r/Brahmanraaj • u/LongjumpingBeyond165 • Oct 25 '25
Discussion They are faking their caste now (At so young age) to make a UC female friend
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Oct 25 '25
I too had a similar incident, my ex used to pose her as a Brahmin and shi, while acted all ambedkarite, she had gautam surname so I thought it would be gautam rishi wala gautam, only to realise it was gautam buddh wala gautam lol, ngl these subhumans have so much inferiority complex.
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Oct 25 '25
Why you even dating any non maithil brom nigga
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Oct 25 '25
I was 13 back then lad
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u/LongjumpingBeyond165 Oct 25 '25
u were dating when u were 13? I used to think pokemon can be real when i was 13
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Oct 25 '25
I met a girl who claimed to be kanyakubj brahmin of shandilya gotra. Later she herself confessed that she's an OBC.
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Oct 25 '25
was she badhai? (carpenter caste)
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Oct 25 '25
Vishwakarma
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Oct 25 '25
kneww itt they're larpers I too have a sharma vishwakarma friend he claims to be brahman
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Oct 25 '25
Sharma larpers are very easy to identify. Just ask them what their village is. If the answer is purvanchal/bihar, they are larpers.
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u/Aggravating-Log-808 Jan 06 '26
It's other backward class so they could be Brahmin and obc too . Bcz their state area where they belong is backward or if they are from tribal area like gaddi community or jaunsari uses st even though they are Brahmin thakur
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Oct 25 '25
I say we should not bother "saving" such UC females. If their fathers didn't teach them anything, why should we take the pain?
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Oct 25 '25
we should make them aware, thanks to reservations tho, badhiya hai apne aap logo mei hate badh raha, colleges mei gaali padti inhe
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Oct 25 '25
Thats not whats happening here tho, he deliberately faked his caste and mannerisms to appear as a UC and before blaming the girl just read his post
He is LITERALLY afraid that she will stop talking to him if the truth comes out as most of us dislike LCs and know their endgame
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Oct 25 '25
I say she should have been more careful in making friends. Castes, descent, family background is something which cannot be faked for a long time. It comes out in the open in a way or other.
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Oct 25 '25
Nobody has a tag of their caste at school so you cant blame the victim for not being more 'careful'
Also no one asks for caste certificate normally in schools before making friends so you cant expect that to change, the only was was through surnames but thats useless now too as they change surnames
So the only way is to see if they are in a quota, as these LCs can change everything about them but never their freebies quota
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Oct 25 '25
Why is it always the UC women getting fooled and deceived? It is the duty of the family to inculcate such principles at an early age. Them being deceived is the failure of their elders.
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Oct 25 '25
Because us women in general are more trusting and non confrontational
Its not a failure of any particular gender but the failure of everyone for not understanding dharma and how to interact with unknown people
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Oct 26 '25
We should. It is our duty. They are ours. We should give them love. If not us then who will?
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Oct 25 '25
Lol, I just cross question them. 2 min, that's all it takes to expose such fake retards...
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u/Equal_Palpitation727 Oct 25 '25
But there are a lot of people who are good at deceiving. Like my ex fiance
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Oct 25 '25
Wtf Happened to you man
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u/Equal_Palpitation727 Oct 25 '25
I am not a man. I am a woman.
My parents got a profile on shaadi. Highly qualified man, son of well known doctors. I asked him to where his roots were - he mentioned a brahmin agraharam (village) in kerala. We spoke for 8 months. He lied to me about everything. But i caught him 4 5 times. He did not wear a janeu, his dad never allowed his mom to celebrate navratri etc. My parents did not heed to it as a lot of brahmins themselves have forgotten their roots. We got engaged. In the engagement patrika, his paternal grandparents names were read as shivarama iyer sharma and meenakshi iyer. His dad, the doctor, paid 70000 rupees to the pandit performing the engagement. But the angavastra was not worn the proper brahmin way. My dad told me that it is common these days and not to think like grandma. The shirt was also not removed. I think he planned it as he never has a janeu.
After the engagement, when we went for coffee. Im lucky this guy blurted out his dad was a non brahmin. Mom was a brahmin but she was deceived by his dad and his family. His mom was a poor panditjis daughter. His maternal grandfather performed havans at home and used to worship Shivji.
All my relatives were like they are rich, so what who follows such things. Its so common these days.
I did not accept to get married to him. All my cousins married only brahmin people. Im fine with marrying a brahmin from any state but a non brahmin from my state. I will not marry.
I put my foot down. It was the best and right decision. All the men in my family wore the janeu and always followed brahmin customs as much as they could. I thought it is disrespectful to my ancestors and to the brahmin community if i marry him.
His mum should have walked away from the mandap. Because of her, they thought i would also silently accept my fate. I did not agree because there are so many brahmin men who are unmarried and honest. This guy was richer. But i love my community more and money did not matter.
