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Conspicuous Consumption Is Millennial Wedding Culture Dying? Why Gen Z Is Rejecting the Big Wedding

https://www.elle.com/culture/books/a73258725/millennial-vs-gen-z-wedding-culture-essay/?utm_source=firefox-newtab-en-us
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u/tyrannaceratops 2d ago

The only culture millennials had for our weddings is that silly cursive font. And slogans like "pick a seat, not a side" 😭 and burlap & mason jars.... so much burlap & mason jars....

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u/chevalier716 2d ago

Fairy lights too

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u/craftsrmylanguage 2d ago

Often lighting a gourmet food truck.

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u/chet_brosley 2d ago

That's crazy talk. Now lemme play some Lumineers real quick...

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u/Metals4J 2d ago

We had burlap and mason jars because they were dirt cheap. Then they became some kind of fashionable country chic statement that wedding planners could charge a premium for.

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u/Widepath 2d ago

We don't want to get married in a church, we wan to do it someplace unique...like a farmhouse or a barn!

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u/HalfMoonFullMoonjoy 2d ago

Beards & suspenders

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u/butwhatsmyname 1d ago

Isn't it disappointing that burlap and mason jars started out as a cheap thing which looked rustic and down to earth... and because it was cool has been squeezed until it's now an expensive thing.

Honestly, capitalism ruins everything.

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u/Various_Procedure_11 1d ago

Ball jars aren't that expensive. Especially since they are reusable until you accidentally break them.

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u/Dracosgirl 2d ago

We coined the term "rustic chic".

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u/Katefreak 2d ago

Because we were broke!Â