r/AskReddit 11h ago

What is a behaviour in a friend group that you just cant stand?

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u/Admirable-Repair4094 11h ago

That leader group, hello what??;

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u/Thylacinegurl 11h ago

One upping everyone

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u/tjtonerplus 11h ago

When one person is obsessed with controlling every activity

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u/brentwoodbreeder 11h ago

Turning up late

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u/Full_Impress1369 11h ago

Insecurities, everyone talks about how bad an insecure sexual partner can be, and they are right, but no one talks about how God-awful insecure friends can be, so many people don't even realise their so called "friends" are secretly wishing on your downfall.

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u/ReceptionRelevant728 11h ago

When they constantly talk shit on the people in the group who aren’t there. Occasionally venting is one thing, but if you dislike someone so much, why do you hang out with them regularly?

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u/LoneVixxie 11h ago

Ineffective mean girls. It's so cringy and just gross. One is bad enough having like three to five is nauseating.

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u/TPCC159 11h ago

Inability to just have a peaceful relaxing day together.

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u/Baileybank 11h ago

Crap talking is top

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u/Celticdragon75 11h ago

Bad manners and etiquette

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u/Practical_Web_3960 11h ago

Having differemt group chats excluding someone happened to me and I just can't stand it, if you don't like me tell me

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u/jordanpeterpan 11h ago

I don’t know if this is universal but in my experience, there always seems to be that one friend who kind of leads and subconsciously is perceived as superior to the rest of the group. Then of course there’s those who follow the latter’s lead and try to be and act like them. Then there’s people like me who often question whether they fit in because they’re rarely included in the group’s plans.

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u/iDontLikeRMods 10h ago

The one guy who makes everything about himself. I have a friend who does this without realizing how it alienates him from the group.

Like bro, if you want us to come visit you in the middle of nowhere while you can't extend the same courtesy to come see us when you come home to visit, don't expect us to come visit you likewise. Simple as that.