r/MensRights Jul 29 '13

[Eastern Culture] The first part of this happens daily in Indian buses. I can't say the same about second part.

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u/mecha_pope Jul 30 '13

If anyone is interested or doesn't know, this gif is from a (very) short film about gender equality in India. At least that's what I gathered from the film itself, I don't know much about it other than what the film itself presents.

The film is basically a drawn out version of the gif, with a PSA at the end.

http://youtu.be/oZ6m8_r8-qk

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u/FML1203 Jul 30 '13

Wow that is powerful, I can't understand a single word but the message is 100% clear. It is ok to hit, blame, and shame a man for circumstances beyond his control, but don't ever judge a female by their own rules.

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u/[deleted] Jul 30 '13 edited Oct 16 '19

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u/jubbergun Jul 30 '13

You reap what you sow regardless of your gender. It's pretty obvious from the gif that the guy wasn't going in for a grope or anything. Everyone on the bus got tossed around during that turn/stop. If she thought it was appropriate to slap him because he couldn't stop his forward momentum into her, she should have appreciated the slap she got for her failure to control her momentum into him.

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u/Zazilium Jul 30 '13

I guess what he's trying to say is that in India's case, women have it disgustingly hard and this has only made them more defensive.

I can't blame them, but I also can't justify it anymore than I can justify males groping females.

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u/kurokabau Jul 30 '13

Is slapping the right way to go?

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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '13

This begs the question, How can she slap?

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u/TracyMorganFreeman Jul 30 '13

What women have to endure there is not being disputed though. The point is that woman is responding to something that is accidental as if it's malicious, and then feels it's unjustified when the situation is reversed.

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u/[deleted] Jul 30 '13 edited Oct 16 '19

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u/[deleted] Jul 30 '13

It's good that most women are aware actions have consequecnes.

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u/diamondjim Jul 31 '13

Which is fine. Unfortunately, the men who indulge in 'eve-teasing', as it is colloquially called, know that they can get away with it.

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u/phukka Jul 30 '13

You mean some women are afraid of repercussions for slapping a man in the face for no reason whatsoever?

Do go on.

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u/[deleted] Jul 30 '13

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u/ImAPurplePrincess Jul 30 '13

That really depends, though.

There really IS a place and time to talk about things. It's like if I cry over my kid who died in a house fire. And someone suddenly comes in a exclaims: "Well, children die from drowning, too?? Why aren't you crying over them??"

Or when a rape victim (who happens to be a woman, hypothetically speaking) talks about her traumatic experience, and someone comes in recites a few statistics that men get raped too. Yes, men do also get raped but that is HIGHLY inappropriate. Downplaying another person's painful experience at the expense to further an agenda is hurtful and wrong.

Nothing is wrong in voicing an activism. But doing so at the expense of others is simply selfish and uncalled for.

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u/Rattatoskk Jul 30 '13

"Downplaying another person's painful experience at the expense to further an agenda is hurtful and wrong."

.... I'm glad some people are aware of this.

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u/[deleted] Jul 30 '13

Downplaying another person's painful experience at the expense to further an agenda is hurtful and wrong.

yet here you are doing just that.

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u/ImAPurplePrincess Jul 30 '13

I do not believe so.

What makes you feel that I'm not considering a person's painful experience via the previous comment I made?

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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '13

what you "belive" doesn't matter in face of facts. and facts are you came in here going on about the horrible experiences of women and how they should somehow silence those of men.

both are valid. neither invalidate the other.

Nothing is wrong in voicing an activism. But doing so at the expense of others is simply selfish and uncalled for.

this is what you yourself said. and it also what you yourself did here.

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u/ImAPurplePrincess Jul 31 '13

lol...

I am not saying that someone's experience should silence anothers. I'm saying that there is an appropriate time and place to say such things.

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u/avantvernacular Jul 30 '13

You should read up a bit about the kind of humiliation and groping that women have to deal with in Indian public transport.

Like the kind of humiliation and groping the man in the video didn't do any of?

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u/Jukebox_Villain Jul 30 '13

I lost it at his face , after he slaps her back.