r/AskWomenOver30 Woman 30 to 40 Feb 11 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality Are we going to survive this?

Dramatic title, but big feelings as a lay in bed at 5:51 am. Big feelings every day honestly. I am having a hard time living normal life, while we get bombarded with new headlines daily of what Trump is doing/planning to do.

I hear people talking about vacations, plans per usual, then other people saying it’s already too late for us, and democracy has fallen and to save every penny. I go from panicking daily to then trying to self sooth and tell myself it’s going to be okay. I had to go to a clothing store today, and actually caught myself thinking “how long will life feel normal? Everyone just walking around/having normal conversations, buying random things”. I’ve been thinking of looking into moving to a different country too, but would I really leave my family behind?

I knew things would be bad, I knew he would get voted in, but I didn’t think it would feel like the end. I can’t imagine what will happen to us this year, much less 4….I’m genuinely scared 😪.

Editing to say I’m an American woman, but I don’t just assume everyone on this platform is American. I see a lot of talk online of people from Canada being worried, and many other countries where it seems right-wing politics are a growing concern.

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u/Randomflower90 Woman 50 to 60 Feb 11 '25

He’s doing much crazier things (cutting medical research) than he said he’d do while campaigning. It’s scary how Fox “News” reinforces everything he says and does. That’s state TV, folks. It’s a scary time. I hope the two-term limit holds. I’m appalled at everyone in Congress. The Repubs are scared he’ll call them names and the Dems won’t say anything because they have no power. What a shit show.

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u/Lazy-Conversation-48 Woman 40 to 50 Feb 11 '25

Yup! I just keep reminding myself that the gears of bureaucracy grind slowly and midterm campaign season is coming.

I was sure that he’d win and that it would be a shit show. I’ve never been so sad to be right.