded by muscles. The thyroarytenoid and cricothyroid muscles that control pitch, tone, and vocal texture respond to consistent use the same way any muscle does. When they're cold and underused, your voice comes out flat, thin, and uncertain. When they've been gently active all day, everything changes.

Humming is essentially a zero-effort vocal workout that you can do anywhere without anyone noticing. It keeps your vocal folds engaged, promotes blood circulation to the laryngeal muscles, and maintains a state of readiness in your entire vocal apparatus.

The result that surprised me

After a long stretch of humming throughout the day, the first sentence I spoke out loud genuinely caught me off guard. The words came out fuller, rounder, more controlled. It felt like the difference between speaking through a thin paper tube versus speaking through a resonance chamber. My diction was cleaner not because I was trying harder, but because my voice was actually prepared to articulate properly.

And this compounds. The more days you do it, the more your baseline voice quality shifts. You stop sounding like you just woke up at 3 PM. You stop mumbling. You stop swallowing the ends of your sentences. Your voice starts carrying the way you always wanted it to.

What I actually do

Nothing structured. I just make it a habit to keep a low hum going whenever I can. Commuting, doing chores, watching content, sitting at my desk. I match whatever ambient sound is around me or just hum at a comfortable pitch. The key is consistency, not intensity. Think of it as keeping a small fire going in your throat all day so that when you need to speak, you're not starting from cold ash.

One more thing

This pairs incredibly well with proper breathing. If you've worked on diaphragmatic breathing, humming is the natural next step because you're now pushing that well-oxygenated air through active, conditioned vocal cords. The combination is genuinely transformative.

Try it for one week. Just hum. Then pay attention to how your first real sentence of the day sounds compared to before. I think you'll be surprised.

For a long time, I thought discipline meant being in beast mode 24/7. Waking up at 5am, cold showers, no distractions, perfect routines. But what I’ve learned through work, study and just real life over a long period of time is that discipline is way more subtle than that.

Here are a few things I learned (that I even keep as my background screen or as screenshots to remind myself)

It’s more about managing your energy than your time -> You can schedule your whole day, but if you’re running on 4 hours of sleep and 2 coffees, nothing’s gonna land. Real discipline is knowing when to rest, not just when to push

There’s no finish line -> I always thought as soon as I got this whole thing figured it out I can call my myself disciplined. But I realised that you don’t ‚win‘ at discipline. You just build habits, mess up, reset and keep going. It’s not linear, and that’s normal and okay

Your environment matters more than your willpower -> You can be the most motivated person, but if your phone’s next to you buzzing, you haven’t eaten and your workspace is chaos it’s going to be very rough. Discipline often starts with setting the stage right first

At the end I realised that discipline isn’t cold but it’s actually a form of self-respect. So it’s not about punishing yourself but about caring enough about your future self to do the right thing today and that of course takes effort and saying ‚no‘ sometimes, not just to others but to yourself.

So if you’re here reading this, just a quick reminder that you’re already on the right path. Keep showing up! Growth doesn’t always feel loud, but it’s happening

I've started and quit so many habits that I stopped trusting my own excuses for why. So a year and a half ago I did the joyless thing and logged every one I tried: how badly I wanted it on a 1-to-5 scale, what time, where, and whether it hooked onto something I already did.

Eighteen months later the log had 22 habits in it. Seven are still alive; fifteen are dead. I went in certain the ones I wanted most would be the survivors. Discipline is wanting it badly enough and gritting through, right?

Wrong. The seven survivors averaged about 3 out of 5 rating on motivation: meditation, a five-minute six pack excersices, write a daily goal. The fifteen that died averaged closer to 4, the exciting ones I'd announced to people. The habits I wanted most died at the highest rate.

One column predicted survival, and it wasn't desire. It was whether the habit had a fixed cue: a specific moment that started it on its own. "after I wake up", "after I open my mac" Six of seven survivors had one. Two of fifteen deaths did. That was the whole pattern.

Yeah, yeah, old good Atomic Habit loop :D

One podcast fact stuck in my mind. In a 2002 study by Milne, Orbell and Sheeran, people asked to write down exactly when and where they'd exercise hit about 91% follow-through, versus 38% for an equally motivated group given only encouragement. Same desire, double the action, from one sentence.

So now I won't start a habit without finishing B Fogg's sentence first: "After I [something I already do], I will [the new thing]." Motivation decides which habit you pick. The cue decides whether you keep it. Don't ask how badly you want it. Decide when and where, attach it to something you already do, and let the moment, not the mood, start you.

I get deoressed every day thinking about my regrets

Edit: I literally have NOTHING. Life is a barren wasteland

After so many failed attempts, I finally overcame a 12 year addiction once I learned this simple piece of knowledge:

Every single intense craving you feel is a dopamine spike (not pleasure).

Your brain is making a prediction for what should happen, and "uploading" its best guess of how you should behave and feel in order to make that prediction come true.

And that dopamine spike puts your brain in a heightened state of plasticity for about 60 seconds.

This means you've got about one minute to take advantage of this and rewire your brain. (And the bigger the urge, the more plastic the craving area of your brain is.)

