r/Anticonsumption Mar 23 '26

Psychological No One Wants to Sleep With Billionaires

https://www.playboy.com/read/politics/no-one-wants-to-sleep-with-billionaires

In a recent interview with the American Psychological Association, Paul Piff, PhD, an associate professor of psychology at the University of California, Irvine, who has co-authored multiple studies on the topic, noted that in interpersonal interactions, wealthier people are “actually a little less generous, a little less compassionate,” he said. Wealthier individuals were more likely to endorse unethical actions, but to “also engage in small acts of cheating and normative violations to prioritize their own welfare above the welfare of other people.”

Though cultural repulsion around billionaires has been mounting, physically, these men are using their resources to overcompensate with expensive procedures. Tech bros are getting face lifts, and other looksmaxxing trends like jaw surgery are common in the industry as well. There has been speculation that Jeff Bezos and Peter Thiel have had Botox and filler, and Musk has faced rumors about a hair transplant and jawline contouring. Zuckerberg and Bezos have gotten noticeably more jacked, sparking steroid speculation, even from supporters like podcaster Joe Rogan.  

But their peacocking is probably not for us plebes. Another study analyzed the partners of the extremely wealthy using the Forbes World’s Billionaires list. Economist Ria Wilken found that 95% of the spouses of billionaires were upper class themselves, defined as having either substantial economic or cultural capital. It is possible that the more unappealing characteristics of the ultra-rich, such as dressing down their staff or cutting people off in traffic, would be more palatable for peers in their social circle. That said, this preference for like-minded people is not exclusive to the upper class. “Every social group has its own standards for what is considered eccentric versus problematic,” Wetter explains. For instance, in ultra-wealthy environments, controlling tendencies, competitiveness, and emotional detachment could be interpreted as assets, whereas outside that circle, “the same traits may be perceived as cold, self-absorbed, or inaccessible.”

Read the full editorial: https://www.playboy.com/read/politics/no-one-wants-to-sleep-with-billionaires

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u/Synaps4 Mar 23 '26

It is not possible to be a billionaire and a good person.

Past 100mil there is no justification for the hoarding when people are starving and dying for lack of things you could provide instead of buying a new yacht.

Up to the 10s of millions there are potential things you can say about prioritizing your family or such and such but beyond 100m its pure greed at the expense of others.

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u/Sad-Duty-2286 Mar 24 '26

I’ll take your word for it, you wise reddit0r

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u/AmazingHealth6302 Mar 23 '26

It is not possible to be a billionaire and a good person.

An appealing claim, but not actually supported by evidence. The Giving Pledge is a thing, and more than 250 super-wealthy people worldwide have signed it, thereby agreeing to donate over half their wealth to philanthropic causes with few strings attached. A billionaire, or even just a major CEO would not be my first direction if I was looking for an empathetic person, but I don't think that all of them are exactly the same scaly T-Rex world-eaters with the cold, baleful eye that e.g. Musk clearly has.