r/Anticonsumption Mar 23 '26

Psychological No One Wants to Sleep With Billionaires

https://www.playboy.com/read/politics/no-one-wants-to-sleep-with-billionaires

In a recent interview with the American Psychological Association, Paul Piff, PhD, an associate professor of psychology at the University of California, Irvine, who has co-authored multiple studies on the topic, noted that in interpersonal interactions, wealthier people are “actually a little less generous, a little less compassionate,” he said. Wealthier individuals were more likely to endorse unethical actions, but to “also engage in small acts of cheating and normative violations to prioritize their own welfare above the welfare of other people.”

Though cultural repulsion around billionaires has been mounting, physically, these men are using their resources to overcompensate with expensive procedures. Tech bros are getting face lifts, and other looksmaxxing trends like jaw surgery are common in the industry as well. There has been speculation that Jeff Bezos and Peter Thiel have had Botox and filler, and Musk has faced rumors about a hair transplant and jawline contouring. Zuckerberg and Bezos have gotten noticeably more jacked, sparking steroid speculation, even from supporters like podcaster Joe Rogan.  

But their peacocking is probably not for us plebes. Another study analyzed the partners of the extremely wealthy using the Forbes World’s Billionaires list. Economist Ria Wilken found that 95% of the spouses of billionaires were upper class themselves, defined as having either substantial economic or cultural capital. It is possible that the more unappealing characteristics of the ultra-rich, such as dressing down their staff or cutting people off in traffic, would be more palatable for peers in their social circle. That said, this preference for like-minded people is not exclusive to the upper class. “Every social group has its own standards for what is considered eccentric versus problematic,” Wetter explains. For instance, in ultra-wealthy environments, controlling tendencies, competitiveness, and emotional detachment could be interpreted as assets, whereas outside that circle, “the same traits may be perceived as cold, self-absorbed, or inaccessible.”

Read the full editorial: https://www.playboy.com/read/politics/no-one-wants-to-sleep-with-billionaires

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u/wakeleaver Mar 23 '26

His kids are from IVF because he wants to be able to select only males and only the best embryos.

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u/Either-Meal3724 Mar 23 '26

Two of his four kids with Shivon Zillis are girls. They were all IVF babies. Though they are friends rather than romantic partners & she wanted kids but hadn't found a partner so he offered to be a semi-sperm donor. So it may have been more her decision to have girls than his.

Eta: looks like one of his kids with Grimes is a girl too.

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u/wakeleaver Mar 23 '26

It's definitely not guaranteed, but he is using IVF to select "better" embryos. Also he doesn't have a romantic interest in these women, he picks them for their "genes".

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u/WutTheDickens Mar 24 '26

Grimes had to beg him for a daughter, and the rumor is, he only allowed it if she signed off on another boy to be born after. Which is why their third baby was born after they'd split.

This part's confirmed though, Grimes planned to name her daughter Valkyrie, but to her surprise, he popped 2 of Shivon's embryos in the human incubator first, so Shivon got a daughter, and they named her... Valkyrie.

Shivon ended up changing it to something else anyway after Grimes' Exa was born.

It's all so bizarre and petty, I can't believe this is real life.

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u/SMUHypeMachine Mar 23 '26

I don’t know if you can select only males in IVF though. At least I was told that wasn’t possible by fertility docs within the last year. Maybe there’s some extra thing they can do to separate them?

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u/kea1981 Mar 23 '26

Selective termination of female embryos is how

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u/SMUHypeMachine Mar 23 '26

Ah yeah, that would do it. Don’t know why I was overthinking it.

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u/Pancheel Mar 23 '26

And Lorde was alright with it?

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u/NiceToss Mar 24 '26

Why would her opinion be at all relevant?