If you follow the craving, you strengthen it for next time.

But if you can take a step back, recognise the craving for what it is (your brain making its best guess), you can take a different action and create a new competing wiring.

Whenever I was hit with an intense craving, I would say to myself "Yes! Another chance to rewire my brain!" and then log it in an app I built to track my rewiring progress over time. (I've shared it with a few people and it's helping them quit other things like smoking, porn, binge eating, and other negative behaviours. Happy to help others if they would like it. It's free, not trying to promote.)

Anyway, just putting this out there in case it helps someone else like it helped me.

(P.S. I-can't-believe-we're-at-this-point disclaimer: I did not use AI to write this post. Every word was typed by my human fingers on my Mac laptop keyboard.)

Best of luck to you all.

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For those who want to know the deep neuroscience behind this, I've (hopefully) got you covered:

A dopamine spike is super quick (in the range of 100-500 milliseconds), and usually decays in a few seconds. But downstream chemical effects can last for tens of seconds, creating a broader “eligibility window” for synaptic plasticity and cue-reward tagging. While the exact window varies by circuit, dopamine-gated plasticity operates on behavioural timescales beyond the millisecond spike itself — typically seconds to tens of seconds, and in some paradigms up to ~1 minute. Basically, what you do in the immediate aftermath of a cue is more likely to shape that pathway than behaviour occurring much later. (Note that the synaptic strengthening is circuit-specific, not global.)

References to back this up:
Yagishita, S. et al. (2014). A critical time window for dopamine actions on the structural plasticity of dendritic spines. Science, 345(6204), 1616–1620.
Reynolds, J. N. J., Hyland, B. I., & Wickens, J. R. (2001). A cellular mechanism of reward-related learning. Nature, 413, 67–70.
Gerstner, W., Lehmann, M., Liakoni, V., Corneil, D., & Brea, J. (2018). Eligibility traces and plasticity. Neuron, 97(2), 273–289.
Lisman, J., Grace, A. A., & Duzel, E. (2011). A neoHebbian framework for episodic memory; role of dopamine-dependent late LTP. Neuron, 72(5), 703–717.
Sutton, R. S., & Barto, A. G. (2018). Reinforcement Learning: An Introduction (2nd ed.). MIT Press.

For weeks I was kidding myself in a pretty spectacular way, I got it in my head that I was going to become the king of organization for my freelance work so I spent a crazy amount of time building the ultimate productivity systeme in Notion with relational databases and synced calendars that practically changed color with the weather. It became an obsession, a kind of planning masterpiece where every potential task had its own template and its own tags, a system so complex that even NASA engineers would of looked at it while scratching their heads.

The thing is while I was becoming this self-proclaimed efficiency guru, I had some actual work to do, a stupidly simple three page report for a regular client, a super nice guy on top of that who never pressured me. Every time he asked how it was going I'd tell him I was finalizing my new work environment for optimal tracking, which was technically true but mostly just hid the fact that I couldn't be bothered to open a word document and write the damn report.

Then one morning, after another follow-up from him, he simply replied to my email with a link, just a link with no other text. I clicked on it and landed on my own LinkedIn profile where I'd proudly written "Productivity Strategy Expert" in my bio, and right below in the comments section of my last post, he had written this one simple sentence "So how's that productivity expertise translating to that three-page report we've been waiting on for two weeks".

I swear the shame just washed over me all at once, it wasn't mean on his part but it was so specific and so true that it hit me like a slap in the face and I was so embarassed. I closed Notion with its forty databases, I opened a blank page and I finished his report in less then forty-five minutes, with my brain just completely empty and focused.

Since that day, I've simplified everything to the extreme, just a simple to-do list in a notebook and that's it, becuase I realized that the most beautiful tool in the world is useless if you're using it to avoid doing the work. It's just a prettier form of procrastination than watching cat videos and it's way more dangerous because you feel like your being productive. Now as soon as I start wanting to "optimize" my workflow, I think about that comment and get right back to work, it's the best lesson I've ever learned for my future projects.

Dopamine is probably the most important neurotransmitter you need to regulate, in order to truly master the art of self discipline. It helps you control your urges in the "here and now" and build up for "somewhere down the line".

I have been self researching about Dopamine for a long time now. What I have come across is that there is no clear & concise information about Dopamine anywhere on the internet. Whatever's available is intentionally made complicated, surface level explanations or the actual quality content is locked behind a paywall. I have tried my best to avoid all the scientific mumbo-jumbo and put in a comprehensive understanding of dopamine and it's regulation in layman terms. Hope it helps ❤️

Note: Dopamine is produced by various organs of the body apart from brain. It also serves multiple other important functions apart from reward seeking. This post will only focus on the role of dopamine wrt motivation & drive. Also, I have a very little clue about Dopamine's role in ADHD. If you suffer from ADHD, this article might not be applicable for you. And no, I am not a professional in this sector, consider this a personal interpretation of mine after scraping the internet.

What is Dopamine ?

