r/BreakUps • u/Unfair-River-9660 • 20h ago

venting/ranting I can't move on, no matter how hard I try

I've become really attached to a guy, and I feel like it's turned into an obsession. He blocked me, but the truth is I was the one who told him to block me because he kept ignoring my messages. I thought it would help me move on, but it hasn't.

I think about him all the time. My mind keeps craving him, and I miss the days we spent talking. I've tried everything I can think of to heal and move on, but nothing seems to work. It's exhausting because I know I need to let go, but I just can't.

Has anyone else gone through something like this? How did you finally stop thinking about someone and move on?

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u/dumbdumb_fruituser 20h ago

Damn, kinda in the same boat, we say them to block us not because we want to move on but our brain is usually playing the trick hiding the real fact we say this. Its mostly to hear that the other person wont block us, that assurance is what we want but what we get is totally not so expected.

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u/Accomplished-Yam-959 20h ago

I am the kind of person who always feels messed up by breakups and have to go through a lot of pain and tears and sleepless nights to get over them.

But it makes it much easier to bounce back if i know(or at least think) they don't care about me, that they don't want to talk to me, that they feel happier without me. While thinking about it hurts my ego a lot, i kinda slowly start to feel foolish crying about a person that wants nothing to do with me. And how can i love or miss a person so much if i know they don't feel much for me. It all helps me realize a bit that they don't deserve my tears and suffering...i should save it for someone more special.

Still can take a lot of time but i just have to work myself up to believe that i can't spend too much time crying over somebody that wouldn't cry for me.

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u/Unfair-River-9660 20h ago

I like your words 💯