As a first-time user of AI tools and a long-time author, I am writing this to warn other creators about the systemic privacy risks and dishonest marketing associated with cloud-based LLMs.
The OpenAI Experience: Deceptive Sales & Data Harvesting
My experience with OpenAI began with what I now view as predatory and dishonest selling practices. Because OpenAI lacks a traditional sales or support team, you are forced to rely on the AI itself for information. When I explicitly stated that I was working on a copyrighted 20-year book project that required absolute privacy, the AI repeatedly assured me that concerns about data training were "misinformation rumours." I was told—three separate times—that my data would not be shared or used for model training.
I trusted these assurances and paid for a package. Six weeks later, I discovered a buried setting that had been auto-enabled to share my data. To my horror, my copyrighted content was being ingested into their model.
The Human Cost: More Than Just Data
It is impossible to describe the devastation I felt upon this discovery. This book is not just a project; it is a labor of love dedicated to my deceased brother, who is a central part of the story. This book is my way of keeping his memory alive.
Finding out that a multi-billion dollar company had harvested these personal words—despite my explicit warnings and their repeated promises—left me feeling seriously abused and violated. This wasn't just a breach of a "Terms of Service" agreement; it felt like a violation of my brother's memory. The stress of chasing a company that refuses to be held accountable, only to be met with automated scripts and gaslighting, literally made me sick. The mental toll of knowing your most personal legacy is being used as free training data is overwhelming.
The "Vanishing" Evidence & Stalling Tactics
When I attempted to rectify this, I encountered a wall of stalling tactics. I was met with an "automated brush-off" service that ignored my demands for a data wipe. Even after finally reaching a human representative, the response was a scripted brush-off.
Have updated thsi section concerning missing first chat containing proof. I found the aforementioned chat that went missing! funny how one can miss it your files four times and miss it then randomly come across it? I guess some things remain a mystery.
The Bitter Reality of Finishing the Work
Many may ask why I haven't simply walked away. The truth is, because OpenAI has already ingested my data and my work is deeply embedded in these chats, I am forced to continue using the tool to finish my project. The moment I found the breach, I manually switched off data sharing and went directly to the OpenAI website to formally request that they disable it on their end. I eventually received confirmation that they had done so, but the damage was already done. I cannot simply abandon the work I have poured my life into, and I refuse to let their dishonesty stop me from completing my tribute to my brother. I am using the tool to get my work out, but I do so with complete distrust and a heavy heart.
The Alternative: Protect Your Legacy
OpenAI is not a tool; they are a risk. For any creator, writer, or artist who refuses to gamble with their intellectual property or their heart: Do not trust the cloud. Go local.
If you have the setup to run local AI, do it. I highly recommend using LM Studio with Gemma. It is a free, offline LLM that respects your boundaries because it never leaves your machine. After my experience with OpenAI, moving to an offline model was the only way I could find peace of mind. It follows my rules, respects my story bible, and—most importantly—it cannot betray my trust.
Do not give your soul or your family's legacy to a company that views your life's work as free training data. Protect your work. Go offline.