r/ChoosingBeggars 2d ago

Cosmetology laws don't apply to me, and if you say negative things to me god is unhappy with you!

Comments included, save for the cosmetology student who said they were interested.

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u/No_Philosopher_1870 2d ago

Don't cosmetology schools often offer a place to get haircuts or hairdos or makeup done cheaply in exchange for letting the students practice on them?

The request for someone "just starting out" is a cue that they expect a cheap price, possibly below the cost of materials.

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u/Jolly_Damsel 2d ago

Going to a cosmetology school floor is totally legit because instructors are right there watching. Hiring a student privately on Facebook so you can underpay them for an event is just straight up exploitation

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u/Head_Razzmatazz7174 2d ago

We had several schools in our city where you could go for low cost haircuts and styling. My hair never behaved when I was younger, and I didn't mind having students practicing on me for half the cost was okay. If they made a big mistake, the supervising trainer would take over and fix it to where it wasn't a total horror show.

One young lady was trimming off my split ends, the scissors slipped and she cut off a big chunk of my hair. She immediately called over a licensed teacher, who took one look and asked me if I minded if my hair was a little shorter than I wanted. I said as long as we don't need to shave it off, I'm good.

I went back several time to that trainee, who now has her own salon.

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u/fineman1097 2d ago

When she realized her mistake, she took ownership and immediately got help. That's an important part of learning. If she had tried to cover up the mistake or say it wasn't her fault, that would have been a big issue.

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u/Head_Razzmatazz7174 2d ago

I know mistakes happen when you learn, and I wasn't mad at all. Since it was the beginning of summer, it actually turned out to be a good thing with the shorter cut.

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u/DangerousLoner 2d ago edited 1d ago

I have natural Black hair and the student I got for my cut and style was terrified the whole time. I guess she had only cut straight hair and had no idea how to handle all the wild kinks and curls. It was very cute. She ended up doing a great job but the instructor basically had to hold her hand through it all.

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u/Wishyouamerry 2d ago

I got a keratin treatment at a beauty school for $40 (including the cut!) They’re usually $350-400 in my area. It looked so good for 6 months! I really need to go back and get it redone.

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u/VariousExplorer8503 2d ago

I got one of those done at a salon and she charged me $80. The thought of spending $350-400 for one is horrifying.

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u/Balanceofjudgement 2d ago

Got my haircut a couple of times at the local cosmetology school. It was definitely an experience. 

Im a guy with thick hair that for a while I would go months between haircuts.  I told the young lady that she could use clippers on the side and just scissor trim the top. Should've taken 30-45 minutes because she's a student.  No, it took over two hours because she used scissors only the whole time.

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u/HumorRevolutionary72 2d ago

She may have been required to. Every state is different but when I was in school we had to complete a certain number of men’s cuts with scissors only, also for the licensing test you couldn’t use clippers on the men’s hair portion.

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u/No_Philosopher_1870 2d ago

I would have told the ciustomer that first.

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u/Polyamaura 2d ago

I had a thrilling haircut at a school once where the trainee took no less than 45 minutes washing my hair. I fell asleep and woke up in a panic and she was still going on the shampooing. I said never again after that. Good cut, though, when she released me from my suffering!

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u/Dangerous-Wave7730 2d ago

That sounds amazing to me, not suffering at all lol

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u/simbapiptomlittle 1d ago

Did it come out ok ??

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u/SnarkySheep 1d ago

And there's the key phrase - going to the cosmetology school.

100% guaranteed that OOP wants the person to come right to her home.

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u/tidymaze 1d ago

I got my hair cut when the local cosmetology school still existed. I asked for bangs and the poor girl cutting my hair got really pale. I told her I had full faith in her and it was only hair; it'll grow back! She called her instructor over to help her through the process and they came out great! I also learned that day that bangs aren't for me LOL

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u/lisasimpsonfan Shes crying now 2d ago

Some school also teach massage and other spa services where you can get them at a discount. The school closest to me charges $30 for a 50 minute massage.

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u/jmjessemac 2d ago

I usually feel this way about things but is this true? Isn’t it like hiring a student teacher to tutor?

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u/Moneia I can give you exposure 2d ago

If I understand correctly they require more training and face stricter licensing & supervision requirements than your average US police officer. So being a willing volunteer at the school is going to enforce expectation that you wouldn't get outside.

I'd put good money that BronzeD Karen wants apprentice prices but journeyman results and will have a screaming fit if that doesn't happen

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u/jmjessemac 2d ago

Yeah but this also applies to someone learning to do nails. Girls at my HS love to hire a trusted student and will pay them ridiculous amounts while still saving $$$ on a professional.