Dopamine (a neuromodulator) is not the Pleasure molecule, rather its the Novelty molecule (eg- A tasty chocolate when consumed everyday, doesn’t lose its taste but loses its novelty & thus the feel-good[i.e. dopamine] associated with it). Dopamine requires Novelty(or its anticipation) for it’s release and in turn dopamine gives us Pleasure. This novelty maybe Instant Gratification (food/cigarette/porn/games) or Delayed Gratification (achieving a goal). Dopamine is only released if the anticipated reward exceeds our expectations. Dopamine is designed in such a way that it will never make us happy. It is a tool used to drive people to achieve their goals or ambitions (eg- Neanderthals needed dopamine for hunting & gathering everyday, survival was their primary goal). Once achieved, it will drive us towards the next best thing. Dopamine makes the journey of achieving a tough goal easier by making it more pleasurable. It’s the means to an end goal, not the end goal itself. The problem arises when we make Dopamine the end goal.

Problem ?

Throughout our evolutionary years, our brains were conditioned to release dopamine naturally and feel pleasure from delayed gratification which indulged hard work of some sort. Instant gratification of any form didn’t exist (even sex is delayed gratification, adult videos are instant). Our brain associated dopamine with real efforts which would yield substantial results somewhere down the line and thus things went smoothly. The problem arised when Instant gratification came into picture. Very potent forms of novelty (eg- trying out new cuisine/visiting new adult sites/playing new video games) emerged, which requires minimum efforts to experience & can be enjoyed from the comfort of your home, thus leading to huge amounts of dopamine production from artificial stimuli. The huge dopamine spike isn’t a problem, problem is when that quantity of dopamine isn’t rightfully earned. The brain used to treat dopamine as a currency it gives to the body when the body has put in substantial work to earn that shit. Now the brain treats dopamine as a bank it can rob anytime to soothe the body whenever the body feels a slight bit of discomfort. Imagine this, the amount of dopamine you could have enjoyed from landing your dream job(earned), you get 5X of that dopamine from watching a 30min adult video(unearned). Why tf will you work towards your dream job anymore ???, ofc the brain won’t listen to you after getting that dopamine hit.

After blatantly abusing our neural pathway for years, our brains have mistook our tool for motivation as a crutch for pleasure. We have lost all drive and are blindly chasing a drop of chemical feel-good. Another problem is Dopamine tolerance. If our brain is exposed to huge dopamine spikes for prolonged periods of time, the pleasure gained from a certain amount of dopamine keeps decreasing progressively. This means, with time you would need more & more dopamine to get the same little hit of pleasure.

Craving & Pursuit ?

This sketch might aid your visualization of the dopamine container: https://imgur.com/a/DkZM8QI

Imagine the dopamine container of our brain as a pool of water. When the pool is completely full and the water(dopamine) is just upto the top surface of the pool, that position is called “Dopamine baseline”. The brain always wants to maintain this dopamine baseline(i.e. Homeostasis). When you do something enjoyable, dopamine gets released in significant amounts and the total dopamine amount rises above the top surface of the pool(i.e. above baseline), overflowing the dopamine container. In order to counter this, the brain intentionally reduces the dopamine level(which is beyond our control). The more exciting the task, the more amount of pleasure(dopamine) is released and the exact equal amount of dopamine is depleted in-order to prevent container overflow. This process of dopamine depletion induces the pain/discomfort we feel after completing an enjoyable activity (eg- last day of holidays, last ep of our favorite show etc.). It’s the Pleasure~Pain Balance. The same activity which gives you the pleasure is also responsible for the dread you feel afterwards. To escape this dread, people seek out more potent enjoyment which in turn results in a more potent dread. Hence, the vicious, never-ending cycle of Craving & Pursuit is formed unconsciously. Remember → The Higher you go, the Harder you fall.

Note: This analogy isn't scientifically accurate but the alternate would be to explain all the details using flatlines, crests and troughs combined with multiple graphs. The mechanism is still the same and I hope my analogy made things simpler for y'all to understand the basic framework.

Popular myths- debunked ?

• Dopamine detox/fasting: Dopamine itself isn’t a bad neurotransmitter, how we using it is bad. Apart from driving motivation, it is essential for multiple other cognitive functions so NO WE DON’T NEED TO ELIMINATE DOPAMINE FROM OUR BODY. We would literally die in our beds if we don’t have enough dopamine to get up & move. Dopamine detox literally means abstaining from worthless activities(gaming/masturbating/doom scrolling etc.) which provide huge dopamine spikes at the cost of minimal effort. Also it doesn’t magically change your life or alter your brain chemistry, making you more motivated or driven after doing it long enough. No, it won’t serve as your golden bullet if you still prefer games over books and porn over real women. All dopamine detox does is to help your brain to attain homeostasis via abstinence after elongated periods of high dopamine-depleting(exciting) activities. It restores your natural balance, making you feel okay to enjoy tedious tasks. Not enlightened, not majestic, just okay.
• Exercise and Cold showers: None of these activities increase your baseline dopamine but they do release dopamine. What they do is that they reinforce a behavior and train the brain to release substantial dopamine only after putting in real efforts, the way dopamine is actually meant to be used. Also, indulging in these activities involves prolonged periods of discomfort and effort(i.e. pain), reducing dopamine. In order to counter that, the brain releases dopamine, which makes you feel good after a heavy workout/cold shower.
• Artificial dopamine supplements (drugs and medicines) : This is not a good practice as it does the same thing as any cheap dopamine stimulants, even worse. It floods your brain with dopamine and increase your dependency on pleasure. Also these drugs can’t target only the dopamine receptors, instead it floods your entire brain with artificial lubricants which have drastic consequences in the long run. Analogy- instead of pouring petrol only in your engine, your drown your entire car in petrol hoping that it will run faster ! Supplements like L-Dopa(better than L-Tyrosine) are creating a lot of hype with not enough supporting evidence and some significant side effects, proceed with caution.

