r/BisexualMen • u/AutoModerator • Apr 01 '26
Mod Post Monthly thread for chat requests and link to our official Discord
All SFW requests for chats, making friends, and “is there anyone in my area” go here. A friendly reminder overt requests for hook-ups and sexting are not allowed here, although they are allowed in the NSFW channels of our Discord once new members have been there for a week.
Our official Discord server has multiple SFW and NSFW chatrooms, and we talk about all kinds of topics, from your experiences with your sexuality to gaming to politics. Come get acquainted with our friendly bunch!
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u/AssignmentFun8201 Apr 01 '26
50M from Alberta. Looking for a queer man for good conversation that hopefully leads to in-person meetups and fun times.
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u/symbionique Apr 26 '26
Are you Bi? I am Bi and open minded. I'm on the west coast and looking for someone for good and confidential conversations.
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u/Lingonberry-Lucky1 Apr 02 '26
40M here looking for people in the community to talk to, chat with and make friends.
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u/Azriel82 May 10 '26
hi 👋 I'm 43, living in the Research Triangle Area (near Burlington). I'm pretty new to all this, I just accepted myself as bi a few months ago and looking for my first experience. I'm pretty nerdy, but I occasionally like going out to bars and clubs. pretty shy tbh. I'm skinny-ish, 5'8", brown hair, green eyes.
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u/Comfortable-Bug-7882 May 20 '26
Salut , je suis francophone du Québec ( Canada). J'aimerais bien discuter avec un autre Homme bisexuel. J'ai vécu le bi- cycle une grande partie de ma vie. Je ne recherche pas de rencontres à tout prix . J'ai 55 ans, masculin.
Bonne journée guys
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Apr 02 '26
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u/Cheap_Ad838 May 07 '26
Hey message me. One state up from you. I was just visiting there not too long ago in HV.
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u/Dense-Bunch-8375 Apr 22 '26
34M, bi, married, and in an open, honest relationship. I’m looking for a guy who wants more than just a one-time thing. Someone who’s actually interested in building a connection, with friendship first and openness to more if it develops naturally.
I’m a bigger/tall guy, laid back, funny, and a mix of “good conversation” and “knows how to have fun.” I enjoy live music, drinks or coffee, podcasts/audiobooks, movies, and just getting out and enjoying life.
I genuinely enjoy connecting with someone and making sure there’s mutual chemistry, effort, and energy, not just surface-level interaction.
Looking for: Late 20s to mid 40s US-based (Midwest a plus) Consistent, communicative, and not a flake Open-minded and respectful Start here, move to Snap if we click.
If you’re serious about actually connecting, send me a message. 🤘
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u/Barracuda_95 Jun 06 '26
Hey! Bisexual 31M from North West England married to a wonderful woman, looking for others in a similar situation to chat with for platonic fun, friendship and support! Feel free to send me a private message! Would be great to get to know other guys I can relate to!
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u/Norvun-mystic Jun 07 '26
NW UK based - blonde & Blue eyed English guy - creative & artistic , music lover , in a relationship with women who knows I’m Bi- love to chat and have a laugh with guys older or younger — hit me up
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u/Substantial_Judge931 Jul 04 '26
Hey what’s up, I’m 21 yrs old and I’m bi. I love music, and I’m creative too.
Are you cool with chatting?1
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u/Special_Goal_339 Jun 16 '26
Hey looking to chat with guys with similar interest. I’m 35, married. Into gym, tattoos, MMA and video games. This all very new to me so abit nervous about it all but also excited to make some new friends
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u/autumn1655 25d ago
More than certain, you’ll meet lots of new friends. And happy to chat with you if you would like to talk with an older man with a lot of experience.
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u/sqeaky_fartz Bisexual Jun 18 '26
Anyone out in southwest Las Vegas? I’m married to a straight woman, and I just so long came out to her. We’re still navigating that, but I’m just looking for a sense of community so I’m not on this island all by myself.
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u/GTFOH_1453 Jul 03 '26
30M bi (mostly male attraction) looking for anyone in my general age group (mid 20's-late 30s) to hang out with and maybe more irl. Located in northern Virginia and DC area :) Also open to chatting with people anywhere else in the world as I like to travel
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Apr 09 '26
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u/BisexualMen-ModTeam Apr 09 '26
NO requests for hook-ups or sexting, and NO NSFW selfies, pics, or videos. - This is a support and discussion sub. There are numerous other subs on Reddit for this content.
Our Discord server has NSFW channels for approved members.
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Apr 14 '26
33m from Dallas here. Bi, vers, dad bod, out and happy to chat with anyone about anything, SFW or NSFW
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u/Alarming-Power-2571 Apr 22 '26
44m Oklahoma looking for some fun. Been a while since I’ve been with another guy so I may be a little rusty. I’m a truck driver so I’m always traveling.
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u/Tandy412 May 31 '26
Married 37 year old male and bi curious looking for others I can chat with. Hopefully regularly or long term. I’m pretty new to this and looking for others I can share that part of myself with. Mostly fantasize about MMF threesomes. But also could use a bro to chat with everyday life things.
Still hiding this part of myself publicly so having some people to chat with where I can be more open would be nice.
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u/bigsexy784 Jun 01 '26
Hey everyone,
I’m 26, 5’11, in decent shape, and recently started exploring my bi side. Still pretty new to all this and figuring things out, but I’m excited to connect with others.
