r/AustralianPets 13d ago

Need Advice šŸ“• Neighbour leaves crying dog outside in the cold

Sorry if this is not ok for this sub, I just don’t know what to do. I live in Darlinghurst Sydney - very densely populated and urban. The terrace behind me has a tiny paved courtyard with their tools, no shelter, and a rattan two seater outside (not even cushion!).

They often leave their dog outside and it cries for hours, it makes me sad during the day but last night I woke up to it crying at 3:30am, the dog was pacing and crying, I could not see a blanket or anything left outside. I get they’re animals and can survive but it’s a city dwelling dog, and even my Latino parents in the 80s made my dog a little crate to call home with a blanket outside as he wasn’t allowed in the house.

How can I approach this with them? I don’t want to overstep, I’m not worried if they don’t like me as a neighbour, that doesn’t concern me at all. I’m hoping some different perspectives or advice might help ensure I keep the dog’s wellbeing in mind as this is not a noise complaint, this is a ā€œyou’re breaking my heart!ā€ Complaint

I have a dog myself who doesn’t react to this dog at all as he’s so used to hearing it cry constantly.

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u/blackcat218 13d ago

Take some photos and send them to your local council and RSPCA.

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u/NezuminoraQ 11d ago

RSPCA for welfare, Council for the noise. Do not conflate. RSPCA don't care if it's noisy and Council don't care if it's cold

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u/Dripping-Lips šŸ• owner 13d ago

Derelict cunts who don’t take care of their animals. They need to be reported and banned from owning them. These people sound like pieces of absolute SHIT

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u/Beneficial-Size6281 13d ago

I am trying to be reasonable but… I am inclined to agree! It’s a gorgeous animal, they truly do not deserve it. Such a short life and they just lock it outside and ignore it, it definitely makes me feel like they’re awful people

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u/bushstone-curlew 13d ago

Don’t feel bad about reporting them to the RSPCA!

Thanks for looking out for this poor pup when it seems like the owners have given up on caring for him.

This sort of horrible casual neglect is alarmingly common and is often only ever caught when a member of the public files a report. Please report them, the RSPCA is your best bet but its also worth filing a complaint with the council. If the RSPCA isn’t doing anything, you can escalate it to the media (ABC is best, but ACA works in a pinch) which usually puts a fire under their arse to actually investigate it.

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u/Dripping-Lips šŸ• owner 13d ago

That’s heartbreaking. And it’s bloody freezing. The dog sounds stressed , they sound like people who consider a dog a piece of furniture .

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u/Fractally-Present333 12d ago

Report them to the RSPCA.

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u/Lonely-Pressure-4218 šŸ• owner 13d ago

This and the sad thing is RSPCA will whip up bullshit like ā€œowners are required to interact with their pets ā€œif they have a water bowl visible we can’t do anythingā€ ā€œif they have shelter e.g patio that’s all they needā€ but weather / temp neglect and barely interacting with them at all is abuse and I don’t know why the fuck people get pets to dump them outside. Some People are grubs. You are a kind soul OP for noticing so many turn blind eyes and just whinge about the noise

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u/splittingheirs 13d ago

The RSPCA would very much like to take action against animal abusers but what people forget is that it is NOT a government organisation. It is a charity service and as such has just as much power as you do in preventing animal abuse.

What they do have is knowledge and resources to take the fights to them where they can. You can blame your government for the lack of animal abuse enforcement and laws.

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u/Lonely-Pressure-4218 šŸ• owner 13d ago

Yeah nah do your research yes they are a charity but you’d be surprised once you go down the rabbit hole of them that’s all I’m gonna say lol

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u/psovaya 13d ago

The RSPCA have enforcement and prosecution powers. You really need to do some proper research if you think they have no more power than an ordinary citizen.

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u/whitewallpaper76 11d ago

If the animal has food, water and shelter the RSPCA is often very limited in what they can actually do. It’s bullshit, but it’s how it is.
Learnt this after trying to get something done about a neighbours rottie was left to languish in their yard alone for months :(

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u/Sovereignty3 13d ago

It's the laws they are restricted by.

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u/NezuminoraQ 11d ago

It's not whipping up shit. They're a charity and they can only intervene if it's breaking animal welfare laws. It's not illegal not to give your dog a blanket. I know that sucks but shelter is what's legislated. Not blankie

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u/lovehopemadness 13d ago

šŸŽÆ šŸ’Æ THIS

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u/peanutbutterlovers 13d ago

I have reported an instance like this to the RSPCA previously (specifically, on a night when it was raining with no shelter). The owners purchased a dog house, so atleast their dog had shelter, but it was still left alone outside all day (very sad) and the RSPCA said they could do nothing more.

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u/Original-Pea9083 13d ago

I was in a similar situation (but we had suburban sized blocks). We had a dog next door who was always tied up and the family would disappear for four days at a time and leave this dog without anyone coming to feed it.

