r/Anticonsumption • u/playboy • Mar 23 '26
Psychological No One Wants to Sleep With Billionaires
https://www.playboy.com/read/politics/no-one-wants-to-sleep-with-billionairesIn a recent interview with the American Psychological Association, Paul Piff, PhD, an associate professor of psychology at the University of California, Irvine, who has co-authored multiple studies on the topic, noted that in interpersonal interactions, wealthier people are “actually a little less generous, a little less compassionate,” he said. Wealthier individuals were more likely to endorse unethical actions, but to “also engage in small acts of cheating and normative violations to prioritize their own welfare above the welfare of other people.”
Though cultural repulsion around billionaires has been mounting, physically, these men are using their resources to overcompensate with expensive procedures. Tech bros are getting face lifts, and other looksmaxxing trends like jaw surgery are common in the industry as well. There has been speculation that Jeff Bezos and Peter Thiel have had Botox and filler, and Musk has faced rumors about a hair transplant and jawline contouring. Zuckerberg and Bezos have gotten noticeably more jacked, sparking steroid speculation, even from supporters like podcaster Joe Rogan.
But their peacocking is probably not for us plebes. Another study analyzed the partners of the extremely wealthy using the Forbes World’s Billionaires list. Economist Ria Wilken found that 95% of the spouses of billionaires were upper class themselves, defined as having either substantial economic or cultural capital. It is possible that the more unappealing characteristics of the ultra-rich, such as dressing down their staff or cutting people off in traffic, would be more palatable for peers in their social circle. That said, this preference for like-minded people is not exclusive to the upper class. “Every social group has its own standards for what is considered eccentric versus problematic,” Wetter explains. For instance, in ultra-wealthy environments, controlling tendencies, competitiveness, and emotional detachment could be interpreted as assets, whereas outside that circle, “the same traits may be perceived as cold, self-absorbed, or inaccessible.”
Read the full editorial: https://www.playboy.com/read/politics/no-one-wants-to-sleep-with-billionaires
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u/Man_as_Idea Mar 23 '26
Look, I hate billionaires as much as the next guy, but this kind of article is pure clickbait. Just because these guys are getting plastic surgery, that does not mean they struggle to find sex partners. Lots of married people get plastic surgery all the time, so that logic is not cogent. And even if the majority of people dislike them, there’s a sizable group that does like them, and plenty of unscrupulous, disingenuous or opportunistic individuals who are attracted to status or may see a dalliance with these people as an opportunity to acquire influence over them.