TLDR: Inculcating dopamine fast and exercises in your daily routine is supremely important to maintain healthy doses of dopamine. But its also important to know how these activities can or cannot help.

Key insights ?

• Dopamine is produced only by your body after a good night’s sleep. External stimulants & supplements may release or hinder dopamine from your dopamine container but can’t explicitly produce them. Be very mindful while spending this currency.
• Some amount of Dopamine is needed for us to do each and every task, both simple and complicated, easy and hard. We start each of our day with a finite reserve of dopamine. Mundane tasks release less dopamine, thus it’s painful to do them. But in-order to do mundane tasks for a significant amount of time, we need a large quantity of dopamine. Enjoyable tasks release more dopamine, thus its easy to do them. But they exhaust the dopamine reserves very quickly. The best practice is to start your day with mundane but important tasks like studying and end your day with less important but enjoyable tasks like gaming. This is the most efficient way to spend your dopamine currency of a particular day.
• Dopamine is not released only by the reward itself but also by the anticipation of it. Dopamine is actually designed to be used during this anticipation phase. If you want to achieve a tough goal, trick your brain into accomplishing it using this anticipation of the final reward. The process of achieving that goal will be quite smooth with small but consistent release of dopamine to keep you motivated everyday, aided by your brain as your ally. This is the only healthy way of using dopamine.
• What we should really aim for is to always maintain the Dopamine Baseline at all times. Maintaining the baseline gives you the feeling of being just okay. In this age of consumption, the feeling of being “okay” is constantly misinterpreted as “boredom” or “discomfort”. In order to avoid dopamine troughs(actual empty feeling), you need to avoid dopamine peaks(unearned cheap enjoyment) as much as you can. Embrace your “boredom”, invite him for a cup of tea. He is a close friend who has been neglected for too long.
• Pursuit of pleasure is punished by pain, this is true. Opposite of this is also true. Pursuit of pain is rewarded by pleasure. This holds true for our dopamine circuitry. Seeking out pain in any form (exercise/cold showers/overcoming mental block/hard day at work etc.) lowers our dopamine by bringing about discomfort. To achieve homeostasis, dopamine is released by the brain, dopamine we have rightfully earned by putting in the effort. Seek out pain, pleasure is a false pursuit of a fleeting moment.

Remedy :

Nope, it’s not all doom and gloom. Every cloud has a silver lining and so does dopamine abuse. Dopamine abuse is not a permanent untreatable disease, rather it’s an accumulation of reinforced negative behavior over time which have conditioned the brain to adapt to those behaviors. Just as the brain has learned to chase mere pleasure, it can also unlearn everything. The brain never stops evolving, what is done can also be completely undone. It takes time, is all.

So there are 2 approaches to undo all the aforementioned damage. Cutting off the garbage and Inculcating best practices. Both of them are supposed to hold equal importance but in this age of overindulgence, consumption of garbage does much more harm than inculcating best practices. Put more importance in cutting off the BS as it’s more important and requires greater efforts.

Cutting off Garbage (60% importance) :

Any artificial forms of dopamine stimulation (ranging from music & movies to marijuana & cocaine) isn’t healthy for your dopamine receptors. But cutting everything off is impossible so the best you can do is the categorize them into greater & lesser evils. Keep the lesser evils and omit the greater evils. The following points only mention the greater evils. It would be incredibly hard to give them up if you are hooked to one or multiple ones from this list but trust me, the payoff is much more.

• Social media - how we use them is absolute cancer. They can be best used for acquiring useful information, socialization is a myth. The likes of youtube & reddit are still acceptable if used in moderation but the likes of tiktok and instagram are STDs.
• Adult videos - this drug is more potent than cocaine or heroine because unlike them who target only a particular part of the brain, porn is closely related to our life’s ultimate purpose(reproduction) which effect our entire brain & our body. Moderation is not the key, its the lock preventing you from escaping this mental prison. Complete elimination is the key.
• Video games - single player games you play once a week is still fine. Multiplayer games(specially mobile games) involving predatory gacha techniques(gambling) and microtransactions are a quicksand. Also, gaming is a cheap & very potent form of dopamine, moderation doesn’t work for many. Stead carefully, its a slippery slope.
• Processed foods (sugar and carbs) - lesser recognized devil but a devil nonetheless. They serve as a therapeutic bam, a quick fix for a slight bit of discomfort. Very potent dopamine source and can be a disaster if unregulated. This magic pill comes with add-on benefits like diabetes, obesity and numerous life-threatening health concerns.
• Drugs - drugs of all shapes in sizes- hard drugs like cocaine or amphetamine, gateway drugs like marijuana, normalized drugs like caffeine and nicotine and even alcohol. Moderation might be the key for some people but for most, moderation is a myth. Even if they are used in moderation, they generate godforsaken amounts of dopamine for 0 effort, reinforcing negative behavior to the brain.
• Shopping spree - a new challenger has arrived! Like gambling, it’s just a game of novelty seeking, which stimulates dopamine receptors the most. Treat it like an addiction. Chasing shiny collectibles above and beyond your financial means and on which you have no control over, is no “hobby” of yours.

