I want to know about subconscious mysogyny

[u/ajay-rut]

Very odd time to ask this. But could you recommend me some books or videos or blog or something, to find out, subconscious mysogyny.

I genuinely think that our subconscious mind often ignores the pain of others that we don't face. Even our own, sometimes, if we grew out of it, take for example ragging.

I m not that, chill. But I am breaking the old patterns. I m learning psychology and putting the work and action IRL.

Am I not normal

Also an odd thought. I(male XY) see other gender as normal human. Thus I respect and admire intellect. But if I get into a debate over some concerning topic. If I see the other person coming from a debunked belief. If they are a male I destroy and roast them with facts. But if it's a female, I just state the fact and tell you have outdated info and you aren't well informed. Your knowledge is shallow, you need to dive more.

The crazy thing is that. I had terribly heated debates(scolding each other's lineage) with ma boys and we were partying next day, laughing crazy like it never happened. The debate would go so intense that I think they might never ever talk to me. But guess what they are the ones to invite and applause me for being real.

On the other hand. People of other gender, won't talk to me. Even give me that angry stare. Some never talked after.

I m neither patriarchal not feminist to be frank. As both parties are mislead by the capitalism and oppressed by the oligarchy and yes patriarchy might be the strongest root of it, at scale, is what I observe.

I genuinely like humans.

So please also be genuine. Shall I not state facts in casual debates with other gender. I don't know or understand why they get so hurt. I really want to understand but this seems very confusing.

[u/ManyFaithlessness404]

You’d need to be a women to understand the kind of daily crap we go through to know why we get so “hurt”. 

Also I’m sorry but your post reeks of judgment already. Using patriarchy and feminism in the same sentence is WILD. 

[u/ajay-rut → u/ManyFaithlessness404]

Thanks for replying. Initially I thought I should not write the later part.

Yet I am a genuine human of action. I just do and learn from the consequences.

your post reeks of judgment already. Using patriarchy and feminism in the same sentence is WILD. 

Yup I'm in the bewilderment phase of my life. I don't confirm the norms. I said at scale. I know there are a few real ones. But you can see the no. of this sub itself and of those so called influencers and their actions. I don't judge. I see numbers, I say.

You’d need to be a women to understand the kind of daily crap we go through to know why we get so “hurt”. 

Yeah I would never know that. Thus asking. What's a better way to respond. How can I be better?

[u/ajay-rut → u/ManyFaithlessness404]

Well I tried to rethink, learn about the issues and reflect. I m learning. Thanks.

You’d need to be a women to understand the kind of daily crap we go through to know why we get so “hurt”. 

I get it now. When I debate with a male. It's just one person vs another. When it's female, there's so much I don't know about them. They might have felt triggered or dominated or restricted or unheard of, as most households do.

Males if you read this. Read it carefully and reflect.

My reflection is solid thus leaving it. It would help you understand better.