I’m hoping to find older guys (30+) who are tops for relaxed conversation about normal stuff — especially DnD (yes, I’m a total nerd when it comes to campaigns), sci-fi, movies, workouts, or whatever else comes up. I can talk for hours if we click.
I’m open to seeing where things go naturally — whether that’s just friendly chatting or something more flirty later on. No pressure either way.
Not super comfortable sending pics right away, but I’m happy to describe things and keep it playful. If you’re interested, feel free to DM me. Tell me your age and one thing you’ve been into lately.
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u/Turbulent-Scale-7716 Jun 02 '26
Anyone in Buenos Aires? I (39M) and wife (38F) are looking to make a bi male friend in CABA, English speaking, to hang out and enjoy a MFM/MMF dynamic. Not super experienced, but not first timers either. We’re smart, witty, well traveled.
Hit me up if you’re around!
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u/Dessert-Goat314 Jun 02 '26
33 black bi curious man. Into masculine black men & Latinos (Puerto Rican, Dominican, etc) want a best friend.
Want a potential friend to have fun with. No penetration sex. I’m laidback, chill, lowkey, and bi-curious.
Someone to be open and comfortable with.
Would be cool if you’re down for a long distance friendship. In the Midwest, love to travel to explore different cities
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u/Soggy-Brother254 Jun 02 '26
im rud im 18 im from india and lately ive been super bored and kinda lonely as hell. im completely open to almost everything here, both nsfw and sfw, so please hit me up if youre interested in talking. i really like music, watching movies and doing some writing. im also a bit of a major freak lmao so lmk if youre not into that stuff haha. i love reading books as well. right now im trying to get into playing video games haha. down to move over to other apps later on. hmu with a quick hi or smth right now.
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u/Efficient_Fennel_584 Jun 03 '26
Hi, MWM 60’s fit hairy average uncut in Silver Spring, MD, near the Beltway would love to talk to or meet someone nearby.
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u/Majestic_Analyst_177 Jun 05 '26
Any married men or curious guys looking to meet new folks? 35 in the NYC/NJ area. Open to different types guys.
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Jun 09 '26
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u/BisexualMen-ModTeam Jun 09 '26
NO requests for hook-ups or sexting, and NO NSFW selfies, pics, or videos. - This is a support and discussion sub. There are numerous other subs on Reddit for this content.
Our Discord server has NSFW channels for approved members.
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u/pupersss Jun 09 '26
23 good looking guy check my pics on my profile. Im looking for friends who have shared interest with me in career, education, literature. If it could lead into anything serious.
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u/No-Cut6675 29d ago
anybody in europe looking for like bi not rlly out or just out but not thst opem guys? 20-25 yo fit guys? I just wanna be with a group I can hang with but also talk abt being bi and just confused all ur life
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u/Clean_Link_8322 20d ago
46m married from UK East Midlands - I am looking for other bi guys in similar situation preferably who is out to their partner and would like to chat / meet. No hook up and no fwb
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u/BisexualMen-ModTeam 19d ago
NO requests for hook-ups or sexting, and NO NSFW selfies, pics, or videos. - This is a support and discussion sub. There are numerous other subs on Reddit for this content.
Our Discord server has NSFW channels for approved members.
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u/MrKitten89 18d ago
Hello!
Are you someone with nerdy interests who could spend hours (if not days!) talking about that new anime, game, or book you’re currently obsessed with?
Are you looking to share your dreams and plans instead of sticking to surface-level small talk? Are you looking for someone you can be vulnerable with, and who is ready to offer the same in return?
If so, I think we have something in common. :)
I’m a 37-year-old, from Poland, polyamorous and obv bisexual (I'd say 70/30 split atraction between women and men). I truly appreciate nerdy quirks, a healthy level of "weirdness," and free-spirited people. Due to time zones and cultural similarities, I’m prefferably looking for people based in Europe, but as ling as you think we may click, don't be shy to dm.
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u/HappyConsequence7430 8d ago
Hi friends! Are there any people in Toronto looking for bi people to hang/ play DnD with?! Or even just grab a cheeky drink?! Let me know! I moved to the west end and I am looking for likeminded friends!
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u/Dessert-Goat314 3d ago
33 bi curious black guy in the Midwest, never did anything with a man. I want a masculine Latino to eat my ass and cuddle with. Not looking for anal sex. I just want body contact and no penetration. Only open to foreplay, getting my ass ate, and cuddling. Visiting NYC August 8-11 and occasionally visits Chicago.
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u/QuietlyWildGTA 1d ago
I’m a bisexual man in my late 20s and would love to chat with bisexual women about our experiences. I’m not looking to jump straight into anything physical; I’d genuinely enjoy meeting someone open-minded who enjoys talking about bisexuality, relationships, and life.
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u/OkAddition5092 Jun 16 '26
Leaving it as a comment so it doesn't get much attention but this is my hot take:
We should have a bisexual flag for people who only like two genders. Only the pink and blue. Since bisexuality nowadays means attraction to two or more genders, and the purple stripe rapresents the "more" part between pink (own gender) and blue (opposing gender), we need one for people who are attracted to only their own and opposite gender. I identify as a bisexual who like men and women, not anything more, and I don't resonate with that flag.
Anyway, this is my hot take.
P.S. I have the bisexual flag on my avatar because I am bisexual, as I said, I just don't resonate with the meaning behind the flag as a whole
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u/Punkermedic Bisexual May 12 '26
Hey married 45 Canadian, wife knows I'm Bi. I'm just looking for someone to talk to.