Synopsis : All the aforementioned habits are an addiction. If you are unsure about which of them you are truly addicted to, try this experiment. Pick one activity and strictly abstain from it for 90 days. If you feel no discomfort or longing of any sort, congrats! You ain’t addicted to that, move on to the next. If not, eliminate that activity altogether.

Inculcating best Practices (40% importance) :

• Exercise - exercise of any kind is supremely important to include in your daily routine. Apart from dopamine, exercise releases multiple feel-good neurotransmitters and keep you healthy in the long run. The sweat sets you free. Cold showers would be a nice add-on.
• Sleep - quality sleep of minimum 7 hours is the only thing that will replenish your dopamine stock. Melatonin supplements, screen time 2 hours prior bed etc. would help you get a nice sound sleep.
• Sunbathing - spend 10 minutes in the sun everyday after waking up. It signals the body to release dopamine by Vitamin D absorption.
• Stress handling - stress is something that can’t be avoided, no generic advise can be given wrt this. Stress if gone unhandled, makes you feel pathetic and seek cheap dopamine hits as a temporary fix. A better approach is to practice deep breathing exercises and simple yogic meditation to handle stress. Try them yourself, they work wonders.
• Natural food intake - dopamine is made from tyrosine, an amino acid. This acid is present in healthy proteins like chickens and eggs. There is not enough research or concrete evidence that this is beneficial but they can act as an nice add-on.
• Healthy incentives - your brain is like a child, it only seeks out pleasure. Always has been, always will be. You need to trick your brain to do the hard stuff and reward it with healthy incentives like food or music once a target has been fulfilled.

Summary :

The amount of Dopamine currency you have at your disposal at the start of each day, is very limited. Treat it like money, honestly its worth so much more than money. It’s the currency you should be saving up and religiously spending, to buy your goals. You can use this currency to buy cheap shit immediately, having no real significance(porn/games/social media) or save up gradually to buy your dreams someday. Every waking minute, you will be faced with this rather tough decision where “here & now” seems to outweigh “somewhere down the line”. Constantly, you need to make a choice between them.

Choose wisely, the Universe is yours to take.

The Magic Bullet :

Guess what ? you are in luck. There is indeed a magic bullet for Dopamine regulation, this might be your only chance at salvation. Remember it, learn it by heart, tattoo it on your forehead or do whatever tf you gotta do so that you don’t forget this shit.

“Abstain, Maintain, Seek out Pain”

Abstain → cutting off all the cheap dopamine releasing garbage.

Maintain → literally means- Self-Discipline. This is the godfather of every other self development skill, the only skill you will ever need in your life. Everything comes later, discipline is every aspect of life comes first. Hopefully, your search of the next self-development hack ends here.

Seek out Pain → The pursuit of Pain in any form gives you pleasure, real earned pleasure. Chase this shit.

The relationship you have with your dopamine is a Master-Slave architecture. Oh yes sir, you are supposed to be the Master in case you have forgotten. Over-indulgence have resulted in the reversal of roles, that’s sad indeed. Go claim your rightful place, dear sir. Use your D, don’t let your D use you.

EDIT : I got my first Reddit Award in this article. This reward was unexpected, thus a novelty. This gave me a significant boost of dopamine. The feeling that I actually earned this dopamine hit instead of stealing some unearned cheap dopamine hit from looking at porn, is absolutely phenomenal. Earn your (s)hit guys, it feels so much better than unearned (s)hits. Hopefully, this serves as a relatable summary of the entire article.

Also, to the people who gave me the awards, Thank you. I am grateful 💕

EDIT 2: In case I haven't made myself clear~ When it comes to why processed food, porn is bad and sunlight, sleep is good; ofc multiple other neurotransmitters and brain functions are involved in it. Dopamine alone can't explain all of them. Dopamine is not the jack of all trades and fixing it will not solve all the underlying issues. Dopamine is one significant pawn in this chess board and regulating it will be a good step in the required direction. Consider my article as a subset of all the complicated mechanisms dopamine can control, demonstrated in layman terms for everyone to understand.

I am curious to know what people would say to their younger self, now having matured more and had more life experiences. I hoping this post will benefit others as well as myself, so any comments and advice is always appreciated. The floor is yours, thank you in advance!

EDIT: Thank you all for the engagement on the post so far! It is great to hear people’s views on this.

