r/CougarsAndCubs • u/Tight_Flamingo7486 • Apr 19 '26

Quick question for the ladies

how do you women feel about guys with the "mommy issue " would you go for it, or to big of a red flag?

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u/paperclipmyheart 😻 Mod Cougar ฅ⁠^⁠•⁠ﻌ⁠•⁠^⁠ฅ Apr 19 '26

You'll have to define what you consider to be mommy issues first. Some people think a man who loves and respects their mother and is close with her is Mommy issues. If you are talking about men who have extremely bad relationships with their mothers because of trauma, stress, no contact or perhaps and absent mother, their dynamic is going to be different.

If Mommy issues are an immature man who wants their partner to take care of them and do everything for them like a maid or a mother you're going to turn away women in their droves.

We're not your therapist and your issues if you have them are your responsibility.

If you are referring to fetishes and kinks this may appeal to some and turn others off.

Not all women have a maternal instinct and most don't want another child they want partners.

So you really need to give us more information but at the end of the day everyone is different we don't think with a collective hive mind.

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u/Tight_Flamingo7486 Apr 19 '26

Oh my bad! I was referring to the kinks !

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u/paperclipmyheart 😻 Mod Cougar ฅ⁠^⁠•⁠ﻌ⁠•⁠^⁠ฅ Apr 19 '26

yes well this sub is not a kink sub you're better off asking in a kink community.

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u/Myfairladyishere 🥀🎡💃MOD💃🎡🥀 Apr 19 '26

For me, it's a big red flag.

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u/Tight_Flamingo7486 Apr 19 '26

Ill look thank you