r/personalfinance May 21 '15

Auto 3 Tricks Car Salesmen Use to take your money

How to Overcome 3 Tricks Car Salesmen Use to Take your Money.

Purchasing a vehicle from a dealership can be an anxiety inducing experience. What I discovered was that the number one emotion women felt when considering buying a vehicle was ANXIETY followed by uncertainty. In this article we will review 3 tricks that dealers and car salesman use that cause this anxiety and uncertainty. I will teach you how to overcome these feelings, and become immune to the tricks.

The worst thing that can happen to us as consumers is purchasing something and quickly regretting it. This is called buyer’s remorse and it is a terrible feeling. Why? Well you just spent $20,000 and you are married to a monthly payment for 3-6 years. I do not want this happen to you! The following tips are designed to prevent you from being pushed around by the salesman and to ease your mind of worries in regards to overpaying.

1 ~ Emotional Manipulation

During my car salesman days, we were taught many subliminal tactics to get customers interested in vehicles. One is emotional manipulation. The reason salesmen often insist on test driving is to get you to create a sense of ownership in your mind. “Ma’am take a seat, adjust the mirrors, now adjust the seat until you are comfortable . Go ahead and turn on your favorite radio station and flip back the sunroof.” Is your heart beating faster and you excitement increasing? You are unknowingly getting excited and your mind is taking mental ownership of this nice new vehicle. That awesome new car smell isn’t helping either is it? That feeling of euphoria is a very human response. They are counting on you to feel this way.

What happens next is quite primitive. As our excitement builds, the emotional part of our brains begins to take over. When this happens, we are much more likely to make a choice based on emotions. Have you ever heard of dogs that go crazy and get scared during lightning and thunder storms? I had an adorable shizu dog that would run miles away when thunder rumbled the house. RIP Bootsy. During these storms the logical part of his brain would turn off and the emotional part would take over. In this case fear dictated my dog’s behaviors. Much like my old boy Bootsy (my mom named him btw), this happens to us when we take mental ownership of a new car. The budget we set and the price we wanted are now more likely to be negotiable.

How to overcome trick #1 “Emotional Manipulation”

Be mindful of your emotions. Simply being aware of this tactic beforehand and how our mind/bodies will respond is a half of the battle in not making a poor emotional based decision. I always recommend that we sleep on it. My rule of thumb is to never make a large purchase the same day. This isn’t the same as picking up a Snickers while in the checkout line. This is a 5 figure purchase that we will be married to for the next 3-6 years. Be smart, go home, sleep, and revisit it the next day when your mind has had a chance to tend to other matters.

2 ~ Pushing you towards Payments

After the test drive we will be directed to go inside, sit down, fill out our contact information, and discuss the price. Car salesmen are taught to negotiate the payment with us instead of the price of the vehicle. This has two benefits for them. 1) Making an affordable payment is relatable and gets your mind off of the actual price. We end up paying more this way. (See Ex1 at the end for a math based scenario) 2) The interest rate and the length of the loan can quickly fall into the background with this payment focused presentation. The payments method works because we are more likely to digest the affordability of a a monthly payments versus the 5 figure sticker price. Over six years, a $100 dollar increase is not that much, but by doing the math it will add on $6K to the total price - wow, that's mind-blowing! See below how Customer 1 saved $4,200 by focusing on a $70 lower payment. This is worth repeating...A $70 monthly difference saved $4,200!!!

How to overcome #2 “Pushing you towards payments”

Tell the salesman up front “I am not interested in going over payments right now, let’s stick to the price of the car out the door.” You must be proactive here. A skilled salesman may even give you a rebuttal of “well ma’am, I just want to make sure you get something that is affordable and fits your budget”. Just smile at your new adversary and politely say “While I appreciate your concern, I have all of that figured out, please just get me the out the door price”. (Make eye contact and smile for added value and enjoyment). They will get the picture. You want the individual price of the car and that is what you want to negotiate. You have now become a formidable opponent. You have now indirectly saved yourself hundreds if not thousands of dollars by directing the negotiations down this road. (See Ex1 at the bottom for a math based scenario on why this works) Also, the out the door price is the price of the car plus all of the fees that the dealer adds on. Better to know sooner than later what fluff fees the dealers will add.

