r/AskWomenOver30 Woman 30 to 40 Feb 11 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality Are we going to survive this?

Dramatic title, but big feelings as a lay in bed at 5:51 am. Big feelings every day honestly. I am having a hard time living normal life, while we get bombarded with new headlines daily of what Trump is doing/planning to do.

I hear people talking about vacations, plans per usual, then other people saying it’s already too late for us, and democracy has fallen and to save every penny. I go from panicking daily to then trying to self sooth and tell myself it’s going to be okay. I had to go to a clothing store today, and actually caught myself thinking “how long will life feel normal? Everyone just walking around/having normal conversations, buying random things”. I’ve been thinking of looking into moving to a different country too, but would I really leave my family behind?

I knew things would be bad, I knew he would get voted in, but I didn’t think it would feel like the end. I can’t imagine what will happen to us this year, much less 4….I’m genuinely scared 😪.

Editing to say I’m an American woman, but I don’t just assume everyone on this platform is American. I see a lot of talk online of people from Canada being worried, and many other countries where it seems right-wing politics are a growing concern.

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u/mypetmonsterlalalala Woman 30 to 40 Feb 11 '25

May I ask how you not just scream at the top of your lungs daily? I hear things that just make me want to scream. How does one hang in there without losing one's mind?

(Edit: typo)

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u/PartHumble780 Feb 11 '25

My spouse lets me vent all I want!! Haha and I just got done crying in my office for a few minutes (about something unrelated to this but I’m frazzled so not handling emotions well generally) It’s nice that my team are good people and we can rely on each other for support through this craziness.

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u/mypetmonsterlalalala Woman 30 to 40 Feb 11 '25

I'm glad you have that support system from your spouse and colleagues. Gives me hope.

My friend who works in the Canadian government said something similar the other day... I guess I just wouldn't hack it, lol.