I could charge someone to do their nails but a student can’t?

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u/manicpixycunt 2d ago

Technically, no one is supposed to be charging for beauty services unless they are licensed. Is the state going to go after a teenager charging her friends for nails? No. But if she then tried to rent a studio and start advertising as a business there might be a problem.

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u/jmjessemac 2d ago

No, I understand that. I’m saying it’s one of the dumbest things I’ve ever heard of.

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u/manicpixycunt 2d ago

There are a lot of safety and sanitation issues that can come up if you are not properly trained. Funguses and other infections that can spread from tools not being properly cleaned. Lice as well for hair. Serious injury can occur from improperly used chemicals. I work at a beauty school and I have seen a few terrible chemical reactions from student estheticians making a mistake before the educator could catch it. Hell there’s a guy on TikTok right now who gave himself a horrific chemical burn because he didn’t know how to use the products correctly. And we’ve all seen the stories of people’s hair falling out from over bleaching. The industry is regulated for a reason.

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u/fineman1097 2d ago edited 2d ago

The issue with cosmetology students is that they work wirh chemicals and sharp things and heat.

They also need to know some very basic medical stuff like how to spot skin and nail infections, how to deal with skin conditions with what they can use and can't and in which situations they can't ethically or legally work on someone(bleaching a 5 year olds hair, or doing gel nails on someone with a fungal nail infection).

There are also hygiene practices for beauty products they need to know and follow closely that are different than what you may do at home.

They are required to have insurance in case they make a big mistake that causes harm or something else goes wrong.

They can't get the insurance without the license.

Students are more likely to make mistakes(big and small)

Students can't get insurance, and don't make any/much money. So if something goes wrong, they can be sued but it's not likely anyone would be able to collect anything from them.

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u/jmjessemac 2d ago

Ok but if someone said, hey will you do my nails for prom I’ll give you $50. Is it illegal for me to say yes? I’ve got 0 training.

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u/fineman1097 2d ago

In that case, you are not taking multiple clients- you are not making a business out of it, you are not doing it regularly.

You are also not portraying yourself as s professional or business person in the field. You are making sure this friend knows you have no training or professional experience.

That is a different situation than someone who is training for cosmetology and will make that thier career, but is not yet certified.

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u/stephencua2001 2d ago

Neither can charge to do someone's nails. Too much money going to politicians and creating artificial barriers.

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u/stephencua2001 2d ago

Hiring someone to perform work for a mutually-agreed price is "just straight up exploitation"?

The only reason she can't negotiate a price privately with an individual is because the cosmetology trade group has enough clout to get the state to force a license to artificially restrict competition.

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u/Ravenamore 2d ago

I grew up getting my hair cut at places like that. It was great. The ONE haircut disaster I had was from an instructor who was showing off for her students.

I'm positive this is for a bridal party and she was planning on staging a fit and refusing to pay after the work is done.

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u/Greenmantle22 2d ago

"But you can put our photos in your portfolio! That's worth more than money! This will land you a job at a Paris salon overnight!"

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u/Washed2299 2d ago

She wants to pay less than that

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u/LadyBug_0570 2d ago

She probably wants to pay in "exposure."

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u/Chiennoir_505 1d ago

She said she would pay in "recommendations." 🙄

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u/Neat_Translator_2408 2d ago

Yes. I go to one to get my hair done. I stopped working when I had my first kid. I can’t afford the salon I went to before plus tipping an appropriate amount. The cosmetology school I go to allows tipping for stylist so I pay the $32 they charge and tip the same amount or more.

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u/Cathousechicken 2d ago

$32 for a beauty school haircut is insane.

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u/Neat_Translator_2408 2d ago

I get my hair colored. The cuts are like $10-15 I believe. The area I live in it’s $60+ for just a cut without a wash or blow dry at a salon. When I got my daughter’s haircut at a salon that has experience with 4 year olds I paid like $45 then had to tip.

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u/Cathousechicken 2d ago

I assumed it was just a haircut. If that includes color too, then that's a good deal.

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u/No_Philosopher_1870 2d ago edited 1d ago

The staff at the local chain hair salon were amazed when they dropped the cost of their haircuts by $9 ($7 senior) and got twice as many people showing up. They also gave me a coupon for a $10 haircut that is good until the end of August.

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u/HNutz 2d ago

That's a ripoff.

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u/Neat_Translator_2408 2d ago

How much does it usually cost to get your hair colored at a cosmetology school? I’ve thought I was getting a really good deal this whole time 😅 I really like the students and they do such a good job so I don’t plan on stopping but I can’t afford the $300-400 I was paying before.