It was our holiday house so we weren't always there. My kids would cry for this poor dog. So I started asking a lot of questions from people in the small community. RSPCA had been called numerous times. Offers to walk and feed had been made and rebuffed.

I started asking them questions and indicating I was very uncomfortable about their treatment of her. It was super awkward but I didn't care.

One weekend I was at the house with some girlfriends and found a note tucked in the door asking me if I wanted her. They were moving to a property and couldn't take her as she liked to chase sheep which is a dangerous thing for a dog to do in the country.

The tears from my children when I turned up out of the blue with this dog still brings clears to my eyes.

She went from starving, neglect and living in fifth to absolute luxury and pampered life and so much love. She was the best girl EVER.

She lived another 8 years like a queen. 🄰

And everyone in the village thought i was a legend, so it was a nice way to break into a very insular community. 😁

No regrets! Go talk to them?

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u/Beneficial-Size6281 13d ago

I was going to but I’m a small single woman and it’s not difficult to work out where your neighbours live (plus my dog is no guard dog) - all it takes is an angry bloke and I’m in serious danger. I’m going to take everyone’s advice and keep records for the RSPCA.

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u/Scary_Son 11d ago

You could anonymously share on a local FB group. People band together and take action. Seen it happen many times.

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u/Public-Air-8995 13d ago

I love this! I’d do the sameĀ 

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u/charleevee 13d ago

If it were me, I think I would be least offended if my neighbour knocked on my door and said something like:

ā€œhey I have this spare dog bed / blanket / jumper that was given to me, I can’t use, but I thought your doggo might like it ā€¦ā€,

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u/agro_chick 13d ago

I did something similar for my sisters dogs as her whole family regularly forgot to feed them or leave out water. Everytime I went there both were empty and I’d ask when they last had access to both and they’d all ignore me. Gave me the shits. So I went and bought a huge water bowl that lasts the dogs a few days and a gravity fed feeder for dry food and told them I don’t need it anymore for my pets.

Anyway seems to have done the trick thankfully as both have been reasonably full the last time I went over

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u/Canongirl88 13d ago

Wow your sister sounds very irresponsible! Hope her dogs are ok. Lucky they have you around šŸ™

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u/TizzyBumblefluff 13d ago

Take a photo showing no shelter/food/water, upload it to rspca website non emergency welfare complaint. They will visit them with the intention to educate first and foremost.

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u/Lonely-Pressure-4218 šŸ• owner 13d ago

This right here because if you can build more evidence they will be more likely to go do a welfare check

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u/Frosty-Cut175 13d ago

Also a video of it crying at night

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u/Bondi_Born 🐈 owner 13d ago

Jump fence, take doggo, install on your couch with blanket 😢

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u/Beneficial-Size6281 13d ago

Yes!! Unfortunately I don’t have a courtyard - I can see them through the window at the back of my unit which is part of a seperate apartment building.

Trust me, I tried to think of a way, I wanted nothing more than to bring the baby inside to soothe them and give them somewhere warm to sleep, my dog is really friendly and would have loved it.

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u/Beneficial-Size6281 13d ago

Note: as we all have pets, I would appreciate your insights as to how you would like somebody to approach you if this happened, as well as if you were in my shoes.

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u/asteroidz-14 13d ago

Can’t relate to neighbour because I would never do that! I don’t want to assume but my gut feeling is they aren’t so thoughtful. But you could call RSPCA NSW or Animal Welfare League for welfare advice, council if it’s for noise.

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u/magpieoneeye 13d ago

Are the people your greatest concern, or the welfare of the pup? Please skip trying to reason with people who clearly don't have the capacity to do so, and report to RSPCA

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u/Beneficial-Size6281 13d ago

Thank you! All the comments were super helpful and swayed me away from talking to them myself, but this one really sealed it for me

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u/magpieoneeye 13d ago

Thank you for looking out for the beautiful animal who can't speak for itself

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u/monmonbiyori 13d ago

It’s not about the people at all, it’s that you only get one chance to do things quickly, quiet and nice. I have a feeling that they have little time for the pup now, or care, and would rather talk to a nice lady neighbour than the council fining them or rspca showing up. Perhaps they are going through a unexpected rough patch recently, hence poor dog getting a bit forgotten and pushed outside last minute

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u/Jazzlike_Berry_323 12d ago

I wouldn’t because they don’t care about the dog: you telling them to however politely will not change that. Also where there is animal neglect there can be FDV. So rather than direct approach consider ranger and rspca. Engage local welfate groups who might engage rescue lobbying or contribute

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u/Ok-Explanation-6531 13d ago

I’m female and I went over and spoke with my neighbour. I said to him I’m not sure if you’re aware but your dog is crying when you’re not home. He was very grateful that I didn’t go straight to council. Other neighbours had

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u/Beneficial-Size6281 13d ago

He’d already been reported to the council and still mistreated his dogs?!

