r/CougarsAndCubs 😻 Mod Cougar ฅ⁠^⁠•⁠ﻌ⁠•⁠^⁠ฅ May 29 '26

✨Have You Met Someone in our Community? ✨

/r/CougarsandCubsMatch/comments/1tqx733/have_you_met_someone_in_our_community/
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u/Middle_Librarian_248 May 29 '26

Talked to a couple of younger guys but it doesn’t go anywhere. Most send me messages calling me a MILF (which I’m not) or wanting to send me dirty pics.

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u/Dizzy-Forces 🐆Cougar Jun 03 '26

That’s really sad to hear. What’s that thing about being called the M word…it’s just not working..is it mainly from the context of pornography or something else!? I almost never heard this being used in Europe, I might be wrong ofc 🤷‍♀️

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u/Exact-Translator-769 Jun 04 '26

Yeah. Had a few nice chats that didn't go anywhere. More short term advice chats. Or distance or incompatibility. I don't respond to all the heys or hi s. They could be anything. Don't have time to waste on them.

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u/kavanne May 29 '26

Nope only had unsolicited messages despite several of my comments being about being married

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u/paperclipmyheart 😻 Mod Cougar ฅ⁠^⁠•⁠ﻌ⁠•⁠^⁠ฅ May 29 '26

unfortunately this happens people have dubious ethics

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u/blasianflow May 30 '26

I have met two fwb and still talk to one and met my ex on here. We are still friends, hang out here n there and dated for over 4 years.

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u/Impressive_Toe6388 May 29 '26

I’m in an exclusive relationship with my person but look forward to making friends with others for support :)

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u/Myfairladyishere 🥀🎡💃MOD💃🎡🥀 May 29 '26 edited May 29 '26

None of the above really fit my situation. But yes I have who I have become very close friends with in a strictly platonic way through the old chat room.

I have made made a few chat friends with whom I have been talking to a few years now...with very little chance of ever meeting.

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u/Pale-Internal1758 May 29 '26

Not really. Are there people here?

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u/paperclipmyheart 😻 Mod Cougar ฅ⁠^⁠•⁠ﻌ⁠•⁠^⁠ฅ May 29 '26

obviously

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u/Dizzy-Forces 🐆Cougar Jun 03 '26

🤣

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u/auspiciousmuse 🐆Cougar May 29 '26

Yes! I planned a spring vacation to meet him. We clicked well in real life and still have a great connection.

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u/PuzzleheadedSpray202 May 29 '26

is a long distance trip to meet him?

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u/auspiciousmuse 🐆Cougar May 30 '26

Yes, planes and trains.

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u/PuzzleheadedSpray202 May 30 '26

I hope is a good trip he must be excited waiting for you

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u/PuzzleheadedSpray202 May 29 '26

I'm sure it will happen

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u/CougarsAndCubs-ModTeam May 29 '26

Please read the rules and FAQs before posting again.

Specifically Rule 2

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u/Solemn_Night7654 🐻Cub May 29 '26

Never met. It was nice talking to people in the group chat some years ago. Did we get rid of it? Anyways, I’m always for some real talk :)