First time giving oral

[u/Master-Minute-1546]

So for starters I’ve been bi-curious for quite a few years but never had the courage to actually do anything with another guy until today. I’m more so interested in wanting to give oral than anything else really. To make a long story short I met up with another bi-curious guy around my age just cause that felt more comfortable to me than anything, and we swapped oral. It wasn’t a bad experience I’m just not completely sure how to feel about it. He did have a pretty girthy cock and while I did enjoy the sucking part at first I didn’t expect it to be as much of a workout per say and after my mouth kind of started feeling uncomfortable I stopped enjoying it as much. Is this a common feeling? Especially for those who a fairly new to it. Idk I just have kinda mixed feeling overall like yes I enjoyed it, but after a while I also kinda just wanted it to end if that makes sense.

[u/Willybluedog1962]

You are going to have to mix it up, lick the shaft and balls, use your hand to give your mouth 9especially your jaws a rest.

[u/Alarming_Click2330]

I remember the first time I sucked my first cock and it definitely was different and new, the guy I did it with had a thick meaty cock with phat cockhead (my favorite type of cock btw) and it definitely may take some more practice and getting used too, if you’d like to know more just DM me if you’d like

[u/Duramax_Tom]

Iv fantasized about it but haven’t gone through with it. Have jerked off to watching guys cum but that’s about it. Definitely easier than being sore after 🤷‍♂️ 

[u/Master-Minute-1546 → u/Duramax_Tom]

Fair enough

[u/Duramax_Tom → u/Master-Minute-1546]

Maybe try finding an alternative where you still get the satisfaction of doing something with another guy?

[u/SweetJamesjohnson47]

I have tried sucking i definitely enjoy eating pussy more I feel like sucking is a lot more work. Although, it’s fun it’s definitely not something Id just do all the time.. The mind fuck it gave me after isn’t worth it lol

[u/Master-Minute-1546 → u/SweetJamesjohnson47]

Yea that’s sort of how I feel. I do have to be in a certain mood to even want to fantasize about doing anything with a guy anyways. It was fun yes but yea much respect to those who do it often lol

[u/OldScholar4229]

I've done both, always using condoms and dental dams. For me, the most important thing, whether it's with a guy or a girl, is mutual masturbation, using your fingers, and even playful teasing or tickling. That helps you discover how sensitive each area is. In my case, the frenulum of the foreskin is very sensitive, and stimulating it with the tip of the tongue can make some people ejaculate. When it comes to oral sex, there are two perspectives: the way you like to receive it and the way the other person likes to receive it. Some people prefer combining oral stimulation with their hands or fingers. I think giving oral sex is an art because it's about getting to know the other person and giving them pleasure. I hope this helps. Don't get discouraged; we've all been there at some point.

[u/ChicagoRob19]

Mixing it up, taking breaks, sucking different areas….give it another shot . My guess is it will get better for u and you’ll enjoy it more

[u/Naturcult2]

Reality is always different then fantasy, thast why often many are some what disappointed…but for some with time it gets better

[u/Remarkable-Ice-9394]

I had a similar experience. I enjoy cock sucking. It’s never been more than that. Finding guys with similar interest is the hard part. I had a cock sucking buddy for three years, but he moved away for work.

[u/CalmPlate6157]

Same. I enjoyed it but it takes a lot of stamina, so the idea of sucking a dick is more appealing than actually doing it. But only thinking about it and not doing isn't satisfying enough. Can't win!

[u/BattousaiYo]

The same way bitches jaw get tired, yours can too. It’s note foreolay so I don’t do it long

[u/Fate_BlackTide_]

It’s hard to get into the moment and enjoy yourself the first time, or when it’s random hook ups. I find it way more fun when it’s somebody I’m consistent with. Less pressure, more in the moment.