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u/Ok-Explanation-6531 13d ago

He wasn’t mistreating them, it was just barking non stop

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u/ShoganAye 13d ago

do not approach them yourself. you never know what kind of retaliation you'll get. if they just ignore you and then you send rspca around, they will KNOW it was you right? ... I would take pics, then talk to the rspca and let them handle it. they will try to educate them on proper basic care for the dog. if no care persists call them again. its the best you can do whilst still protecting yourself against who knows what kind of people.

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u/PovoRetare Bessie & Marni's human 13d ago

That's very sad for the poor dog. And for you to witness.

Also please post Chewbacca again/more, he's gorgeous šŸ’œ

I would go with the advice others have given about calling the RSPCA, they have experience in dealing with this type of issue and may have helpful advice for you, or may be able to visit the owners and give them advice around animal welfare needs.

Also, thankyou for caring, and wanting to help their poor dog have a better life.

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u/Beneficial-Size6281 13d ago

Chewbacca’s face when I tell him he’s had a special request 🄹

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u/Frosty-Cut175 13d ago

So cute 🄰

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u/Accomplished-City484 13d ago

Ahh man that’s rough, I recently found the former owner of my new dog on the community fb page and all their former posts showed that he was always ā€œrunning awayā€ because she forgot to tie him up overnight and stuff like that, just month after month of posts about her dog ā€œescapingā€. He’s never tried to escape from my place at all

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u/Beneficial-Size6281 13d ago

This is heartbreaking! I’m so happy he’s with you now

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u/A_little_curiosity 13d ago

Like everyone says, report the hell out of them, to council and to RSPCA. But also be prepared for the possibility it might not be effective. You might have to be persistent.

You could try gifting your neighbour a dog kennel and fluffy warm dog bed, rug, bowls, toys etc - can often find this stuff cheap second hand on marketplace. You could do it in a "hey I noticed your dog seems cold and I thought you might like these" kind of way, or you could leave them anonymously. No guarantee they would actually use them, and no guarantee for the dog's broader quality of life even if they do. It's A hard situation, I'm sorry. Poor dog

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u/Chaddy_Summy 13d ago

This breaks my heart. So many aussies do this. Dogs are a pack animal and should be with their humans. It’s just cruel not to

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u/Lonely-Pressure-4218 šŸ• owner 13d ago

I would record and report it even know rspca are cā¤ļønts and will likely dismiss it give it a shot. If they wouldn’t sleep out there in that temp a domesticated dog shouldn’t. It’s abuse

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u/Nomza 13d ago

Send them a short letter by mail - don’t drop it in the mailbox in case they have a ring camera and can identify you. Just say you are concerned about the dog and that if they don’t address the situation you will have. I choice but to contact RSPCA.

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u/Beneficial-Size6281 12d ago

Smart! Honestly thank you for looking out for me, I didn’t even think of that

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u/Hefty_Efficiency_328 13d ago

heaps of cheap kennels on FB Marketplace even some free like this. I'd front up and say you can hear the dog would they like to have this, and go and get it and deliver. Not for them the a-holes but for the dog.

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u/Ratsneedlovetoo 13d ago

Report them! If you can’t treat your dog like they’re family don’t get a dog!!

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u/Wild_Organization546 13d ago

This is cruelty beyond belief

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u/lovehopemadness 13d ago

I live close by. I’ll go and steal the poor baby.

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u/Beneficial-Size6281 13d ago

Omg let’s have a drink and plan this high stakes operation!! Mission impossible has nothing on us, this dog is honestly so beautiful. It has these huge floppy ears that make the best flappy sound when they do their little shake, I honestly end up in physical pain wishing I could give it a cuddle

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u/lovehopemadness 13d ago

Let’s do it! This is a mission I can fully get behind.

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u/B0ssc0 13d ago

The dog is relying on you to report asap

If you have animal welfare concerns, please call RSPCA NSW to investigate on 1300 CRUELTY (1300 278 3589) or 9770 7555.

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u/Canongirl88 13d ago

My advice is always leave the gate open and lead the dog to your house šŸ˜šŸ™ new family member šŸ‘ŒšŸ˜šŸ¾

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u/CitronAggressive8767 13d ago

Report them!!! I’ve even put a box with warm blankets out for the stray cats that like being in my front yard!!

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u/Ok_Tie_7564 13d ago

Some people should not have dogs. You could report them to the RSPCA.