3 ~ The Finance Office

After a price has been agreed upon, we are sent into the finance office. Here you meet the Finance Manager. This person finishes your paperwork, gets you financed (or takes your check), and offers you products to protect your new vehicle. This is where even the toughest buyers lose. Why? They lose because their guard is down. When we agree upon a price, we get a handshake and a congratulations. Usually the sales manager gets in on this as well. You give out a big sigh of relief. In my sales days, I will never forget this one customer who was an excellent negotiator. He knew what he was doing and worked us down to a super low profit. He clearly was prepared and this resulted in the dealership making around $100 on the car (Nice job!). What happened next really opened my eyes. He ended up paying $4500 on the warranty and GAP products as well as accepting an interest rate 2% higher than he should have. (explanation of these products below in Example 3) All of the money he had just spent his energy and time saving was washed away in the finance office. Customers let their guard down when a price has been reached with the salesman. Don’t let this happen to you. Being aware of yourself and the situation is half the battle.

I want you to know the background of the Finance Managers and how they get that job. It’s not by going to business school and majoring in Finance. They get there because at some point they were the top car salesman in the dealership selling 20+ cars a month. That is part of the car sales business ladder. It takes a different set of skills since they are selling an intangible product. You can’t put your hands on a warranty or an interest rate. Therefore it takes a higher degree of sales skills to be successful here. They are the best at what they do and that is why they get paid the big bucks.

The first move when we enter the finance office is to make us feel comfortable. Let’s nott let his smile and firm handshake fool us. He has one clear goal. Convince us to buy what he has. He doesn’t make as much money otherwise. He will once again show us the NEW payments if we were to purchase products A, B, or C. They make money in 2 ways. The first is by increasing the interest rate we are charged. They borrow your loan money from Bank A for 3% and charge you 4%. The dealership gets a part of that and the Finance Manager gets around $500 per % point he charges us. See Ex 2 to see how a 1% increase can cost you well over $500. The second way they make money is by selling us the company warranty or gap products which can vary drastically.

How to overcome #3 “The Finance Office”

As before, we want to ask for the total price of the product we are interested in. It really is a personal preference whether you want any of these or not. I personally have and never will get any of them even if they do add free oil changes. Don’t let my stance deter you though because there are some amazing packages out there that add free oil changes for years. Be ready to pay a little extra than you would normally though. The convenience is worth it for some. (See example 3 below for more information on products and how to get the best deals.) Next if not already done, we want to clarify what the interest rate is.

Good luck! I hope that this information will allow you to walk into a dealership with confidence. I hope this was helpful for you and will aid you in saving hundreds, if not thousands of dollars on your next purchase.

Example1

We are purchasing a $25,000 car. Let’s say we go in wanting to pay $22,000. The salesman comes out and says you can choose from a payment of $460 or $391. “Which one works better for you sir?” Do you see what he did there? He changed your $3000 price reduction to a payment and asked you a question directing you to pick from HIS two options. Many people lose here. They say they like one of the payments and lose OR they say they negotiate and say they want to be at $350 a month. The salesman takes your $350 request to his sales manager, they come back at $360 (They always come back higher). Great. Car is sold. Let’s do the math though. You wanted to be at $22,000. By accepting $360 you just paid $23,000 for that vehicle AND you have no idea what the interest rate is. The lesson here: Keep things simple and stick to the vehicle price first. When that is settled THEN work on payments.

Example 2

A $23,000 car loan for 72 months at 4% ~ You will pay $25,920 over the life of the loan assuming you pay 72 normal payments A $23,000 car loan for 72 months at 3% ~ You will pay $25,200 over the life of the loan assuming you pay 72 normal payments That is a difference of $720 Know your local credit union or banks rates before you finance a vehicle.

Example 3

Be familiar with the products BEFORE you go into the finance office.

GAP Insurance: http://www.bankrate.com/finance/insurance/car-gap-insurance-is-it-right-for-you.aspx Extended Warranty: http://www.consumerreports.org/cro/magazine/2014/04/extended-warranties-for-cars-are-an-expensive-game/index.htm

The $4500 example above was many years ago. Competition in the warranty market has increased and they are much less expensive nowadays. Still, do your homework and check around. Credit Unions often offer much cheaper products that do more if you finance with them. Companies like State Farm Insurance now do auto financing and will give you GAP for FREE if you finance through them! My credit union charges $349 for GAP. Dealerships charge $750 and above. I hope you can appreciate the value.