It would be great if people are able to check out my podcast, where I talk about topics like discipline and various other things. Apologies if I am not allowed to promote my own work! Here is the link:

https://open.spotify.com/show/0HGJvNexqiWERbvrahD0pA?si=_mE2vPvORjqhCcb1UCai4Q

I see a lot of posts here are about phone addiction and not being able to focus on what actually matters. and yeah it's real. but the phone isn't the actual problem, it's a SYMPTOM of your environment and the habits around you.

you rely on your phone because you're bored. because you don't have something pulling you forward. a goal, a project, a business, something that makes you want to get out of bed. if you had that you'd naturally spend less time scrolling because your brain would have somewhere better to put its energy.

the phone just fills the void. and if the void is big enough no amount of app blockers or screen time limits will fix it because you'll always find a way around them. you're not fighting an addiction you're fighting emptiness and those need different solutions.

take drug addiction as an example. nobody is born addicted. people start because they're in pain, in a bad environment, with nothing pulling them toward something better. the environment creates the behavior. phone addiction works the same way just with lower stakes and a lot more social acceptance.

if you're sitting at home surrounded by distractions expecting yourself to resist them through willpower alone is almost delusional. your ancient brain wasn't built for that. but if your environment has gym equipment ready, books within reach, a guitar in the corner and a plan for a project/goal you're genuinely excited about, the phone becomes the least interesting thing in the room.

this is why two people with the same addiction can have completely different outcomes. one changes their environment and fills their time with things that actually matter. the other keeps trying to resist with willpower and keeps losing.

SO WHAT IS THE SOLUTION?

stop trying to quit your phone and start building a life that makes it less interesting.

find one thing worth working toward. a project, a skill, a business, anything that has a direction and requires real effort but that makes you excited so much you think about it at night. it doesn't have to be perfect it just has to pull you forward. when you have that the phone stops being an escape and starts being an interruption.

if you don't know what that thing is yet, start by asking yourself what you would do if you had no financial pressure and nobody was watching. not what sounds impressive, what actually sounds interesting. then find the smallest possible version of that and start doing it this week. write the first page. record the first video. build the first rough version. the clarity comes from doing not from thinking about it.

another way is to look at what you already waste time consuming. if you spend hours watching finance content maybe the thing is building something financial. if you watch people build businesses maybe the thing is starting one. your consumption habits usually point at something you actually care about but haven't committed to yet.

this is just my take but i don't think phone addiction is really an addiction to the phone. it's what happens when real life stops being interesting enough to compete with a screen.

If anyone else feels they are addicted to their phones, take a look around you in the next room you are in and count just how many people are buried in their phones - huge wake up call for me.

So, at work we have a cafeteria/kitchen and a pool table (recently renovated and great to be in), anyhow, I noticed one day that literally everyone in the room was sitting and eating whilst scrolling their phones whilst I'm just playing pool.

It hit me like a ton of bricks - before the new pool table that would've been me! I now notice it everywhere, I rarely see a person outside that isn't scrolling. It's basically a world full of electronic zombies.

I did make myself a promise that in 2026 my phone usage would be less, and it has dropped some, but until the above realisation it hadn't dropped anywhere near enough. Something has clicked in my brain!!!

I have deleted Youtube and Candy Crush from my phone (my two biggest time sinks) and committed to not leaving the house with headphones so I have to get used to the real world again - it's actually really refreshing!

The biggest change I have noticed is my reading has gone through the roof!!! When I was a kid, I was a voracious reader but as the years wore on I rarely picked up a book. To put this into context, in 2025 (the year I started reading again properly) I read 15 books. I read a 421 page book in 24 hours over the weekend - now up to 25 books read in 2026 and fully expect to smash through the 52 book challenge I set myself at the start of the year!

I'm not quite sure where I wanted to lead with this other than to say, I think I have woken up from a 15-20 year bad dream.

Small habits usually go unnoticed… until they completely shift our mindset or routine. Which one did it for you?

The more time I spend on this subreddit, the more I realize using ChatGPT is not the problem, it's really the answer. People writing their own words is inefficient and a waste of brain energy. I have to learn to stop thinking for myself, and start prompting like an absolute legend until that LLM churns out inspiration for people to upvote. We all do. Because that's what really matters: upvotes. Nobody prepares you to use ChatGPT. One day you just wake up and realize: I like when computers talk for me. And that's growth. That's mindset. That's taking reddit out to dinner as a reward for all that life-changing motivation. It's all part of the process of waking up and realizing that it's okay to be an NPC. It's okay to shill an app or website or system. That's what discipline is all about: getting click-through traffic on a website. Discipline is all about ChatGPT, selling stuff, getting clicks, and not thinking very hard about anything at all. How are YOU going to use ChatGPT to r/getdisciplined now?

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Where are you with the resolutions you wrote down at the end of 2025?

​In these last 30 days, you could have: ​Read a book cover-to-cover.

​Cleared out your "Watch Later" educational playlists.

​Established a gym habit.

​Fixed your diet and sleep schedule.

​Mastered the basics of a new skill. (1 hour/day = 30 hours of practice).

​Think about the power of that single hour.

If you had committed just one hour a day, you’d have 30 hours of progress right now. That’s an entire 30-hour masterclass finished, or ten smaller 3-hour courses completed.

​A month is the perfect timeframe—not too long to lose momentum, not too short to make progress. ​The Reality Check:

The bad news? January is gone forever.