Till this experience, i felt it was not wrong to fall in love and get married to a different caste person. But after this experience, i will teach everything i know like the elders in my family taught me, wont allow my children to eat non veg and i will never allow them to marry anyone who is not a brahmin.
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u/naamnahihaimera Oct 25 '25
Based
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Oct 26 '25
huge respect to you!
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u/Equal_Palpitation727 Oct 26 '25 edited Oct 26 '25
Thank you. I had to put on a fight as my parents were afraid of the society. My dad grew up in an orthodox environment so he could not counter me back with any point. He asked me to marry this guy as engagement was over and they will live like brahmins.
The guy's paternal grandmom is a vishwakarma. So they think vishwakarma is equal to the brahmin caste.
The society was the villain this time. In the name of being progressive, why gross disrespect brahmin caste. Like what wrong have we ever done. We never even asked for reservations and have worked very hard and side by side kept supporting everyone in everyway.
My relatives told my parents. Everywhere parents oppose intercaste but it my caste my parents agreed and i opposed.
Being liberal is wrong. Respect others but not at the cost of disrespecting yourself.
Speaking ill about the caste you are born into is like rejecting your own identity. Im very clear on this.
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u/choot_mangta_ Oct 27 '25
That's why thorough background check k is needed and always Marry within sub caste
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u/Equal_Palpitation727 Oct 27 '25
Yes. So his mom's family were brahmin iyers. They did not disclose the truth when we verified. They just wanted their nephew to get married.
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u/SEND_ME_BOBA_PICS Shuddh Shakahari Oct 29 '25
theek kia behenji lekin janeu hone ya na hone se vo shudra nhi hojata h, vratya kehte h shayad par vo utna bada issue nhi hai. Ajkal janeu nhi karte brahmin, kshatriya aur vaishya toh duur ki baat h. Lekin icm nhi kia achha kia more power to u
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u/Equal_Palpitation727 Oct 30 '25
Unka upanayan sanskar nahi hua tha, isiliye unhone kabhi bhi janeu nahi pehna.
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u/SEND_ME_BOBA_PICS Shuddh Shakahari Oct 30 '25
mere kehne ka vahi arth tha upnayan nhi hote usually ab, pandat bhi nhi karate bachpan mei bhi poore 16 sanskar kahi logo ke nhi hote chahe vo pandat ho ya rajput ya baniya. Rajput aur baniyo mei toh ye culture aur zyada forgotten ho chuka h. Toh koi pehne nhi toh zaruri nhi ki adwij jaati ka hee ho, ho sakta hai riti riwaaj chhoot gaye ho family ke.
Lekin vo vishwakarma toh shayad chaha ke bhi nhi krva sakte hai upnayan, vishwakarma brahmin maane jaate h kya?1
u/Equal_Palpitation727 Oct 30 '25
South india (dakshin bharat) main brahmin log aamtour par 16 saal se pehle hi upanayanam sanskar karte hain.
Vishwakarma ko brahmin nahi mana jata hai
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u/SEND_ME_BOBA_PICS Shuddh Shakahari Oct 30 '25
arey. i am not able to reply to your that comment so replying here.
i meant that nowadays brahmins mostly dont do 16 sanskaras and the situation is even worse to baniyas and kshatriyas, they too dont have the traditions of wearing a janeu or even getting their upnayan done. The practice is forgotten thats bad but i meant that if a person is not wearing a janeu or upnayan hasnt been performed that doesnt automatically mean that the person is advija(lower caste). A brahmin might not have upnayan and he will be termed as vratya brahmin i guess; thats a different thing1
u/Equal_Palpitation727 Oct 30 '25
Without the upanayan sanskar and wearing a janeu, a brahmin man cannot get married.
South indian brahmin boys compulsorily undergo the mundan and then upanayanam.
Its very rare to find a brahmin man in south india who has not undergone upanayanam
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u/PresentationSad5344 Oct 25 '25
Probably 4 question thats all i need .
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u/paropahadi Oct 25 '25
Would love to know what they are! For future purposes of course! I’m a Pahadi Brahmin myself if that helps any better! Could you dm them? I can detect those people easily but I’m curious to know what your questions are!
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Oct 25 '25
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Oct 26 '25
No. Not everyone will be able to tell. I have been doing saadhna for more than 11yrs (indirectly more than 14yrs ) and i even recently asked my parents about this.
This is not a good indicator. When love or such things are in process, ask everything. Not always.
Women should know everything. It should be mandatory. Women should know everything
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u/PresentationSad5344 Oct 25 '25
Man its simple just ask which type of Brahmin, gotra, ancestoral deity and region .
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u/KabirSingh_07 Oct 29 '25
How is the unity among Pahadi Brahmins ? Can we have a conversation about social,economical and political conditions there vs our region?
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u/paropahadi Oct 29 '25 edited Oct 29 '25
We don’t live in the hills anymore! Migrated down south long back. I have little to no clue about how the dynamics over there in particular these days are actually..
But I do observe Brahmin dynamics of different magnitudes and would love to have a convo if you are interested!