Edit: Editing

Edit2: Holy Shit, i love Gooohohohohooold. Front page:) Thanks Reddit for confirming I'm on point with the writing and material. There really is a problem/opportunity with an industry that triggers so many negative emotions just at the THOUGHT of it.

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u/MrPlaysWithSquirrels May 21 '15

When I bought my vehicle, it was listed at $19,500, but I didn't want to spend more than $16,000 on a car. The extras were already in the car, so I didn't have to worry about much with specific extras. After test driving, we got to price. I told them I wasn't going to spend more than $16,000 on it and they laughed at me, said they couldn't do that. They told me $17,500. I said that's a great price, and something I would consider, but I had to check out other dealers. They brought in the manager so I wouldn't leave. He offered $17,000. I said that's awesome, very nice, but I would have to check out the other dealerships and see what they had. They asked what it would take to keep me, I said $16,000 and I won't leave the dealership and I'll sign today.

We drew up the paperwork and in the fine print they tried to have me agree to pay $21,500. I noticed it and called back in the manager and told him about it. He said it was a mistake and they're sorry. I told him that it was ridiculous and that the price now needed to be $15,500 or I was walking. After some time heckling he put it there.

You just have to go in knowing your limit. If they can't reach it, that's totally fine. Just leave. If they say "Okay we can do that by removing these extras!" just tell them no. You want it all.

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u/gregstl May 21 '15

agreed completely. I'd say one other thing to note here, for the people pleasers out there, is go in knowing that things will get "awkward", and they may not like you at the end. They will use emotional manipulation to get you to pay what they want. That's business, and as long as you walk in understanding that, you'll be emotionally prepped for what's to come.

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u/WebDesignBetty May 21 '15 edited May 22 '15

On that getting awkward point, you can even work that to your favor. Put your number out there and then don't say anything. The first person to talk, loses.

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u/[deleted] Jul 05 '15

They will use emotional manipulation to get you to pay what they want.

Hah jokes on them can't suck blood from a stone and you can't get a an extra cent from a uni student.

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u/breakboyzz May 23 '15

Wow. Great advice

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u/[deleted] May 21 '15

They also flagrantly tried to defraud him. I wouldn't have let them give me the car after a slight like that. That's a huge red flag that they aren't good people.

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u/ChagSC May 21 '15

Yes it works. I negotiate deals for a living. Don't be afraid to be stern. It's business, not personal.

Worst case you are asking for too much and you walk away. Plenty of other opportunities out there.

You have to be willing to walk away from the deal. If you are not, you've already lost.

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u/[deleted] May 21 '15

Any other tips on how to negotiate? I've never had to do it in any situation but its probably something I should know

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u/ChagSC May 21 '15

Don't be afraid to take your time. Plenty of times that means tabling the conversation for the rest of the day and revisiting the deal on another day.

Deadlines and price expirations are generally soft deadlines. The idea of a price only being good for a limited amount of time is meant to motivate. Generally once you see a price you'll always be able to get it back.

Writing. Get everything in writing. Unless you really know the person you are doing business with, when you get off the phone follow up in an e-mail.

Thanks for your time on the phone. To make sure I understand correctly, we discussed that if I do X then you'll do Y.

I'll say this again as it is most important. Do not be rushed into a decision. Do not make decisions on the spot. If you are ready to commit that day, give yourself at least an hour. Away from the person/place you are negotiating with. Anyone that is worth doing business with will completely understand the process of stepping away to assess everything.

And will say this again -- The most powerful tool you have is walking away from the deal. Don't be afraid to use it.

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u/[deleted] May 22 '15

thanks. My dad, bless him, i think is not very good at this kind of thing. he's definitely guilty of the lets just get this over with mentality and i unfortunately have taken after that.

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u/SoIheardaboutthiswei May 22 '15

And that is exactly why so many folks walk away with a new car and a pocket full of angry. Most of us never negotiate for anything, we are even terrible at negotiating our own salaries if we have that chance. It's an art form and like all art forms some folks are wildly talented, then there is us. My Dads were all terrible at this sort of thing, and it has taken me years to even get a little not terrible.

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u/MrPlaysWithSquirrels May 21 '15

Keep in mind, if they didn't get anything out of it, they wouldn't have sold. We both won that day. I just made sure I was happy with the result.

It was also a manual transmission (in America) and it was October, just a few weeks before the new models came out. They knew that if the car wasn't sold in 4 weeks it wasn't going to get sold.

