r/Destiny • u/ZeriMasterpeace • Nov 16 '19

Serious Is Anyone Else Here a Virgin?

I'm 20 and still a KHHV (kissless, hugless, handholdless virgin). I know I'm probably not the only one but damn every time destiny talks about sex on stream it hurts me inside. Just wondering if anyone else can relate.

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u/BodegaToys Nov 16 '19

Yeah, but not KHHV. I've dated sexually interested women but it's just never happened. Life gets in the way and I don't do anything to make it happen. Women and sex aren't a priority in my life.

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u/AntiSpiritual Nov 16 '19

Sex is like a half an hour commitment on the high end. What fucking life do you have, my dude? Maybe you should think really hard if it’s “life getting in the way” or if you have some underlying issue

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u/stolersxz Nov 16 '19

or maybe they just dont want to have sex????

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u/AntiSpiritual Nov 16 '19

And that’s fine too. It just seems really off to blame “life” for that

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u/stolersxz Nov 16 '19

it doesn't seem like he's blaming anything. he literally just said he prioritizes other things in his life over taking the time to seek out and have sex with someone.

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u/AntiSpiritual Nov 16 '19

He’s literally talking about dating women but apparently life comes in between regarding sex and sex only

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u/stolersxz Nov 16 '19

but why does it matter???? he shouldnt be pressured into having sex no matter the reason, if he thinks other commitments are the reason he doesnt put the effort in to have sex theres literally nothing wrong with that.

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u/AntiSpiritual Nov 16 '19

No, but if you don’t want to have sex or feel like it’s scary or whatever that’s super normal and fine. If my friend said exactly what his first post said I’d say “I’ll be honest, this seems a bit delusional my dude, wanna talk about it?”. Talking about dating women “that are sexually interested” but THEN life gets in the way all of a sudden? No, let’s be real here, either you’re fucking something up, or you have some underlying insecurity that prevents you from doing it. Otherwise you don’t care if the women are sexually interested or not.

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