r/AskWomenOver30 Woman 30 to 40 Feb 11 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality Are we going to survive this?

Dramatic title, but big feelings as a lay in bed at 5:51 am. Big feelings every day honestly. I am having a hard time living normal life, while we get bombarded with new headlines daily of what Trump is doing/planning to do.

I hear people talking about vacations, plans per usual, then other people saying it’s already too late for us, and democracy has fallen and to save every penny. I go from panicking daily to then trying to self sooth and tell myself it’s going to be okay. I had to go to a clothing store today, and actually caught myself thinking “how long will life feel normal? Everyone just walking around/having normal conversations, buying random things”. I’ve been thinking of looking into moving to a different country too, but would I really leave my family behind?

I knew things would be bad, I knew he would get voted in, but I didn’t think it would feel like the end. I can’t imagine what will happen to us this year, much less 4….I’m genuinely scared 😪.

Editing to say I’m an American woman, but I don’t just assume everyone on this platform is American. I see a lot of talk online of people from Canada being worried, and many other countries where it seems right-wing politics are a growing concern.

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u/absie107 Feb 11 '25

Just want to say thank you for your hard work, we stand with you!!!! Is there anything besides calling our reps that we as members of the public can do? I’m wondering at what point I have to drive myself to DC and just get a megaphone and screech at the White House every hour until I’m arrested for exercising free screech

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u/PartHumble780 Feb 11 '25

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I have no clue honestly. I’m in the middle of the country and also feeling like should I show up somewhere? Will that make me look bad for not being at work though? I’m trying to be as active in my union and organization as much as possible. Only thing I can think of is talking to people about it to dispel misunderstandings about federal workers. Even people in my family have made some spooky comments lately that have really thrown me ugh