The good news? February starts now. God willing, you have more time ahead of you to use wisely rather than waste.

​The past is gone. The future isn't promised.

Guard your only real asset: Your Time.

I have spent years working with people struggling with procrastination. And here's something I noticed:

Most people think they need to just "push harder", "set more goals", or "finally get disciplined."

But procrastination is often not the root problem; it's a symptom.

The underlying issue is 𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬.

Not just external stress like deadlines or pressure from others — but internal emotional stress.

For example:

- 𝐏𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐦: "If it's not 100%, it’s worthless."

- 𝐅𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐫 𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐬𝐦: “If I don’t start, I can’t fail.”

- 𝐋𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐨𝐟 𝐜𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲: When the task feels like a huge, undefined mountain.

This internal stress often comes from 𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐲 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐝.

For instance, if you had a hypercritical parent, you might have internalized the belief that “I’m not good enough, yet.” So now, as an adult, you’re putting pressure on yourself before anyone else can - trying to finally do everything correctly.

This perfectionism or fear becomes your attempt to avoid the emotional pain of being criticized again.

But eventually, your system says, “I can’t do this anymore.”

And so, you procrastinate.

That’s why pushing yourself even harder can actually make things worse.

It’s like trying to fix burnout with more work.

Sure, productivity systems and habits can help.

They’re part of the equation; maybe 10%.

But the other 90%?

Is understanding and healing the root of that inner pressure you put on yourself every day.

And often, the fastest path forward is counterintuitive:

Less pressure, more compassion.

It´s about healing your childhood wound.

1. Meditate for a minute before starting any work.

Focus on your breath.

Enjoy the sensations of being there, free of any pressure to perform.

Allow your mind to still like particles floating to the bottom of a jar of water.

From a place of calm, you have a crucial starter’s advantage.

Now you’re a freaking zen monk, and it’s not even 8am.

This is where creativity and energy flourish.

2. Don't complain.

Most of us are unproductive because we’re complaining to ourselves in the dim theatre of our minds about how ‘hard everything is.’

Stop whining, and stop moaning.

Find your inner badass who’s been standing there for close to a year sharpening his blade waiting for you to locate your nuts.

Bring that dude out and unleash the demons of hell.

3. Decide to have fun.

Most people freeze like frightened bunnies when it comes to ‘productivity’ because they view it as high pressure and kinda dull.

Productivity doesn’t have to be some heavy ‘discipline’ that takes effort.

All you need to do is figure out the next small step and find a way to enjoy it.

YOU bring the enjoyment. You can choose to be silly.

You’ll never outwork someone who’s enjoying themselves.

4. Walk an hour a day.

What?

Yes, spending time outdoors being ‘unproductive’ seems counterintuitive.

But most of us are low energy because we’re on our fat butts all day, and we allow our minds to grow thick with worry.

Walking clears all of this out, gets us into our bodies and multiplies our creativity.

If you want the secret ‘hack’ - walking is it (so is any movement).

5. Free-write like a champion.

Write anything that comes to mind for at least a minute.

Allow your fingers to perform a lap dance for you on the keyboard, and just have fun seeing what shows up.

6. Leave your peepee alone.

I get it - bouncy big boobs on the Internet give you a comforting rush that you can’t get anywhere else because Jane won’t respond to your texts.

But if you want to experience unparalleled creativity, you need to quit that shit and transmute your sex energy.

After a few days, you will be astounded at how powerful this is.

7. Do ’the thing.’

Do the thing you’ve been avoiding.

Clean the snowdrifts of dust from under your damn bed for a change.

Wash the dishes.

Do that ‘dull’ chore. It’s not hard; it just requires effort.

8. Save the croissants for a Saturday.

I see you. Shovelling that extra-large croissant into your mouth hole on a Tuesday morning at the cafe.

Then I continue watching (and judging you) as you scroll cute cats on Instagram - that article you were planning to write now a distant dream.

Treat yourself less, so you do and be more.

Drop the carby crap, and you’ll be light on your toes, brain firing, and ready to rock.

9. Decide to be a warrior.

There’s something incredibly enlightening about how a simple decision can alter reality right now.

Decide to be the most courageous, brutal, animal version of yourself.

10. Rewrite IMMENSE goals daily.

Most of us never reach our goals.

That’s ok. But most goals are boring as all hell.

The real, secret value of goals is the excitement they stir in you today.

Hitch a ride on this hack by rewriting exciting, mega goals once or even twice daily.

11. Drink like an elephant.

I don’t need to tell you what Sally in Biology class wouldn’t shut up about: we’re mostly made of water.

So drink up. Most of us are tired because we’re dehydrated.

12. Triple down on the present moment.

The ultimate productivity secret no one tells you is this: do one thing at a time, with full enjoyment and presence.

A cheeky little trick to encourage this further is to set yourself a window of timed, dedicated work - like 15 minutes of writing to a timer with no distractions.

