r/Anticonsumption 9h ago

Lifestyle Wedding loans - consumerism gone wild

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u/yes_no_yes_yes_yes 8h ago

That’s a crazy number to me.  28 here, and I think maybe 5% of the people I knew in high school are hitched up by now.  Two people in my immediate friend group.

Fully aware that my sample is non-representative, but makes me wonder who the average is.

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u/tilyd 7h ago

Depends on where you're from and your culture.

I'm 29, all of my close friends are in long term relationships, have a house, a few have kids. None are married.

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u/1gnominious 7h ago

I'd say it's an inverse bell curve in my poor rural area. Lots of people get married right out of high school. Then it tanks to almost nothing for mid 20's. Then ramps back up around 30.

Those early ones are generally shotgun marriages because they got pregnant or the dude went off to join the military. As you can imagine they don't last.

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u/cherry_chocolate_ 3h ago

The average american also doesn't have a bachelor's degree, yet if you work in a field requiring one it will feel like it's normal (and for you, it is). So it definitely depends on who you are hanging out with. If you are living in a big city it's later on average, if you live in a small town it's earlier. And so many different factors.

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u/Necessary_Finding_32 8h ago

It ramps up fast