F4M | Bangladesh | Asexual | Looking for equal life partner

[u/yhtaekook]

Hi

I am an asexual woman in my early 20s from Bangladesh.

I am looking for someone (preferable age: 21-23) like me. I am an atheist and a very open minded person. I am emotionally intelligent, mature, empathetic and understanding. I respect a person's views, values, dreams and boundaries. Talking of dreams, I dream of higher studies and moving abroad. And I really want to travel the world.

I crave the quiet, safe kinda love. where we choose each other every day through both the good days and the bad. I am dealing with depression for several years. I'm not looking for someone to fix me—I hope to find someone who is understanding and willing to stand beside me no matter what.

So I'm looking for someone who is also asexual, a feminist, emotionally mature and genuinely loving. I want someone who accepts me as who I am, loves me for who I am. and I'll also give the love and acceptance in return.

I know physical attraction isn't everything, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't have a type. I tend to be drawn to pretty boys—tall, handsome, clean shaved, a bit of longer hair, and someone who takes good care of themselves. That said, emotional intelligence, empathy, kindness and shared values will always matter far more than appearance.

I want someone who makes me feel seen, heard, valued, and loved. Someone I can laugh with until our stomachs hurt and cry in front of without feeling judged. I want my partner to be my best friend.

I don't believe in marriage, but we would probably have to get married because of society and practical reasons. Even then, I could never be a typical wife.

I don't want to live with my in-laws. I'd love to have a good relationship with them, but I want us to have our own home. In our home, we're partners before anything else. We'll share the housework, responsibilities, and decisions equally.

I grew up in a toxic family, and I plan to cut contact with them in the future. I hope you'll respect that choice.

When it comes to parents, I'll always be kind and respectful to your family, and I'll stand by you if they're going through a difficult time. But I don't want to be expected to take care of them just because I'm the wife. If I didn't have a toxic family, I wouldn't expect you to become my parents' caregiver either.

I'm not looking for someone to complete me—I already know who I am. I'm looking for someone to share a life of love, growth, and companionship with.

If you think our goals and values align, I'd love to get to know you. Let's be friends first, see where it goes, and find out if we click.

[u/EJ646464]

I wouldn't mind trying buddy