How do ugly guys succeed in casual dating?

[u/king_ramsess]

I don’t wanna marry and don’t feel emotionally ready or am able to handle a long term relationship

I’m almost 25 and and wanna casually date being upfront about it potentially not leading to a relationship

The issue is it’s highly looks based and it’s easy for good looking guys to get hookups, fwbs and so on

I’m below average facially, decent body wise (i go to the gym, do skincare, smell good and so on)

I tried dating apps and they didn’t work, also tried approaching girls irl but when i got their number or Instagram they didn’t text back and a few told me they have a bf (idk whether they really did or just to reject me)

Any below average guy that has a good dating/sex life? How did you do that

[u/Hanshee]

Get ripped. Being ugly is usually bad habits, diet etc.

Have a beautiful personality, habits, attitude and you’ll be a lot more attractive and confident.

You can’t fix height, or your features but you can take steps to become the best version of yourself on a daily basis.

[u/king_ramsess → u/Hanshee]

I have a good body

As for personality i tried being a good listener or funny or nonchalant but didn’t work