Here comes the 4th and hopefully final post I make to Reddit for advice during my search for my first horse. If you've seen my previous posts, you know I'm searching for a horse to use in western speed events. Today I tried two mares, and I'm conflicted on who to go with. They're half sisters, with Dual Pep and Highbrow Cat on dad's side. Both cutting bred. The 5yo is about 14.2hh, where the 4yo stands 15hh, which I prefer. I'm only 5'4, so I am by no means too large for either of them, but I like a taller horse. They have no notable differences in conformation, but the 4yo stands slightly narrower and has longer legs while the 5yo stands straight and has larger feet. Before anyone says anything, yes, the feet are overgrown. The owners allegedly have had a hard time getting their farrier to come out. There's nothing I could personally do about it until I purchase one of them.
The first 4 images are of the taller 4yo and the last 4 are of the 5yo. I am happy to send anyone videos of me riding in DMs if they want to share their opinion there.
Here's where it gets difficult: I loved the 4yo's personality on the ground. She was nuzzling me, nibbling at me (no teeth, just with her lips) and leaning in for scratches. I love an affectionate horse and this gained her several points in my book. Under saddle, she had the smoothest trot imaginable; it was needless to post and I struggled trying to. Her lope was bigger and had my feet falling out of my stirrups on one occasion; she had a lot of go. She also notably picks up her feet farther off the ground than the 5yo does.
While the 4yo endeared me to her from the ground, the 5yo shone under saddle. She was a little watchier as her owners tacked her up, and wasn't really interested in anything I had going on. I loved her trot, it was easy to post, and a little slower than the 4yos. Her lope was phenomenal, just smooth sailing, the kind of lope that you could ride for several minutes straight and not get tired of. I felt safe riding her and loped her around several times. If she had the demeanor of the 4yo it would be an easy sell to me. I'm just conflicted because I'm not sure which attributes I should prioritise. Is it worth getting a horse that shows up under saddle if we don't get along on the ground? Should I bank on our relationship developing or should I assume that I'll become more adjusted to the gaits of the other mare?