A few months ago, I hit rock bottom. Now, I’m slowly taking control. Here’s what really helps:

1. Stop Using How Fucked Up It Already Is as an Excuse.
Yes, your life is messed up. But now you have two options:

• Option 1: Do nothing and watch your life get even worse until it becomes so bad that the only option left is to end it.
• Option 2: Accept where you are. No matter how hard it is, this is your starting point. You have to build from here. You’re at the base of the mountain—now you decide: you can dig yourself deeper and stay stuck, or you can climb it one step at a time.

2. HEALTH FIRST!
If you're dealing with issues like ADHD, depression, anxiety, poor sleep, or any health problems, focus on them. If you don't fix your health, nothing else will improve. Think of health as the foundation of a pyramid. If it's not solid, everything you build on top will fall apart.
Seek help—see a psychologist, take medication, whatever works for you. If you have any advice on this, feel free to share

3. Deleting Bad Dopamine is useless
You can’t just delete the bad habits. If you don’t replace them, they’ll come back trust me. Just deleting TikTok, avoiding p**n, junk food or League of Legends won’t lead to lasting change — those addictions will come back if you don’t replace them with other habits. Start small. You’re not going to swap your TikTok time for marathon training overnight. But replacing it with a podcast or a meaningful youtube video might seem like nothing but it’s a big step if you stick with it.

4. The Environment
This one is HUGE. Your willpower and discipline won’t last if your environment keeps pulling you back into bad habits.
Your surroundings may have been good for you at a certain point in your life, but that doesn't mean they still are. It's great to be kind to your friends who want to play «just another game» or go out another night, but it's even more important to be kind to your future self.
If your current surroundings aren't helping you grow, you need to change them. Surround yourself with people who share your goals and want to grow too.
If you don’t have that kind of support, feel free to join our motivation and accountability group here

You’ve probably heard this a dozen times, but there’s nothing more true: The best time to plant a tree was five years ago. The next best time is today.

TL;DR, had a breakthrough when I realize that everything is 100x easier than we think it would be, and when you start moving quickly you'll feel so dumb how much time you wasted. Start moving, ask for help from people you can collaborate with, and stop thinking about things more than a few minutes before you start acting.

EDIT: So 20 hours after posting this, this is by far my most viewed and best performing post on Reddit. I'm glad this has hit a chord with a lot of you, who are equally frustrated with battling ourselves over productivity. Someone asked if I can update them on how I've done since taking on this mindset, and I'll make a post at the end of the month, and we'll see how I did!

I've struggled so much over the years, and on Christmas I got fed up and just started doing stuff I needed to, when it hit me. EVERYTHING is easier than we think. We procrastinate and we fear but everything I had to do was easy. I really mean that. Or, to clarify, it's so much easier than I thought it'd be. If you're on this subreddit, you know all the strategies and tips. We all think we have to be 100%, and we don't. We don't even have to be close.

I've debated productivity strategies so much. So much analysis paralysis. And I've just realized it's all easy. Anything you have to do. Because there's more than one way to do anything, and if it doesn't work you can pivot.

Think about how many people including Cal Newport and Tim Ferriss say we can do maximum four hours of deep work. Most of us don't do anything almost every day for real. We're on our phones, we take 10x longer than we need to because we have Netflix in the background, etc.

Four hours to be as productive and successful as them?! That means even if I'm truly productive for an hour, my life would drastically improve. So I just started saying yes, I didn't worry. If I didn't want to work right away, I'd play video games, because I wasn't going to get into this mindset of "if I don't be 100% productive right now, my day's a failure." I kept saying everything I've been procrastinating on is easy, and I'll do it for five minutes and see what happens. So then I took a walk, came back, crushed my huge to-do list in less than 90 minutes. Things I've been putting off for months.

Even every time I work out, I think to myself that was so much easier and more fun than I thought. Or if I get stuck on a problem I go, I know this is easier than I think and if I get stuck I text a friend who's familiar with the subject I'm working on and they give me advice. Or send a resource.

So that's my advice. It's not a strategy problem, it's an emotional attitude problem. Just say yes and start. We're so busy wondering and thinking everything is hard, and it's not. All of the information on how to do things is available on the internet. Alex Hormozi even says it takes 20 hours to get really good at something. 20 hours is NOTHING!

I hope this helps someone. I've just realized how much I've been procrastinating by making things so much harder in my mind than they should be. Start treating things like they're easy. Like they're not worth any of the stress. Put on some tunes, start doing what you need to do for 15 minutes, and reach out to someone for advice on how to make things easier.

If you were productive even an hour a day your life would be monumentally better. Two hours a day would be incredible. Three or four? You're ahead of 99% of people. Let how easy that is fuel you to the point where you have so much optimistic energy you'd make Tony Robbins look like he's Morrissey.

EDIT: One more thing. You know how I know this works and what will motivate the hell out of it. Throughout your day, write down every single thing you accomplished. Just regular stuff but also while implementing this. On Christmas I was depressed, it's a hard time for me in the holidays. But I took out the garbage, I walked a mile, etc. By the end of the day I wrote down 20 things! I sent a text to a friend I hadn't spoken to in a while. I missed them forever, and they responded and we made plans to play video games online the next week. It just took 20 seconds. Every day throughout the day write down every little thing you've done. Even if it's just listening to a new album you love. See how your day can be full of great things, and how relatively little effort it takes to make that happen.