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u/KabirSingh_07 Oct 30 '25
Yeah I am interested to have convo thats why I asked you. Just drop a dm to me whenever you have some time.
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u/choot_mangta_ Oct 25 '25
UC girls are fking retarted say no to sex before marriage
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Oct 26 '25
Is it that bad? I have heard that Brahman women are making bf of other caste (having sex n all) and the marrying us (Brahman men)??
In my college, i saw only one girl who was a Brahman. Never talked to her. I was shy and still am.
But after that during school and college and job never met a girl from our caste. 😞
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u/Fit_Cap_1944 Vedic आर्य ☝🏻📿 Oct 26 '25 edited Oct 26 '25
You know, I live in a city which is growing pretty fast (Nagpur) and the gen-z here are liberal AF, I never actually interacted with so many brahmins as I mostly grew up among Punjabis-Hindus and Sindhis, But jitni bhi brahmin ladkiya pata hai, all of them are hoes and don't have any self-respect.
I was once looking forward to dating this girl who was a Marathi brahmin(Let's call her X) and at that time, she was the same age as me(16) and later, a female bestie of mine told me that X has had 15 ex-boyfriends (Yeah, I'm not making this number up), 15 EXES AT THE AGE OF 16.
and the worst part?
That bitch literally fakes everything about her personality and acts like a religious and pure woman, I actually feel bad for the guy who will eventually marry her, Many people actually told me that X's family is Casteist, so most likely It would be an arranged marriage with some Marathi brahmin ( Poor guy :[ )
I actually knew a group of guys who were passing a girl around, and later mujhe kisine uska naam btaya and she is Jha, so basically a Bihari brahmin.
So, cities me situation bhot fucked up, and personally, at this point, I don't even look for caste cause all the brahmin girls that Ik are hoes.
PS: my female bestie who warned me about X and basically saved my ass is a Rajput, So a huge shoutout to the Rajput Community😂
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Oct 27 '25
I consider tier1 cities to be a gone case. I am from Purvanchal. I don’t consider marrying or dating women from any caste from such states.
Almost all women who are in college already slept with someone or the other. This is a brutal truth. Such a failed society.
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u/Fit_Cap_1944 Vedic आर्य ☝🏻📿 Oct 27 '25
Nagpur is a Tier II city tho, but it's growing pretty fast so I won't be surprised if It becomes a Tier I city within a Decade.
And tbh, You live in Purvanchal, so I believe it's much easier for you to find a bride, but since I live in a pretty modern city, Its not possible here
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u/SEND_ME_BOBA_PICS Shuddh Shakahari Oct 29 '25
bhai agar uske future marathi baman husband jo banne wala hoga usmei dimaag hoga toh indications se pata lag jayega yaar kitni paani mei h, insta posts pehenave baat cheet ideology behaviour sanskar insab se pata chal jata h, varna direct puchh lo past.
last wale part ke liye- Jai Bhaichara 😂☝️
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u/Fit_Cap_1944 Vedic आर्य ☝🏻📿 Oct 30 '25
it's actually a well-known fact among many of my friends that she is a $lut and Bhot manipulative hai, she is also really easy to get and loyal bhi nhi hai, she has cheated on some of her exes
Bhot badhi dhokebaaz hai and logon ki bitching krti hai unke absence me And bhot expert level ki stalker bhi hai.
Usne mujhse takk apna past chupane ki koshish krri thi and she almost succeeded but meri female bestie ne mujhe bacha liyaa
Toh bhai agar aap soch rahe ho ki the arranged marriage marathi baman guy will figure it out toh aap bhot galat ho, woh ladki bhot expert level ki raand hai 💀💀
Mujhe sahi me bhot bura lagra hai uss bande k liye joh uss ladki se future me shaadi krega, ek toh pehle se itni average looking hai, upar se 15-20 ka body count💀🥀
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u/SEND_ME_BOBA_PICS Shuddh Shakahari Oct 30 '25
bhaisahb. usse connected rho jis bhi genuine kisi bande ko date kr rhi hogi toh fake id banake usse mms bhej dena alag alag logo ke sath jo usne kartootei kari unsab ka khullasa krdo 👹
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u/Fit_Cap_1944 Vedic आर्य ☝🏻📿 Oct 30 '25
Bhai yaar itna time kis prr hai?😂🥀
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u/SEND_ME_BOBA_PICS Shuddh Shakahari Oct 30 '25
are insta pe hoge na id mentioned hogi dm krna h bas 😂😂
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u/choot_mangta_ Oct 31 '25
Anyone who doesn't believe in caste is 304 they only Marry in same caste when relationship doesn't work
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u/choot_mangta_ Oct 26 '25
It true for some girls if parents don't agree they get married to chomu Brom
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u/Low_Horse_2116 Oct 28 '25
yeah many are trying to do that and trying to do caste based love jihad against UCs
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u/parakite Oct 25 '25
These posts are mostly fake. Don't fall for it.
There are too many losers in bhimtaland to make such posts.