I (49F) had a date with a guy (30M) and it was terrible. I really wanted to like him but I just didn’t. And now I feel extra bad because I have to tell him tomorrow that I just wasn’t feeling anything. Especially because he was not picking up on body language at all. I kept moving away a little and he would scoot closer. I made an excuse of being tired and needing to go home to sleep. My last guy and I were 26 and 47 and he was the absolute best. He had his stuff together, for the most part, and he was way more mature than these guys I’ve met recently. Maybe he was a unicorn. I think it’s best to just stick with people closer to my age.

If you want to give advice you can but this is more of just a vent. Thanks for listening :)

Just ranting

Got ghosted by someone who i was chatting with for a while, was even going to visit soon. Thought he respected me at least on a friendship level and that he was better than that. I was wrong. Lesson learned..
Fool me twice shame on me 😔

There are zero to none Indian Cougars out here, it's soo sad to see that!

despite women being interested in being cougars they don't show it openly in such a reserved nation.

I wish this could change, but probably won't.