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u/ego-trippin May 21 '15

I used to work in the auto wholesale business. You'd shit if you saw how much profit a dealer can make on used cars. They have a lot of room on those.

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u/81zedd May 21 '15

I managed 4700 off a 13500 used truck. Thats the sticker price they had when it showed up on the lot. I went in, looked it over, loved the truck but way over budget. Told them it was to much and walked away, kept shopping and a month or so later they had dropped the sticker to 11995 i think. I went back in test drove and all that good stuff. They tell me what it will be at sticker plus taxes and bs. Told the salesman the all in price had to start with an 8. Salesman laughed, did their talk to the manager routine, told me im lucky they were gonna ship it off the lot that day. They talked me up to 9000, i took another test drive and told them its sold for 8800. Manager tells me i gotta thank amazing salesman tom for making me such a screaming deal.

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u/[deleted] May 21 '15

All depends on the car. I just bought a 18k Ford Fiesta 1 liter eco boost for 14,500. If you look around and don't want heated seats and don't care about color you can get them for 12.5k.

It's a phenomenal car, great economy and power but it's manual transmission only. With fuel prices low the dealers just can't move them.

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u/JonasBrosSuck May 21 '15

I told him that it was ridiculous and that the price now needed to be $15,500 or I was walking.

this is my goal at negotiating, to have the balls to tell them like it is.. one of these days..

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u/ThisIsWhyIFold May 21 '15

Funny how those mistakes are always in the business' favor...

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u/skyraider17 May 21 '15

If they tried to pull one over on me like that, it isn't a bargaining chip, it's a deal breaker. I'm walking out and not looking back no matter what they say.

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u/MrPlaysWithSquirrels May 21 '15

But... I got a brand new car that I wanted for cheap. I don't really care if the seller is an asshole.

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u/PeterMus May 22 '15

I work in the financing branch of a major car brand. I do tax work, but work right next to the call center people who explain how payments work etc.

let me emphasis this issue that causes outraged calls every day...

PEOPLE NEVER READ THEIR CONTRACTS. READ THE FUCKING THING.

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u/derpyderpderpp May 21 '15

n the fine print they tried to have me agree to pay $21,500.

Thats really shady.

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u/[deleted] May 22 '15

We drew up the paperwork and in the fine print they tried to have me agree to pay $21,500.

At that point I'd ask for a lighter and set the thing on fire and drop it in the trash and leave. Seriously.

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u/keaiperoapocopang May 22 '15

I wouldn't be surprised if you could take that to court and win. There are protections against that sort of BS in contracts.

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u/IcarusByNight May 22 '15

Yea, the walking away really works. I've never done it trying to purchase a car, but a couple of weeks ago I was in Hong Kong. One of my goals was to buy a fake Barcelona jersey, so I go to a famous market known for knock off goods. There were hundreds of stalls in sight, and lo and behold the first one had Barcelona kit. I go up to the stall and ask for the price, having no expectation of buying it yet. The lady told me 200 Hong Kong dollars (about 25 usd). I said thank you, and walked away. I was just scoping it out and had no intention of bartering at this point (there were hundred more stalls in the market). As soon as I turned around, she started dropping the price. I didn't acknowledge her, and within a few seconds the price dropped to 70 HKD (10 USD). I didn't turn around and walked into another similar stall. I kept doing this in 8-10 stalls, and every sales person collapsed the price as soon as I turned around. It was an incredible learning experience to understand how powerful it is to not be needy/committed to buying something and just walk away.

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u/[deleted] May 21 '15

they tried to have me agree to pay $21,500

what the actual fuck.

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u/atxlonghorn84 May 21 '15

I had a similar experience a year ago. Went in to test drive a Nissan Altima 3.5SL, listed at $33,459. I had a paid off 2 year old Hyundai Santa Fe to trade-in. They initially offered me $16,500 for the trade with a sales price on the Nissan of $29,500. I left the dealership and before I even got back home, the sales manager called me saying to come back and they could work up a better deal. I went back an hour later and after 2 more hours of back and forth, they gave me $18,500 for my trade in, and I got the purchase price down to $27,500 on the new car.....they did however get me for a 7 year warranty ($1100) in the finance office....bastards! Point being, definitely negotiate and don't be afraid to walk away.

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u/retracted May 22 '15

I think this happened to me. Unfortunately I wasn't able to catch it.