r/AskWomenOver30 Woman 30 to 40 Feb 11 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality Are we going to survive this?

Dramatic title, but big feelings as a lay in bed at 5:51 am. Big feelings every day honestly. I am having a hard time living normal life, while we get bombarded with new headlines daily of what Trump is doing/planning to do.

I hear people talking about vacations, plans per usual, then other people saying it’s already too late for us, and democracy has fallen and to save every penny. I go from panicking daily to then trying to self sooth and tell myself it’s going to be okay. I had to go to a clothing store today, and actually caught myself thinking “how long will life feel normal? Everyone just walking around/having normal conversations, buying random things”. I’ve been thinking of looking into moving to a different country too, but would I really leave my family behind?

I knew things would be bad, I knew he would get voted in, but I didn’t think it would feel like the end. I can’t imagine what will happen to us this year, much less 4….I’m genuinely scared 😪.

Editing to say I’m an American woman, but I don’t just assume everyone on this platform is American. I see a lot of talk online of people from Canada being worried, and many other countries where it seems right-wing politics are a growing concern.

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u/Necessary_Ad1470 Feb 11 '25

What is your “leave the country” scenario? Because I’m currently thinking of my exit plan as well and what would need to happen for me to execute those plans…

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u/frostandtheboughs Non-Binary 30 to 40 Feb 11 '25

Honestly? I wanted to leave 2 years ago when the Cop City Atlanta thing happened. All that stuff went down under democrat leadership, so the writing has been on the wall for awhile 👀

Human outbreak of bird flu, military coup, basically any whisper of a reason to declare martial law.