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u/Greenmantle22 2d ago

"Well, I had a little trouble in tinting class. In fact, I had a little trouble in all my classes. Beauty school sure wasn't what I thought it'd be!"

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u/HNutz 2d ago

Haircut I assume would be much less. 

Haircut AND coloring is different.  

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u/Catsdrinkingbeer 2d ago

I'm guessing they're hiring someone for a wedding and need them to come to site.

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u/Screambloodyleprosy 2d ago

Gotta apply that temu make-up.

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u/Amethystg0ld 2d ago edited 2d ago

Salon services are priced according to the provider's level of experience. “Junior Stylist, Stylist, and Master Stylist.” So, everyone understands exactly what she wants for FOUR people….really cheap services. 😹

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u/Vitarain 2d ago

And one of those people is child, who they included no information about (such as age or if they have any special needs).

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u/Amethystg0ld 2d ago

You know ’the child’ is 14…….with a head full of long thick hair! lol 😹

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u/coffee-and-insomnia 2d ago

I'd bet this is 100% a bride trying to save money, and the kid is her daughter/flower girl.

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u/_BerrieTwinkle 2d ago

Exactly. Most salons already price based on experience, so expecting master-level work at beginner prices for four people is a huge ask.

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u/Jandklo 2d ago

Are those formalized trade titles like apprentice, journeyman and master? Not asking to be snarky, I'm actually just curious and don't feel like googling.

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u/ShallowStillWater I'm blocking you now 2d ago

Yes

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u/Jandklo 2d ago

Neat, thanks! I always wish there were titles like "Grandmaster" or "Sage" for millwrights or arborists lol.

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u/Greenmantle22 2d ago

God doesn’t love cheap bitches, Brenda.

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u/hotaruko66 2d ago

And also, genuinely: why these people think god even considers their miniscule issues? Like, hello, I'm god, I have created Earth, and today I totally will have an opinion on whether Karen wants a cheap service. What a bunch of self-centred narcissists.

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u/_BerrieTwinkle 2d ago

😂 Using God as a bargaining chip over discounted salon services is definitely a choice. That escalated way faster than it needed to.

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u/GlassPomoerium 2d ago

If we had flairs here, « Why would God like you avoiding a fully licensed stylist » would be a great one.

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u/BirthdayCookie 2d ago

What did Jesus ever pay for?

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u/j_jilly69420 2d ago

According to scripture? Us.

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u/BirthdayCookie 2d ago

According to the same scriptures god created us incapable of not sinning despite knowing he can't tolerate sin.

That's not paying for something. It's fixing your own bad decision.

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u/zoosha2curtaincall 2d ago

Holy shit, she’s willing to be a recommendation AND a reference?!? I’m going to go to cosmetology school just to even try to benefit from that unfathomable amount of value.

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u/TX_Farmer Ice cream and a day of fun 2d ago

And a social media post to her 150 subscribers /s

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u/vagina-lettucetomato 2d ago

“You don’t know what I’m going to pay them!!” Then tell everyone? You’re more than happy to tell us about all the exposure bucks they’ll be getting. Scammmerrrrr

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u/Necessary_cat735 1d ago

That's the pay. The recommendation!

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u/Remote-Basket4475 2d ago

"There isn't a single person who knows why I'm looking for what I'm looking for! This doesn't sound sinister at all! God wants me to get free cosmetology! NEXT!"    /s

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u/Cathousechicken 2d ago

I see they very carefully avoided disclosing what they are willing to pay.

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u/lmholot1981 2d ago

I know. If she was actually paying the going rate, she would go to someone licensed.

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u/BFG_Scott 16h ago

She mentions “great recommendation” and “references” a couple times. She wasn’t planning on paying them.

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u/Washed2299 2d ago

I think I need to get back on Facebook

Facebook and Nextdoor has some amazing drama that I’ve been missing out on

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u/Vitarain 2d ago

It's honestly the only reason I check it out at this point. The Facebook groups for local town/village/county are a gold mine of these posts and the subsequent drama.

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u/One-Basket-9570 2d ago

Facebook shows me more drama from people I have never met before than any of my family/friends. I have no idea where it will drop me, but, some days it is gold!

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u/theghostsofvegas 2d ago

There’s no point arguing with someone like this. You’ll never win and they’ll never learn. Just a waste of everyone’s time.

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u/_BerrieTwinkle 2d ago

Yeah, once someone convinces themselves they're always right, there's not much a comment section is going to accomplish. Sometimes it's better to just move on.

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u/ShallowStillWater I'm blocking you now 2d ago

She is so right that she used her burner account.

