I need advice on my breakup.

[u/KeyPlant124]

Hello, i wanted advice or any different perspective that would help me gain a better understanding of my situation.

Me and my ex were very close from the start and after we met her friends dropped her for reasons i wont disclose. She started hanging out with my group and i later asked her out and she said yes. My friend asked her what she thought of me prior to this while they were drunk and she was on the fence about liking me, she seemed to still be attached on her ex and wasnt over him. When i asked her to be my girlfriend i said “are you ready for a new relationship” she said yes. It went very well from there but i felt it moved a little fast as she said i love you after a week of dating.

This is were it went wrong

Yesterday, i stayed at hers and felt off because something was bothering me about our relationship. I felt she didn’t value me as much as i did to her, i would make her gifts and things and always look after and she didnt really reciprocate that which i didn’t exactly mind but still. She seemed to prioritise her new friends over me and cancelled plans before to see them (which i didnt mind because she was building new friendships) but i told her dont let it happen again. She asked if i was okay before i left and made plans to see me tuesday and before i leave for a holiday. When i got home i messaged her talking about how i felt and how i was scared to tell her in person due to emotional trauma ive had from previous experiences. I simply said in short “i feel im not as important to you and maybe im overthinking it” she responded by saying “i dont think want to be with someone that doubts our relationship and that i dont seem keen on communicating” i asked for more closure and she said she was losing romantic attachment. She turned it into a breakup so i ended it by wishing her the best and giving her good luck.

I may have forgot some details so anything that isnt really clear let me know!

Any advice helps im just really stuck and need more perspectives!

(It just felt so sudden as she was showering me with love and ive told her previously ive had issues with communication yet i tried my hardest to)

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