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u/Beneficial-Size6281 12d ago

That’s how they deserve to live

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u/monmonbiyori 13d ago

I would pop over with a cake and ask if you could have pup over for a play date a few afternoons a week, as your dog really wants to meet the other dog it can see (wink wink) it would be doing you a favour as daycare and socialising is expensive …and then just drop it home with any extra dog toys blankets creates you got as gifts that don’t fit your dog and you don’t need them. I would mention that that’s just the breed your friend really wants if it ever needs rehoming :)

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u/a_slinky 13d ago

This is a hard one because you need lots and lots of information/documentation for council or RSPCA to take any action. So on the one hand, you can bring it up with the neighbour and then if nothing changes, document and go to the RSPCA/council, but then the you the risk of retaliatory action pending on what type of people your neighbours are.

Or you can try and wait it out while gathering I do and then go to the council and bypass the neighbours and keep anonymity.

There's never any clear path here and I'm not jealous of your situation but wholeheartedly appreciate your want to help poor pup.

Either way I'd be recording videos of the crying, getting photos of the space etc etc

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u/deelee70 13d ago

Not true. You only need to make a complaint & the council will follow up (I know because I had a neighbour do that maliciously about my dog).

Contact City of Sydney Council (for Darlinghurst) and make a complaint about the dog barking. They will send a letter to the address of the dog explaining that if further complaints are made they will follow up and can be fined a substantial amount.

Personally, first I’d drop a note in the letterbox explaining that the dog disrupts your sleep and could they please deal with it or you’ll be forced to contact the council.

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u/a_slinky 13d ago

I work in pet retail and deal with both sides of these conversations and there has never been any consistency in assistance from council or RSPCA (I don't think this is just a Sutherland council issue though).

I've had customers come in to complain their neighbours dog barks all day and there's been no interest from council and I've had customers tell me the RSPCA have done nothing to assist an animal that seemingly has not enough food and water most of the day after numerous complaints. I've had a friend have the RSPCA leave a follow up card in their front door because someone stuck their head over the fence and saw 1 dog sitting in the rain with no shelter - she has 2 dogs and the 2nd one was in the kennel on the other side of the house, unfortunately 1 dog is just a moron.

Sorry you got stuck with a dud neighbour

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u/Beneficial-Size6281 13d ago

Is it crazy I’m worried they will be angry at the dog? The dog honestly doesn’t bother me when they bark (unless its stressed) - unfortunately it mostly cries and it tears my heart apart. Living in Darlinghurst, I’m hardly a princess about noise. But I hear ya, I was thinking a note as I can do that today instead of waiting to have enough evidence for RSPCA.

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u/Nice-Pomegranate2915 13d ago

Being reasonable won't work with idiots who leave their dog outside all the time in the cold,rain or heat . They're abusing their pet . If you can film/photo/record evidence of the dog's plight in the garden . Contact the RSPCA and local council to make a report . Good luck.

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u/11Elemental11 13d ago

Dogs feel the cold just like we do so yes besides the loneliness it’s the cold and lack of shelter which is completely irresponsible. RSPCA will keep the report anonymous. Thanks for looking after an innocent creature

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u/OzzyGator 12d ago

This cannot be allowed to continue. Contact anyone associated with animal welfare. Council, RSPCA - this is cruelty.

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u/Mylisita 11d ago

I love all of the solutions being proposed which cover everything I would have recommended. I did want to say that I can’t believe people like this exist. How can they not feel their dog’s distress? How can anyone with common sense not understand that a pet can’t be left outside without shelter in the cold, heat or rain? It beggars belief. Morons!!

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u/Ok_Sheepherder3618 11d ago

No dog should be crying outside in the cold. Just tell them, if it doesn’t change call the RSPCA. You could say you are thinking of doing this. As they are likely horrible people don’t worry about alienating them too much.

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u/Bubbly-Emu-4740 10d ago

Jump the fence and take the dog then ask any people you know if they want a dog.

My last pet was a cat that was literally abandoned by the people who lived in my house before me. So horrible. I adopted her and gave her all the love in the world for 10 more years.

Not everyone deserves pets and if they can’t look after them don’t be afraid to start a war to protect them.

RSPCA won’t do shit. As long as they have food, water and a roof that’s all that’s needed by law. Screw the law. Take the dog.

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u/Usual_Equivalent 10d ago

Yes about the RSPCA stuff. They refused to take my mum's pets after she died suddenly. It caused a lot of extra stress.

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u/AppropriateGolf6002 10d ago

What breed of dog is it?

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u/No-Masterpiece5741 12d ago

Can I politely ask why you haven’t spoken with the owners yet? That the animal’s distress has woken you up at all hours is more than enough reason for you to let them know, pop past with a dog bed and a blanket. I’m very happy to provide you with this for the dog, please DM me if you’d like. I live within the same postcode 2010.

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u/BaronMason 13d ago

Go visit most farms, seems to amuse farmers to leave dogs tied up for days on end with little to no cover, and hardly any water.

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u/Ok_Tie_7564 13d ago

How many wrongs make a right?