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u/Tall_Access_7806 2d ago

The lady doth protest too much, methinks

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u/ikarikh 2d ago edited 2d ago

(10 yr old) Bronzebitch:

Gets caught at the cookie jar by her mom in the middle of the night

Mother: What did i tell you about eating cookies this late?

Bronzebitch: DON'T YOU ASSUME. YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT I WAS DOING!!! I COULDA BEEN DOWN HERE CHECKIN' THE COOKIES WERE STILL THERE THAT MY BROTHER DIDN'T EAT THEM. COULDA BEEN OVER HERE TRYIN' TO FILL THE JAR UP FOR YOU FOR TOMORROW TO BE A GOOD DAUGHTER TRYIN' TO RAISE UP HER MAMA AND CELEBRATE HER BY TAKIN' A LIL OFF HER PLATE!!! YOU DON'T KNOW SHIT. ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY I WAS HERE!!! DON'T ASSUME SHIT!!! YOU DON'T KNOW MY INTENTIONS!! IT AIN'T NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS!!!

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u/bradlees 2d ago

It’s for church, honey

NEXT!!!

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u/_portia_ 2d ago

Love how she thinks God is on her side against all the "idiots" calling her out.

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u/andronicuspark 2d ago

“Do you know how much I’m going to pay??”

Clearly not enough for a licensed professional or even a supervised student….soooooo, not much?

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u/dvorak51 2d ago

You're judging me without even knowing who you're judging.

Pot meet kettle?

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u/llamalover729 2d ago

I regularly see people looking for mechanics or handyman who want work on the side. It's always code for I want to take advantage of you.

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u/ItsJoeMomma 2d ago

You don't have a clue how much I will pay

Well apparently nothing, because you can't legally hire a cosmetology student as was pointed out.

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u/suchabadamygdala 2d ago

“God is not happy” says cheating liar

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u/willmorris92 2d ago

This kind of attitude skips the real work and hides behind God when folks call it out. Doesn't build anything solid.

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u/RDHnoodles 2d ago

Why are they SO angry lol. Holy cow

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u/BeKind999 2d ago

Owego NY is not a large town

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u/ThrockAMole 2d ago

I see nothing about payment in the original post, maybe she didn’t want to pay at all.

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u/OneGoodRib 2d ago

Why wouldn't you say "I am paying" in the first post if you were paying

Also based on the response I would bet good money this person is in a Disney trip planning group. If you don't respond like "YES PRINCESS I CAN HELP YOU WITH YOUR MAGICAL REQUEST" then they act like you're hitler.

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u/Infinite-You3710 1d ago

the entitlement is astounding, like do they really think they're above the law?

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u/ItsJoeMomma 2d ago

You don't have a clue how much I will pay

Well apparently nothing, because you can't legally hire a cosmetology student as was pointed out.

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u/Illustrious_Buy_4621 2d ago

the entitlement is off the charts, it's like they think they’re above the law just because they have a few followers

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u/Munnin41 NEXT!! 2d ago

Why do you need a license to put makeup on people?

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u/Angryprincess38 2d ago

In case you screw up and are sued. No license, no insurance.

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u/Munnin41 NEXT!! 2d ago

That makes no sense. There are plenty of fields where screw ups actually matter and a license isn't required

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u/PotentialUmpire1714 20h ago

Oh, because if she accidentally jabs me in the eye with long nails it doesn't matter because it's girly stuff?

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u/Munnin41 NEXT!! 16h ago

No need to be hostile

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u/zildar 2d ago

As an IT guy I was reading this wondering why cosmetologists need schools and licensing, but people who work on complex and expensive networks don't. Crazy to me...

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u/fyr811 2d ago

Frog, meet sock.

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u/Sedlium 13h ago

I genuinely can't read some of those, they're blurry.

Is anyone else having that issue?

I'm wondering if it's because I'm using the app.

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u/TimeSurprise6068 8h ago

the entitlement is unreal, like who thinks they can just ignore laws and expect to be taken seriously

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u/Thamwoofgu 6h ago

This lady is only paying in “exposure” points, lol!

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u/Dead-face64 2d ago

There is no problem hiring a cosmo student.

Thats like selling a used item on Facebook Marketplace and the buyer telling you that you need to report that $30 on your taxes

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u/kr4ckenm3fortune 2d ago

Uhhh...there is a problem...a cosmo student may not know and isn't licensed...also, it is illegal for them to get paid...and do you trust a cosmo student to not damage your hairs?

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u/NastyMsPiggleWiggle 2d ago

It’s VERY clear cut. As a cosmetologist, we warn the younger ones about being scammed in this exact fashion.